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If you buy a massive 4×4 SUV...

518 replies

bravefox · 15/02/2025 14:34

... to ask you to practise parking it in a single space? Saturday afternoon in the town multistorey and the number of huge cars parked half in a second space is 🤯

OP posts:
mathanxiety · 15/02/2025 18:29

Plantatreetoday · 15/02/2025 17:47

Agree
The safest thing to do is to reverse into a parking space.
Irrespective of personal convenience
Reversing in obviously means it’s safer to move away afterwards and particularly important if pedestrians are walking in the car park and if you have passengers in the back seat.

The opposite is held to be true in the US in perpendicular car parks. The potential damage to cars parked alongside from buggies or supermarket trollies pushed to the back of the car to enable loading of the boot at the back of the parking spot is a major consideration.

Perpendicular car parks where backing in is possible also require more space in the aisle for reversing maneuvers, so nobody is coming out ahead, space wise.

fatandtrying · 15/02/2025 18:28

bravefox · 15/02/2025 18:17

This is a great post. As I've said up thread, I actually own an SUV myself.

I don't have a problem with the vehicles themselves, just people who buy them and aren't able to park in a single space.

Lots of posts saying 'but average 1970s space is 240cm etc'. Please show me the cars that are wider than 240cm then.

Just learn to park properly!

I always reverse in spaces but my favourite thing to do is let DH run in the supermarket while I sit and watch everyone park 😂the amount of people who can't park even in tiny cars is enough entertainment for me instead of going shopping

mathanxiety · 15/02/2025 18:23

CrystalSingerFan · 15/02/2025 18:00

@mathanxiety

"I live in the US, where car parks are properly designed (wider spaces, more often than not angled)."

That's interesting. (Obvs you lot have more space generally than we do. 😀)

  1. What are the rules/recommendations of your Highway Code equivalent about reversing into parking spaces?
  2. Why are your spaces often angled? Is there a provable/perceived benefit?

Cross posted wrt the many benefits of angled parking spaces.

Each municipality sets its own rules about backing into spaces. Stores with carparks can also set their own rules. Before the advent of rearview cameras in cars, the local ground level municipal carparks and carparks in big box stores nearby all had signs forbidding backing into parking spots. You could get ticketed in the municipal carparks, and fines were steep. That rule no longer applies because so many cars now have cameras that a nine year old child could probably park a car today. The backing in rules only applied in perpendicular car parks - its impossible and very inadvisable to try backing into an angled spot.

Not all of the US has lots of space - the urban east coast is very densely populated and landlocked. I live in a landlocked suburb in the midwest where the only option for building is up, or demolition and repurposing of existing sites.

But even in rural areas, angled parking is preferable because many people have trucks as their primary vehicle (Ford F150 style).

AnSolas · 15/02/2025 18:22

TagSplashMaverick · 15/02/2025 18:06

They’re bad ass? The vantage point is good and high? They’re loud and chuntery? They tow? They fit lots? I can fit a sheep in it? They bounce nicely across fields? You can drive through closed gates?

Back in the day Rolls Royce took back a motor from a farmer who was using it that way for breach of branding

Plantatreetoday · 15/02/2025 18:22

bravefox · 15/02/2025 18:17

This is a great post. As I've said up thread, I actually own an SUV myself.

I don't have a problem with the vehicles themselves, just people who buy them and aren't able to park in a single space.

Lots of posts saying 'but average 1970s space is 240cm etc'. Please show me the cars that are wider than 240cm then.

Just learn to park properly!

Space standards are still 2.4m wide for parking.
The problem is not necessarily that cars can’t fit in but that people are much larger now so many will park not central in order to give themselves room to get out.
Ive noticed if someone is badly parked they’ve usually given more room on the drivers side.

soupyspoon · 15/02/2025 18:20

crankytoes · 15/02/2025 17:53

I always find these complaints weird. No one complains about estate or sedan cars even though they can easily be wider and longer than SUV. Some SUVs are not even much taller than some estates.

I complain, they're way too long and also they poke out of side roads because the driver cant see without putting the car right out into the road

bravefox · 15/02/2025 18:17

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 17:50

Ah, the frothing rage is strong on here I see.

I drive a RR, not one of the toy ones, one of the proper sized ones. My previous 2 cars were little city go-carts and I got sick to death of being road-bullied by larger cars.

Yes, I'm very good at manoeuvring it and parking it because I've enjoyed 2 separate Range Rover training courses. I never park across spaces because I don't need to.

I don't care about the size of the boot. I love that it glides along, as though it runs on double cream and has velvet tyres.

