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Am I wasting my time with him

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ChasingRainbows123 · 15/02/2025 12:37

Nearly a year ago I dated a guy for a few months. Then out of the blue he texted it was over as he couldn't commit to me with his busy work schedule & working away all week.
Never heard from him except the odd message every few months.
Then a few weeks ago he messaged to say he had made a mistake, regretted what he did to me, missed me & wanted to put things right.
He messages every day & it's just general chat.
Then the other day he was on about how he should never of walked away like he did.
I said why have you got back in touch after all this time regretting what you did. What do you actually want from me.
His reply was love & friendship.
What does that mean to you lot on here.
He only wants friendship or friendship leading to more in time.
Is this a red flag with him.
Am I wasting my time with him & should walk away now.
Or is he being genuine & I should give him a chance & see where it goes
Any advice much appreciated.
How others see this looking at it from the outside.
Thanks

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Charlottejbt · 15/02/2025 12:41

You'd be mad to give him a second chance. If he'd wanted to be with you, he would. He'll mess you around then disappear again.

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