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If you buy a massive 4×4 SUV...

518 replies

bravefox · 15/02/2025 14:34

... to ask you to practise parking it in a single space? Saturday afternoon in the town multistorey and the number of huge cars parked half in a second space is 🤯

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FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 15/02/2025 22:40

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 15/02/2025 22:18

Fiat 500's are fur coat and no knickers? I think you've misunderstood the saying 🤣🤣🤣

Actually thinking on it, considering the price of a RR you have absolutely misunderstood this saying.

AnxiouslyAwaitingSpring · 15/02/2025 22:38

@bravefox It's not always a choice! Many, many disabled people have them as they don't require bending to get into and a lot of equipment hoists etc are designed for cars that are higher up. I had no choice with mine. None at all.

AnxiouslyAwaitingSpring · 15/02/2025 22:35

LillyPJ · 15/02/2025 14:55

I think it's a shame people buy them in the first place. I suspect it's just because they like to look down on other people.

90% of all Motability vehicles on the road are SUVs simply because they're easy to get into when you're disabled, they don't require bending.

Spacehoppersrule · 15/02/2025 22:33

Coatsoff42 · 15/02/2025 22:25

I worked in a hospital looking after people in various accidents, including hit by cars. There were much fewer pedestrians and cyclists we treated after being hit by 4x4s, it was generally accepted that they all died usually, but people hit by lower profile cars were more likely to live. I think something to do with the torso and abdomen being hit at velocity and rupturing the aorta rather than the legs which is less fatal.
they are selfish cars for selfish people

I assume it’s the same if pedestrians or cyclists are hit by a bus? Are the people that use those selfish too?

Coatsoff42 · 15/02/2025 22:25

I worked in a hospital looking after people in various accidents, including hit by cars. There were much fewer pedestrians and cyclists we treated after being hit by 4x4s, it was generally accepted that they all died usually, but people hit by lower profile cars were more likely to live. I think something to do with the torso and abdomen being hit at velocity and rupturing the aorta rather than the legs which is less fatal.
they are selfish cars for selfish people

AnSolas · 15/02/2025 22:20

Plantatreetoday · 15/02/2025 21:34

Architect here, we also develope.
None of my white van men/ women ever arrive with a full van of stuff as I supply all materials and most of their equipment too.( lots of clients supply materials ) I really don’t know why they need their vans, they could easily jump on the tube, train or bus

Tbh unless you have your van stacked to the top there’s no need for them. Haven’t you ever noticed how everything (if anything) is low level, the spaces are never filled. Well not in my too long experience.

The only tradespeople I know that need their space are gardeners and tree cutters ( ? ). They have quite big machines in the back of their vans!

So you see.
We don’t all live the same lives and
there are many many complex reasons why people make the choices they do
which is why
i prefer not to judge

live and let live.

Edited

Ha ha ha ha ha aaahhhhaaa

Right😂

Whats the best bulk buy rate for hammers these days?

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 15/02/2025 22:18

SlaveToAGoldenRetriever · 15/02/2025 22:14

The common denominator in Fiat 500s and RRs is that they are fur coat no knickers cars for people who only care about their image, if you want me to be brutally honest.

Fiat 500's are fur coat and no knickers? I think you've misunderstood the saying 🤣🤣🤣

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 15/02/2025 22:17

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 22:13

They sound like a lot of fun. Many years ago I had a Suzuki Cappuccino which used to go like the wind. I loved that little car.

Fun is exactly what they are.

SlaveToAGoldenRetriever · 15/02/2025 22:14

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 15/02/2025 20:49

What does this even mean??

Also to the poster you've quoted, 500's are not fucking tiny 🤣 Are you sure you owned one?

The common denominator in Fiat 500s and RRs is that they are fur coat no knickers cars for people who only care about their image, if you want me to be brutally honest.

