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To be annoyed that vegan options have replaced vegetarian?

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Sacredhandbag · 13/02/2025 09:34

It's only a silly gripe in the grand scheme of things but it's bloody annoying.

I've been a vegetarian my whole life but since veganism has become more popular and more and more people are becoming part of the movement (and good on them!) it's like restaurants, cafes and hotels have skipped adding vegetarian options and thought "well vegan options covers both so we'll just add a few of those"

No! I am not vegan. I am vegetarian. I still want my eggs, my cream, my cheese, my butter. I want a stilton and broccoli bake, not a grilled bit of cauliflower!

Afternoon tea (I'm a fan and have one as often as I can) is the worst for it. There's an ordinary menu and then there's a vegan menu and that's it. You order one or the other. I don't want chicken or fish sandwiches but I sure as hell want my scones with proper clotted cream! So I have to be specific about the sandwiches and say I want some from one menu and some from the other. Bloody annoying.

Any other veggies feel the same?

OP posts:
Stade197 · 13/02/2025 10:21

Sacredhandbag · 13/02/2025 09:45

Vegan cheese is the absolute WORST! I completely agree. I want a veggie burger with actual cheese!
And I'm sick of my toast coming without butter just because I didn't order my meat to go with it!

Vegan cheese is awful!

Some friends and I went to a bottomless brunch where they served pizzas, 1 of our party was vegan and after a mix up in the kitchen in which we asked for 1 vegan pizza the rest normal we ended up with 3 vegan cheese pizzas. We all decided to try a slice and only the vegan could swallow it 😅

KimberleyClark · 13/02/2025 10:21

YANBU. I’m vegetarian when eating out, and only eat meat at home when I (or DH) have chosen it ourselves. Vegan options in restaurants are often shit unless they’re prepared by someone with passion and flair.

Stumblingalongthroughlife · 13/02/2025 10:20

The thing is, vegan food IS suitable for vegetarians, whereas the reverse isn't true. The hospitality sector is really struggling, so it's just economies of scale. If you offer a vegan curry, then it's also able to be eaten by vegetarians. If you decide to make that curry with ghee and paneer then you're cutting down the market for who can eat it. If you have to offer the same curry made with ghee and without, it's going to add to the overheads of the restaurant and cut into the already tight margins. Not to mention the vegan meal also covers for common allergies (dairy and eggs), which again increases the base that it's suitable for and who the restaurant can get profit from.

I noticed National Trust scones are now vegan. This means everyone can order them. They do have cream and butter, but the basic scone is vegan. Perfect for everyone!

The percentage of vegetarians is about 5% of the population and vegans 3%, so for a restaurant, if they have 10 main meals, it's not worth 1 of them being veggie and 1 vegan, when 1 vegan meal covers both bases. The alternative is just having a veggie meal and excluding potential vegan customers (and the omnis dining with them)
If you go somewhere with a really extensive menu, then it's much more likely that they might add in a veggie meal.

But in reality I don't see what you're describing. I still see tonnes of eggs on veggie breakfasts, halloumi as the default on veggie burgers, burger buns made from brioche, pasta bakes with loads of cheese, baked camembert as the default starter, etc. There's definitely more places doing vegan options than 10/20 years ago, but it's by no means the default in the majority of places

Comtesse · 13/02/2025 10:18

Why are vegans presumed to eat fake meat? Gross UPF fake food bleurgh….

Lentilweaver · 13/02/2025 10:16

Icanttakethisanymore · 13/02/2025 10:14

I'm not vegan but the vegan food I do like is 'naturally' vegan; Indian food has fantastic vegan options. When I stayed in Kerala a while ago we ate vegan for a week and it was some of the best food I've ever had.

Yes, as an Indian veggie, I have also been almost vegan without trying. I cook food similar to food from Kerala.

mewkins · 13/02/2025 10:15

I agree. More than 20 years as a vegetarian and SO much crap fake meat around now. I want vegetables, beans and pulses and also pastry made with butter.

