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What age did you start Botox?

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NameChangeChic · 12/02/2025 19:20

And what was your results like? Did it last long? I’m getting it done soon for the first time and I can’t wait lol

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JaroSally · 13/02/2025 17:19

cardibach · 13/02/2025 16:35

Ooo this is potentially interesting! I have the sweatiest head in the world.

It is an absolute game changer I found out after having it for a while that people call it 'blow-tox' lol it means your blow-dry will last longer 😂

BIossomtoes · 13/02/2025 17:14

funinthesun19 · 13/02/2025 14:17

I’m 35 and want to have my forehead done but just too nervous! I’m worried about it going wrong.

That’s the reason I’ve never had it. I’m vainer than a vain thing and I really like my face, I’m terrified of not recognising or liking the person I see in the mirror. I’ll stick with the lines.

Incidentally, nobody at work gives a shit how old you look unless you work in the beauty industry. I was over 60 when I got my last promotion, it was my skills and experience that mattered.

LarnaArm · 13/02/2025 17:11

Late 50’s and never.

I would never inject my body with any chemical. ( especially as we have no idea of any longer term issues).

cardibach · 13/02/2025 17:02

Newmumhere40 · 12/02/2025 22:27

Oh sshhh, YOU don't like it, then YOU don't use it and enjoy your wrinkles

7% of women.
And actually, what’s wrong with wrinkles? Faces which show their age are way more beautiful and interesting.

cardibach · 13/02/2025 17:01

RitaFromTheRanch · 12/02/2025 22:24

Probably because you're so childish if this is what you're like day to day.

eh? What’s childish in that poster’s comment?
Yours, on the other hand…

Pianoaholic · 13/02/2025 17:01

Just wondering, if it isn't 'obvious' that someone has had it done (as some are saying), then I don't see the point in having it done really. But from the before and after photos from a PP, you can tell.

I had it twice in my late 40s, it was a drastic treatment for tmjd, a painful condition which is caused by stress and tension. I did wonder whether to ask the clinician to do my frown lines too! (For tmjd it was injected into my left masseter muscle)

Now I am 51 and don't intend to have it done. My hair is pretty grey and I can't be bothered to dye that....basically I have finally got to an age where I am not concerned with what I look like and it's great!

cardibach · 13/02/2025 16:56

Notsuchafattynow · 12/02/2025 21:54

Started at 35, now 53.

I look good for my age. It only lasts 3 months these days so I leave it longer these days.

But it certainly keeps me looking fresher.

Fresher? Do people who don’t use it look stale or rotten then?

OctoberandApril · 13/02/2025 16:50

*Definitely

OctoberandApril · 13/02/2025 16:37

5128gap · 12/02/2025 21:55

Everybody thinks everybody looks younger than they are. Or so they tell us after a certain age anyway. Who in the world tells a 50 something woman she looks every day of it?

I've got lots of friends the same age give or take a few years. I definetly think some of them look younger than some of the others. As far as I know aprt from one maybe don't have botox. The women on my Dad's side age more than the ones on my Mum's side too.

cardibach · 13/02/2025 16:35

JaroSally · 12/02/2025 20:50

43 and it was amazing in my hair it completely stopped me sweating and having wet hair on hot days
On my forehead it was awful! It flet tingling for about 2 months made me look cross with a heavy brow. I won't bother getting it again foe my forehead but I'm already booked in fir my summer hair botox!

Ooo this is potentially interesting! I have the sweatiest head in the world.

hazelnutvanillalatte · 13/02/2025 16:28

I started when I was 27 for horizontal forehead lines. Now 30's and get it for forehead lines, 11s and crows feet. The full effect only lasts 3 months on me :(

OctoberandApril · 13/02/2025 16:26

Notsuchafattynow · 12/02/2025 21:54

Started at 35, now 53.

I look good for my age. It only lasts 3 months these days so I leave it longer these days.

But it certainly keeps me looking fresher.

I'm 52 and look good for my age and I've never had it.

I am trying to lose a bit of weight (have a BMI of 27 at the moment) and I do wonder if I do lose the weight I will look older.

cardibach · 13/02/2025 16:23

crankytoes · 12/02/2025 20:23

What is 'looking your age' though.

