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To have over 40 matches on tinder?

30 replies

Chinesewings · 12/02/2025 21:51

Just that really. It’s actually giving me a head ache having the same conversation over and over again and worried I’ll never find somebody

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JudgeBread · 12/02/2025 23:06

If you're looking for anything other than a shag Tinder probably isn't the place anyway.

Ankhmo · 12/02/2025 22:58

Meh.. I tried tinder, every damn swipe was a match and about 1% of them ever bothered to message.

Just about everyone swipes on everyone.
If you match with someone, it means less than if you'd walked past them in the street.

ForeverPombear · 12/02/2025 22:51

RechargeableGnu · 12/02/2025 22:46

#humblebrag

I don't think it's a brag, I wouldn't say that's a lot. It's really easy to get matches on Tinder.

RechargeableGnu · 12/02/2025 22:46

#humblebrag

DoYouReally · 12/02/2025 22:34

Are you using tinder the way men do? Most men swipe as many profiles as possible unless there's something really offputting to get as many matches as possible and see who matches them too. Ego boost approach.

You must have swipped 40 plus to get so many matches too.

Maybe be more selective and you'll get better quality matches rather than quantity. Then you won't have that headache!

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