SallyWD · 13/02/2025 10:14

Icanttakethisanymore · 13/02/2025 10:14

I'm not vegan but the vegan food I do like is 'naturally' vegan; Indian food has fantastic vegan options. When I stayed in Kerala a while ago we ate vegan for a week and it was some of the best food I've ever had.

Yes exactly. Just no need for fake meat.

Sacredhandbag · 13/02/2025 10:14

I should have put it this way - I've always been vegetarian. I've never been omnivore (so btw, there isn't a risk of me going back to it) In my 38 years of life, I have never once had to worry that there won't be something I can have. Not once. It's never even crossed my mind to think about it or check a menu before I go out, there has always been several tasty options to choose from. People I have known for a long time often forget I'm veggie and some don't even know because I rarely mention it, there's no need.

It's literally in the last year or two I've noticed my food options are severely declining. I'm finding for the first time in my life that there is not one thing on the menu that I want. And instead of the little "V" that used to be next to dishes there's now just a "ve" one size fits all apparently!

We want our food back! 🤣

OP posts:
Icanttakethisanymore · 13/02/2025 10:14

SallyWD · 13/02/2025 10:07

Decent vegan food doesn't involve fake meat. I cook a lot of vegan meals that just use ingredients like pulses. I never use vegan meat, butter or cheese. There's no need. I'm not vegan by the way. Just like vegan food.

I'm not vegan but the vegan food I do like is 'naturally' vegan; Indian food has fantastic vegan options. When I stayed in Kerala a while ago we ate vegan for a week and it was some of the best food I've ever had.

LavenderBlue19 · 13/02/2025 10:14

Carsitting · 13/02/2025 10:08

I totally agree with you! Completely fed up with the vegan choices. Which is often a vegan burger. And they all have the same weird taste. Or that bloody cauliflower ‘steak’ thing. It’s not a steak! It’s just a bit of bloody cauliflower that leaves me starving after it!

Vegan choices also seem to often be loaded with garlic, which I don’t like

I went to a wedding recently where the veggie option was a HUGE celeriac. The sauce was nice and it came with some leaves, but the meal was basically a whole celeriac.

Baffling, and we were both stomach crampy and hungry a couple of hours later.

Lindy2 · 13/02/2025 10:13

I'm not vegetarian but I'd sometimes opt for a vegetarian meal out if it was something like a cheesy pasta or mushroom stroganoff.

I don't want just vegetables and I don't want vegan cheese so I don't pick vegan options.

I agree with you OP. There's a big difference between vegetarian and vegan food and I believe there are still many more vegetarians than vegans.

TheElvesLongSleeves · 13/02/2025 10:12

MagpiePi · 13/02/2025 10:08

I mean they could just have one 'meat' option instead of offering different beef, lamb, chicken and fish dishes if they were really serious on cost and practicality.

Most people at variety of meat. This all started when there was some temporary vegan uptake like 5 years ago iirc and just stayed that way.

SallyWD · 13/02/2025 10:10

TheElvesLongSleeves · 13/02/2025 09:59

It's not "lazy putting everyone into one box". It's cost and practicality.
Small part of customers eat these items so it does make for many businesses sense to have x versions. So to prevent food waste and money waste, the item is made edible for bigger market.

Nearly ten percent of people are vegetarian or vegan and I actually know loads of meat eaters who go for vegetarian options when out. There should be good options for people who don't want to eat meat, not just one vegan dish.

Jc2001 · 13/02/2025 10:10

Rainplops · 13/02/2025 10:00

Don't be silly. Why would what some randomer on the internet say MAKE someone consume more meat? If someone wants to go vegan, they aren't going to NOT go vegan because some other vegan was forthright on Mumsnet.

But you're deriding anyone who says their vegetarian because they still consume animal products.

Surely being vegetarian is better than eating meat (for animals, the planet and so on) so it's a massive step forward . So why wouldn't you encourage that instead of getting massively sanctimonious and judgemental.

I'm convinced many vegans are vegans because it makes them feel special. The worst thing for people like you would be for everyone to go vegan, as you'd no longer have something to feel superior about.

You don't do the 'cause' any good. Any reduction in the amount of meat people eat should be encouraged.

