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To be very weirded out by Elon Musks reproductive choices

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FancyRedRobin · 15/02/2025 13:16

I think he's up to twelve or thirteen children now with no sign of stopping and seems to have a very transactional approach to impregnating a series of women (presumably through IVF). It really speaks to looking at women as baby machines.
The colossal ego he has about maintaining his bloodline is so noxious.
I'm worried someone like him is so influential.
We'll be in the handmaid's tale before long.

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SleekBlackCat · 15/02/2025 15:09

Plenty of men have children with lots of different women.

EM has not abandoned any of his children, is present in their lives (apart from the one who’s been brainwashed against him), and supports them all to a very high standard, unlike a lot of other men.

Plenty of people have children through surrogacy.

He is absolutely correct that the birth rate in Western democracies has massively reduced which is NOT a good thing.

I don’t particularly like EM or have any reason to defend him but considering the above I don’t think this is something he needs to be judged on.

Of course he’s been affected by his childhood and his father being what sounds like an abusive and toxic individual and I believe he is on the ASD spectrum. None of which is his fault and to his credit, he’s done amazingly well despite this.

OverTheTopOfTheMountain · 15/02/2025 15:08

BooToYouHalloween · 15/02/2025 14:06

Where has the info about IVF and surrogates come from? Surely women wanting to sleep with the richest man in the world and hoping to get pregnant (and thus be set for life ) isn’t that surprising.

Then they really hhas no idea of who he is.
Because it doesn’t look to me like he parts with his cask easily chikdren or not.
He is currently stopping Grimes to see her dc. She hasn’t seem them fir months and months.
That’s what happens when abusive/authoritarian men also have money. They think they’re untouchable.

The writing has been on the box fir a very long time.

MrsMurphyIWish · 15/02/2025 15:07

CerealPosterHere · 15/02/2025 15:01

I think we can speak out about it but realistically nothing will change. He’s not doing anything illegal. He’s not going to stop because plebs don’t like it.

I agree, sadly. It was the use of “whinging” that I took exception to - that is a term deliberately used to undermine.

LauraNorda · 15/02/2025 15:07

MrsSkylerWhite · 15/02/2025 14:57

LauraNorda · Today 14:51

I thought this thread was about Mr Musks reproductive choices, not his potential to be a bond villain?
There is nothing anyone can do about him, bar impotent whinging on websites like this

Nonsense. There is no legal basis for his unelected position. There is plenty that the Supreme Court could do, were it so inclined.

There doesn't seem to be any difference between Elon Musk over there and Dominic Cummings, Sue Grey, Alastair Campbell etc etc over here.

soupyspoon · 15/02/2025 15:05

lnks · 15/02/2025 15:01

But how is the number of children he has related to power or control? Genuine question

Its part of how his narcissism manifests. Men like this impregnate as many women as they can, its a feeling of control and power for them, in his case not limited to that because his behaviour and status also gives him power and control in the US at the moment.

lnks · 15/02/2025 15:01

soupyspoon · 15/02/2025 14:57

They're connected though, its about power and control

But how is the number of children he has related to power or control? Genuine question

CerealPosterHere · 15/02/2025 15:01

MrsMurphyIWish · 15/02/2025 14:59

Are you suggesting that he is so powerful we can not speak out?

I think we can speak out about it but realistically nothing will change. He’s not doing anything illegal. He’s not going to stop because plebs don’t like it.

CerealPosterHere · 15/02/2025 14:59

I think any woman who signs up for this needs help. I’d be very worried after what he did to Grimes regarding X-ai-12 or whatever his name is that he would do the same to me/my child. Apparently she doesn’t get to see that kid anymore. Maybe that’s not true, I read conflicting stuff that they have 50/50 custody and then other stuff saying she got the two other kids and Elon got X. She certainly didn’t know before hand and wasn’t happy about the Oval Office appearance. She disagrees with all the stage/podium stuff. But can’t stop it.

Imagine trying to co parent with a multi billionaire raging narcissist, she posted something about going bankrupt spending money on lawyers. So not even like she did well out of it financially.

MrsMurphyIWish · 15/02/2025 14:59

LauraNorda · 15/02/2025 14:51

I thought this thread was about Mr Musks reproductive choices, not his potential to be a bond villain?

There is nothing anyone can do about him, bar impotent whinging on websites like this.