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 22:13

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 15/02/2025 22:05

They are on the take off, sustaining the speed can be an issue but I try my best 🤣 I call it the pocket rocket and I love it, had it 6 years, which for me is quite a long time, purely because I can't find a car I like as much.

They sound like a lot of fun. Many years ago I had a Suzuki Cappuccino which used to go like the wind. I loved that little car.

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 15/02/2025 22:05

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 21:32

Oh I really like the look of the Abarth. Are they properly speedy?

They are on the take off, sustaining the speed can be an issue but I try my best 🤣 I call it the pocket rocket and I love it, had it 6 years, which for me is quite a long time, purely because I can't find a car I like as much.

Bubblyb00b · 15/02/2025 22:00

Plantatreetoday · 15/02/2025 21:34

Architect here, we also develope.
None of my white van men/ women ever arrive with a full van of stuff as I supply all materials and most of their equipment too.( lots of clients supply materials ) I really don’t know why they need their vans, they could easily jump on the tube, train or bus

Tbh unless you have your van stacked to the top there’s no need for them. Haven’t you ever noticed how everything (if anything) is low level, the spaces are never filled. Well not in my too long experience.

The only tradespeople I know that need their space are gardeners and tree cutters ( ? ). They have quite big machines in the back of their vans!

So you see.
We don’t all live the same lives and
there are many many complex reasons why people make the choices they do
which is why
i prefer not to judge

live and let live.

Edited

Believe it or not, also an architect and someone who is often on site. Never question tradespeople using vans, it would simply be massively unreasonable as I actually know how builders operate - they prefer using their own tools, and their vans are basically their offices full paperwork, drawings, and everything they might need during the day. Some builders do travel by tube, you can see them in their caulk covered jeans with hard hats in hand. But most simply can't carry it all in a backpack.

You can't compare it with a mum driving her darlings to a private school though Oxford Street in a massive G-wagon, being annoyed there are people she has to watch out for.

Drylogsonly · 15/02/2025 21:47

Plantatreetoday · 15/02/2025 21:34

Architect here, we also develope.
None of my white van men/ women ever arrive with a full van of stuff as I supply all materials and most of their equipment too.( lots of clients supply materials ) I really don’t know why they need their vans, they could easily jump on the tube, train or bus

Tbh unless you have your van stacked to the top there’s no need for them. Haven’t you ever noticed how everything (if anything) is low level, the spaces are never filled. Well not in my too long experience.

The only tradespeople I know that need their space are gardeners and tree cutters ( ? ). They have quite big machines in the back of their vans!

So you see.
We don’t all live the same lives and
there are many many complex reasons why people make the choices they do
which is why
i prefer not to judge

live and let live.

Edited

agreed, the plebs really should take public transport not drive. Or perhaps make sure they have a car as well as a van, to use. Perhaps a Range Rover or Aston Martin?
It really is a mystery why trades people use vans as transport… bewildering…

Plantatreetoday · 15/02/2025 21:34

Bubblyb00b · 15/02/2025 21:23

Well all I can say I would not drive in central London if I could help it... Traffic... narrow streets... no parking...congestion charge and other stuff like that...people damaging your car if parked in the street...

Basically, a massive ball ache with little positives. White vans have to do it, they are tradesmen. They have vans full of paint, garden stuff, etc.

Architect here, we also develope.
None of my white van men/ women ever arrive with a full van of stuff as I supply all materials and most of their equipment too.( lots of clients supply materials ) I really don’t know why they need their vans, they could easily jump on the tube, train or bus

Tbh unless you have your van stacked to the top there’s no need for them. Haven’t you ever noticed how everything (if anything) is low level, the spaces are never filled. Well not in my too long experience.

The only tradespeople I know that need their space are gardeners and tree cutters ( ? ). They have quite big machines in the back of their vans!

So you see.
We don’t all live the same lives and
there are many many complex reasons why people make the choices they do
which is why
i prefer not to judge

live and let live.

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 21:32

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 15/02/2025 21:30

Mines an Abarth so no city mode, just fast or faster 🤣🤣

Oh I really like the look of the Abarth. Are they properly speedy?