It isn't financed, but when I buy my next one in 3 years time I will definitely finance it because I've realised it's madness not to. My money works far harder for me by being sensibly invested, not tied up in a car chassis.

I'm not remotely precious about it. If it gets grubby then I get it valeted. If it gets a ding or a scratch then I get it repaired, it's no big deal.

So, it doesn't bother me in the slightest if someone in an angry little Corsa refuses to let me pull out, because I'm contentedly sitting in my own little 5* hotel on wheels.

This is a great post. As I've said up thread, I actually own an SUV myself.

I don't have a problem with the vehicles themselves, just people who buy them and aren't able to park in a single space.

Lots of posts saying 'but average 1970s space is 240cm etc'. Please show me the cars that are wider than 240cm then.

Just learn to park properly!

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SwerveCity · 15/02/2025 18:16

I would ask them not to park outside school while dropping off on the zigzag lines. Knobhead.

bpirockin · 15/02/2025 18:14

IMHO most people in the UK park like shit. I am disabled but badgeless and need a decent space when getting out, so when I park I park to one side, ensuring that the driver (like myself) next to me can get in and out. If that means me going in front first rather than my preferred reverse, then so be it. All it takes is a little thought. If I can find an end space, then great, but if not, then it's one-sided for me. I believe in some countries that's how everyone parks, and it works for me, apart from the inevitable occasional twat.

denhaag · 15/02/2025 18:13

stayathomer · 15/02/2025 18:10

  • I live in the US, where car parks are properly designed (wider spaces, more often than not angled).*
Were in the us last year and the kids nearly fell over in shock at the size of the cars there, so many absolute tanks!! The emissions on them must be nuts!!!

It kinds of puts our efforts to lower our emissions into perspective.

stayathomer · 15/02/2025 18:10
  • I live in the US, where car parks are properly designed (wider spaces, more often than not angled).*
Were in the us last year and the kids nearly fell over in shock at the size of the cars there, so many absolute tanks!! The emissions on them must be nuts!!!
mathanxiety · 15/02/2025 18:09

CrystalSingerFan · 15/02/2025 17:54

Interesting. My (old small) supermarket car park has a row of single ordinary (non-disabled) spaces with a driving lane on either side so people can load their boots. Perhaps suggest this to yours?

Interesting about the slanted spaces. We have these in a nearby farm shop and I hate them. I'd love some stats on why they're designed like that and the relative safety rates for different styles of parking.

mocktheorytest.com/resources/is-it-safer-to-reverse-into-a-car-parking-space/

Angled spots are much safer because they're easier to get into and out of. That's why they're the norm in the US, where a lot of design of spaces used by the public is based on the cost of insurance.

They're easier to back out of because they give you a better view of traffic as you're backing out. They're easier to get into because you don't have to make a wide turn to line up your vehicle, and your risk of hitting a vehicle parked alongside as you drive in is also greatly reduced. They discourage backing in (which comes with the risk of hitting other parked cars depending on camera availability in the car). They reduce the turning distance needed in a car park - cars need more space to enter and back out and do the necessary turns in a perpendicular car park. They cut down on delays to other traffic in the carpark (and exhaust emissions) - there's less sitting there watching someone back out and then do multiple maneuvers trying to get themselves pointed in the right direction to drive away.

TagSplashMaverick · 15/02/2025 18:06

Bubblyb00b · 15/02/2025 17:43

Unless you are a farmer, there is no need to own one. For city dwellers, they are very useful if you want to make sure you deffo kill anyone you accidentally bump into while driving... cant' think any other reason to own one.

They’re bad ass? The vantage point is good and high? They’re loud and chuntery? They tow? They fit lots? I can fit a sheep in it? They bounce nicely across fields? You can drive through closed gates?

CrystalSingerFan · 15/02/2025 18:04

AnSolas · 15/02/2025 17:58

That cuts down avaiable parking spaces
2 to 1 v
1 to 1

Not necessaily. There's lots of double-sided car-backing-onto-car rows of bays. This single row is closest to the supermarket (apart from the disabled/family bays) and they clearly couldn't fit another double sided bay in. For people who aren't ready/able to get a disabled sticker, and can't load their cars from the side, they'd work well. Drive in forwards, drive out the other side. Works well.

TagSplashMaverick · 15/02/2025 18:02

Organically · 15/02/2025 17:10

You’re the reason I key cars

You probably shouldn’t write stuff like this online. 😂

Newbutoldfather · 15/02/2025 18:02

The issue is large 4x4s in overcrowded metropolitan areas, especially in the South of England, not 4x4s per se.

If you are regularly driving through deep surface water or engaging your diff lock to get out of your drive when it is icy, they are entirely appropriate.