Are you suggesting that he is so powerful we can not speak out?

soupyspoon · 15/02/2025 14:57

LauraNorda · 15/02/2025 14:51

I thought this thread was about Mr Musks reproductive choices, not his potential to be a bond villain?

There is nothing anyone can do about him, bar impotent whinging on websites like this.

They're connected though, its about power and control

MrsSkylerWhite · 15/02/2025 14:57

LauraNorda · Today 14:51

I thought this thread was about Mr Musks reproductive choices, not his potential to be a bond villain?
There is nothing anyone can do about him, bar impotent whinging on websites like this

Nonsense. There is no legal basis for his unelected position. There is plenty that the Supreme Court could do, were it so inclined.

HotTake · 15/02/2025 14:55

Great genes to pass on indeed.

KimberleyClark · 15/02/2025 14:54

His dad has two children with his own stepdaughter. He married her mother when she (stepdaughter) was three and stayed married to her for 19 years. Beyond grim.No wonder Elon is like he is with that example.

LauraNorda · 15/02/2025 14:51

I thought this thread was about Mr Musks reproductive choices, not his potential to be a bond villain?

There is nothing anyone can do about him, bar impotent whinging on websites like this.

JohnofWessex · 15/02/2025 14:47

I'm a father of three

While I dont think its impossible and I could in theory at least as a man have had a lot more, I'm not sure that if I had more I would have been able to be their 'father' in an effective way and influence their lives.

In the same way I am sure we have all come across people whose 'father' isnt there biological father / mother

So while I could have had more, lots more in theory in practice I suggest that having many more than the three I have might pass on my genes (hopefully there isnt one for dress sense) I am not sure how much of my interests ideas etc would pass on as thats whats important to me anyway.

monsterfish · 15/02/2025 14:42

He has stated repeatedly that the birth rate in western countries is falling too much & too quickly and it needs to be reversed. Guess he thinks he is setting an example by fathering as many children as we can.

bizarre from a country that does the bare minimum for maternity benefits (about 2 weeks). Maternal health care in the United States has significant challenges, including a high maternal mortality rate, lack of access to care, and health disparities.

he might want to start there to encourage more women to have children.

Lyannaa · 15/02/2025 14:38

There is a pattern of sociopathic men reproducing with many women and everyone thinking that's ok, if a woman did it, no way would she be in a position of power in a government.

HotTake · 15/02/2025 14:38

I can't help but like him. I can understand why he wants to pass on his genes and it's not like he can't afford them?!

What genes is he passing on? I can't imagine wanting to have a little Elon. There are many technically-intelligent and rich men to have kids with who also have what Musky man doesn't: handsome, eloquent, emotionally intelligent, kind, reasonable, compassionate, able to see and accept more than their point of view, not power-hungry and to the detriment of a fair society, etc. His 2 out of atleast 10 qualities of these men mean he's not such a good catch.

'Rich, sociopathic and tunnel-visioned' isn't a good deal for anyone except people who only care about the 'rich' part. Those women are awful too.

LizzieSiddal · 15/02/2025 14:37

wherearemypastnames · 15/02/2025 14:36

We are not short of childen on this planet

We are not short of childen with good genes on this planet

We are short of the love and compassion that would enable those children to thrive

We are short of the meritocracy that would enable the best of those childen to be given the responsibilities that they could best handle for the good of all

Hear hear!

LilacLilias · 15/02/2025 14:37

MayaPinion · 15/02/2025 13:56

Elon Musk is a very strange man and that’s worrying because he effectively owns Trump and appears to enjoy throwing his weight around with other governments as well. There’s more than a touch of Dr Evil/Blofeld/Lex Luthor about him.

I have been saying he has Lex Luther vibes for so long!!! Glad someone else also thinks this 😆

LizzieSiddal · 15/02/2025 14:36

He’s a vile person and needs to stop producing children as if they’re a product.

wherearemypastnames · 15/02/2025 14:36

We are not short of childen on this planet

We are not short of childen with good genes on this planet

We are short of the love and compassion that would enable those children to thrive

We are short of the meritocracy that would enable the best of those childen to be given the responsibilities that they could best handle for the good of all

Serpentstooth · 15/02/2025 14:34

You need to seek help and while doing so, read up on the 1930s.

NinaNobody · 15/02/2025 14:31

I can't help but like him. I can understand why he wants to pass on his genes and it's not like he can't afford them?!

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