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 15/02/2025 21:30

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 21:25

Actually the doors were big on my 3 door. But I found the turning circle to be really good, if you had it in City mode.

Mines an Abarth so no city mode, just fast or faster 🤣🤣

Drylogsonly · 15/02/2025 21:26

More! More!

Drylogsonly · 15/02/2025 21:26

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 21:00

Not at all smug. Just a very sensible attitude and approach to driving a large car like a RR, surely? Why wouldn't you learn how to properly drive it?

And I don't see the point in owning one if it'd going to cause you stress because you're worried about it getting scratched, or some twat keying it? If you cannot really afford to maintain it or repair it, don't buy one.

I don't see it as a status symbol, for me that would be something like a vintage Aston Martin

The gift that keeps giving 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 21:25

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 15/02/2025 21:22

Nope, they're small but definitely not tiny and the doors are fucking massive! As is their turning circle unfortunately.

Actually the doors were big on my 3 door. But I found the turning circle to be really good, if you had it in City mode.

Bubblyb00b · 15/02/2025 21:23

Plantatreetoday · 15/02/2025 21:04

I don’t own a Tesco tractor 🤣🤣🤣 I didn’t even know tescos had them
but
I do park in ebbsfleet and use PT from there ( along with many I know )

However,if I’m going to town ( even London ) and I need stuff. ie For work. Then I can’t carry it all on the tube, bus, train, taxi as
its too heavy
There’s too much of it
Its too bulky
Im not hulk

Im sure there are many others that drive to town using a vehicle and not public transport because they have stuff…..have you seen the lines and lines of white vans exiting London from 2pm onwards.

Well all I can say I would not drive in central London if I could help it... Traffic... narrow streets... no parking...congestion charge and other stuff like that...people damaging your car if parked in the street...

Basically, a massive ball ache with little positives. White vans have to do it, they are tradesmen. They have vans full of paint, garden stuff, etc.

FieldInWhichFucksAreGrownIsBarren · 15/02/2025 21:22

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 21:02

Mine was tiny. It was about 10 years old though. Maybe they're bigger nowadays?

Nope, they're small but definitely not tiny and the doors are fucking massive! As is their turning circle unfortunately.

WithManyTot · 15/02/2025 21:22

Mysterian · 15/02/2025 21:10

And if you drive a 4x4 SUV and meet a VW Golf on a narrow road it should be YOU that goes onto the gravel verge.

I find I have no choice, as when I meet townies in VW Golfs on a narrow road, they have no idea how wide their car is, and sit several feet out from the verge, paralysed like a rabbit caught in headlights. And when it comes to needing to reverse, is it the VW Golf, or the tractor towing a huge trailer? Answers on a post card to I'class="underline">reverse.com [email protected]

Plantatreetoday · 15/02/2025 21:15

Mysterian · 15/02/2025 21:10

And if you drive a 4x4 SUV and meet a VW Golf on a narrow road it should be YOU that goes onto the gravel verge.

I thought that depended on the nearest passing place and who’s side it was on. I wouldn’t expect any car to sit in front of a passing place and expect me to go off-road to accommodate them just because their car wasn’t fit to use the road.

We should always use established road rules and safety measures.

That goes for all the huge trucks lost on satnav as well.

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 21:14

Plantatreetoday · 15/02/2025 21:11

Or a handmade Morgan 🙂

That's so cool!

Iheartmysmart · 15/02/2025 21:14

I’ve got a tiny, tiny car and really don’t give a shiny shit what other people drive as long as you’re not a motorway middle lane hogger or one of those utter arseholes who pull out in front of me then piss around at 10 miles under the speed limit. But even though it’s a small car, the doors are quite big and some parking spaces are so tight it’s a struggle to open them properly. Goodness knows how people get in and out of their normal size cars. I’m pretty sure my Smart car is about the same size as my old classic mini.