Mrsbloggz · 15/02/2025 18:01

Wordau · 15/02/2025 14:46

They're too big for single spaces a lot of the time.

They're too big full stop.

Fucking ridiculous for city dwellers to have these wanky child killing machines.

If you have one, I judge you.

Agree!

orzomushroom · 15/02/2025 18:01

madamweb · 15/02/2025 16:19

So we should just concrete over more and more space so plonkers can drive around in oversized status symbols?

It's like people don't give even the tiniest fuck about the planet

Also the majority of these people don’t actually own the car because they cannot afford it! 😂

User21012025 · 15/02/2025 18:01

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 17:50

Ah, the frothing rage is strong on here I see.

I drive a RR, not one of the toy ones, one of the proper sized ones. My previous 2 cars were little city go-carts and I got sick to death of being road-bullied by larger cars.

Yes, I'm very good at manoeuvring it and parking it because I've enjoyed 2 separate Range Rover training courses. I never park across spaces because I don't need to.

I don't care about the size of the boot. I love that it glides along, as though it runs on double cream and has velvet tyres.

It isn't financed, but when I buy my next one in 3 years time I will definitely finance it because I've realised it's madness not to. My money works far harder for me by being sensibly invested, not tied up in a car chassis.

I'm not remotely precious about it. If it gets grubby then I get it valeted. If it gets a ding or a scratch then I get it repaired, it's no big deal.

So, it doesn't bother me in the slightest if someone in an angry little Corsa refuses to let me pull out, because I'm contentedly sitting in my own little 5* hotel on wheels.

Love this 👆

Arraminta · 15/02/2025 18:01

LadyRoughDiamond · 15/02/2025 17:57

I must admit, this baffles me too. Large, luxe 4x4s usually come with myriad parking sensors, cameras etc and have great visibility due to higher driving position. It’s one of the reasons I have one (along with needing four wheel drive due to floods, farmers leaving god-knows-what on the road and other rural driving nightmares). There’s no excuse.

Yes, quite. My RR has umpty hundred cameras and sensors, and it can basically park itself of required. While manoeuvring it constantly scans dozens of times a second before it will move an inch.

Far, far safer than Maureen parking her Peugeot 206.

CrystalSingerFan · 15/02/2025 18:00

@mathanxiety

"I live in the US, where car parks are properly designed (wider spaces, more often than not angled)."

That's interesting. (Obvs you lot have more space generally than we do. 😀)

  1. What are the rules/recommendations of your Highway Code equivalent about reversing into parking spaces?
  2. Why are your spaces often angled? Is there a provable/perceived benefit?
Cherrysoup · 15/02/2025 17:59

Don’t think my two dogs would fit in a mini! Moving to a rural area, scouting it out this weekend, every driveway is covered with 4x4s, even driving in the streaming rain which has caused stupid amounts of red clay mud to slide into the lanes, is tricky. I dread to think how you’re expected to drive round these areas in a non 4x4. We had a short walk today up Garway Hill, the last few hundred yards of the ‘road’ is a mud track. A non 4x4 wouldn’t have made it up (no parking til the top and two houses en route , so leaving the car would have been extremely inconvenient for the owners)

AnSolas · 15/02/2025 17:58

CrystalSingerFan · 15/02/2025 17:54

Interesting. My (old small) supermarket car park has a row of single ordinary (non-disabled) spaces with a driving lane on either side so people can load their boots. Perhaps suggest this to yours?

Interesting about the slanted spaces. We have these in a nearby farm shop and I hate them. I'd love some stats on why they're designed like that and the relative safety rates for different styles of parking.

mocktheorytest.com/resources/is-it-safer-to-reverse-into-a-car-parking-space/

That cuts down avaiable parking spaces
2 to 1 v
1 to 1

LadyRoughDiamond · 15/02/2025 17:57

I must admit, this baffles me too. Large, luxe 4x4s usually come with myriad parking sensors, cameras etc and have great visibility due to higher driving position. It’s one of the reasons I have one (along with needing four wheel drive due to floods, farmers leaving god-knows-what on the road and other rural driving nightmares). There’s no excuse.

mathanxiety · 15/02/2025 17:57

StrawberrySquash · 15/02/2025 15:09

There are lots of small cars available. But they are small relative to other available cars. Not to historical cars.

e.g. a Fiat 500 is 1m 68. An old Mini is 1m 43. A new Mini is 1 m 74.

And obviously no one in 2025 is about to put three kids in the back of any of those cars.

All of this means there is less free space between cars parked a set distance apart. That's just maths. Obviously people should park as best they can within the lines, but my point is it's made unnecessarily harder.

Agree.

Well said.