Icanttakethisanymore · 13/02/2025 10:09

I also think this is worse for meat eaters. I eat meat but I also really like vegetarian food. If the vegetarian option is vegan then I am less likely to choose it, which will mean I will have a meat or a fish option instead. I definitely eat fewer vegetarian options in restaurants now that they are often vegan.

Bingbangboo · 13/02/2025 10:09

I completely agree. I have been a vegetarian since I was a teenager. It's fairly depressing to now be presented with a vegan burger as the only veggie choice. I don't like the artificial ingredients or the awful 'cheese'. When we were looking to book our work Christmas meal it was awful how many menus in various places had vegan fake meat in various forms as the only non-meat choice.

Carsitting · 13/02/2025 10:08

I totally agree with you! Completely fed up with the vegan choices. Which is often a vegan burger. And they all have the same weird taste. Or that bloody cauliflower ‘steak’ thing. It’s not a steak! It’s just a bit of bloody cauliflower that leaves me starving after it!

Vegan choices also seem to often be loaded with garlic, which I don’t like

MagpiePi · 13/02/2025 10:08

TheElvesLongSleeves · 13/02/2025 09:59

It's not "lazy putting everyone into one box". It's cost and practicality.
Small part of customers eat these items so it does make for many businesses sense to have x versions. So to prevent food waste and money waste, the item is made edible for bigger market.

I mean they could just have one 'meat' option instead of offering different beef, lamb, chicken and fish dishes if they were really serious on cost and practicality.

Sacredhandbag · 13/02/2025 10:07

It's not vegans' fault. The fault of restaurants

I know!!!

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ExercicenformedeZ · 13/02/2025 10:07

LookSerious · 13/02/2025 10:04

As a vegan who is GC, the two don’t compare. I stand up for women and children, I stand up for animals.

(Judgy) Vegans are more annoying than TRAs.

JanesLaundryAgain · 13/02/2025 10:07

Lentilweaver · 13/02/2025 10:05

It's not vegans' fault. The fault of restaurants. For instance, a nearby restaurant had a lovely aubergine curry. Naturally vegan and suitable for everyone! Now they have replaced it with a fake meat curry. Not sure why.

Yes I agree, but some vegans need to stop militantly attacking vegetarians and other vegans who want to improve the food options. On this thread the pundits arrived on page 1 to tell us how dairy is terrible etc etc it doesn't move anyone forward.

SallyWD · 13/02/2025 10:07

Worldgonecrazy · 13/02/2025 09:56

Fake meat is rank processed crud. Absolutely agree with previous comment about vegan ‘cheese’ especially the fake mozzarella which looks like someone has done a ‘special’ on the plate.

Please can we have healthy vegetarian offerings, not fake meat.

Decent vegan food doesn't involve fake meat. I cook a lot of vegan meals that just use ingredients like pulses. I never use vegan meat, butter or cheese. There's no need. I'm not vegan by the way. Just like vegan food.

UnimaginableWindBird · 13/02/2025 10:06

Yeah. I'm an omnivore but very rarely actually ate meat until recently. I'm allergic to nuts and I don't know what's in fake vegan meat and cheese but it gives me stomach cramps and diarrhoea (which is how I know that my local pizza takeaway adulterates it's mozzarella). It's now relatively rare for me to find a meat-free option that I can safely eat.

ExercicenformedeZ · 13/02/2025 10:06

Rainplops · 13/02/2025 10:00

Don't be silly. Why would what some randomer on the internet say MAKE someone consume more meat? If someone wants to go vegan, they aren't going to NOT go vegan because some other vegan was forthright on Mumsnet.

I mean people like you who think that vegetarian options should all be veganised, so that will mean in the end that people like OP will give up and go back to being an omnivore. I used to be a vegetarian, though more for health than for ethics. I discovered that it is healthier for me to be omnivorous. Hardline vegans who want to lecture everyone and be right will put people off.

Itisbetter · 13/02/2025 10:06

We have the same gripe with having to have the vegetarian option endlessly because we don’t eat pork. It’s annoying but it is what it is.