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Love locks - basically just vandalism?

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SnoozingFox · 14/02/2025 19:11

Piece on the One Show about those people who attach padlocks to bridges and it's being pushed as an "awwww isn't this lovely, it's a gesture of love, people come back every year to see their lock, such as shame when they have to be removed" and I'm sitting thinking the opposite.

It's no different from scratching your initials into the bricks of a castle, or spray painting a wall. Vandalism. Nobody cares that some random bridge is where you had your first date or your boyfriend proposed. Nobody wants to walk across a city centre bridge covered in padlocks which the council then eventually have to pay to remove.

Leave no trace.

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Oldandcobwebby · 14/02/2025 19:27

It looks so bloody tacky. Then the very people who put them on the railings without permission moan because they get removed. It's such entitled thinking. Ugh.

Grassgarden · 14/02/2025 19:25

Yeah it's load of bollocks. The bridge from Tate modern to St Paul's would be completely covered by now if they weren't constantly being removed

AgnesX · 14/02/2025 19:23

I think its just silly tbh. I've never seen the point.

As a council tax payer it's annoying that it's something else for the council to squander their money on, having to clean rusting locks up.

SnoozingFox · 14/02/2025 19:22

But it's not a "lovely sentiment". It's so self absorbed thinking that anyone else on the planet is in any way interested in your relationship. If you want to put a lock on some place meaningful, do it on your own property, not at a beauty spot or tourist site where thousands of others have to be subjected to your vandalism.

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LifeIsAMeatball · 14/02/2025 19:20

It’s a very lovely sentiment but one lock then attracts many. This causes problems with maintenance, repairs and upkeep. Eventually they can affect structural tolerance and load bearing, potentially threatening historic structures that have stood for hundreds of years before a shed load of people bought cheap Matalan/Amazon suitcase locks and clamped them on.

I think if your relationship breaks down it should be classed as a littering offence if you don’t go back and remove it within a set period. That should get rid of a lot of them 😆

helpfulperson · 14/02/2025 19:18

Agree totally.