One would have to go without makeup and not colour one's hair if they want to really look their age

  1. Never had Botox. Don’t dye my (white) hair. Haven’t worn make up for a decade at least. And yet I have a full and happy life and nobody thinks I’m decrepit - largely because they can see all the stuff I can do.
SoulMole · 13/02/2025 16:23

Cornflakes123 · 13/02/2025 16:15

That looks great! Thanks for this!

It's the only thing I do / pay for. I'm not a procedures / treatments kind of person. But I feel a lot happier for this little change. Good luck!

Cornflakes123 · 13/02/2025 16:15

SoulMole · 13/02/2025 16:04

@cornflakes123 2019 and today. Sorry for the old bad brows!!

That looks great! Thanks for this!

SoulMole · 13/02/2025 16:04

@cornflakes123 2019 and today. Sorry for the old bad brows!!

What age did you start Botox?
Cornflakes123 · 13/02/2025 16:03

SoulMole · 13/02/2025 15:58

It worked right away. I think she warned the first session may only fade it by 80% but I'm sure they disappeared. Obviously not overnight as your face needs to rest for the crinkles to come out! Then it was just maintenance. Not a mark there now. Will try and find an old pic.

Sounds good to me. I think I will try it at some stage in the future . Thanks

Newbie8918 · 13/02/2025 16:01

5128gap · 13/02/2025 15:55

I had it for over 20 years. Told the world and his dog from the get go, so in return have had a lot of people tell me with they did or didn't. I can reliably report that the only time you 'know' is when there's been too much used or when the rest of the face is extremely out of step with the treated area. By far the majority of people didn't fall into either category, so I really wouldn't have known had they not shared it.

Thank you for saying this. The comments saying that it's ALWAYS noticeable are really short sighted!

For every woman that you can tell, there are literally tens that you can't. Which is probably why people think it's noticeable 100% of the time 🤣

Rainingalldayonmyhead · 13/02/2025 15:59

Newbie8918 · 13/02/2025 15:43

@Rainingalldayonmyhead I don't know what you mean! I'm definitely a natural blonde. I get lowlights to tone it down 😉🤣

Obvs there are exceptions 😂. My father as he aged and went grey always told us he wasn’t going grey he was going blonde. 😂

SoulMole · 13/02/2025 15:58

Cornflakes123 · 12/02/2025 21:11

Just out of interest did it make the 11s softer from the first time you had it ? I hate my 11s and feel like they make me look so grumpy but I’ve heard that Botox prevents and doesn’t cure ? Is this true or does it actually make them look better

It worked right away. I think she warned the first session may only fade it by 80% but I'm sure they disappeared. Obviously not overnight as your face needs to rest for the crinkles to come out! Then it was just maintenance. Not a mark there now. Will try and find an old pic.

5128gap · 13/02/2025 15:55

I had it for over 20 years. Told the world and his dog from the get go, so in return have had a lot of people tell me with they did or didn't. I can reliably report that the only time you 'know' is when there's been too much used or when the rest of the face is extremely out of step with the treated area. By far the majority of people didn't fall into either category, so I really wouldn't have known had they not shared it.

Newbie8918 · 13/02/2025 15:43

@Rainingalldayonmyhead I don't know what you mean! I'm definitely a natural blonde. I get lowlights to tone it down 😉🤣

ValentineValentineV · 13/02/2025 15:39

Resilience · 13/02/2025 15:35

I don't think it's that rare anymore. I genuinely don't. I was recently out with some friends -all of whom I would never have thought used Botox as they spend most of their time make-up free in joggers, etc. 80% of them have had it done. It was a real eye opener for me. Also a little scary as it seems quite a few were having it done by a non-medical professional beautician.

Do I hate the fact that we live in a society where we feel that age/tiredness/stress is unacceptable to show on our faces? Yes. Do I judge women for navigating their way through that society - that DOES still judge women BTW - the best way they can? No. None of us live in a social vacuum. One woman's Botox is on the same spectrum as another woman's hair dye or another woman's must-have designer gown or simply the fact I shave my legs when wearing a skirt. They're just in different places on that spectrum. Most of us are conforming to a greater or lesser degree. It's a rare woman who doesn't.

It's a trend that's gaining traction among men, too.

I agree with this, I have a very low maintenance look, I’m the ‘natural’ looking one in my group, also the one who has botox.

Newlywedgal · 13/02/2025 15:37

24 - now late 30’s not a line on face

Resilience · 13/02/2025 15:35

I don't think it's that rare anymore. I genuinely don't. I was recently out with some friends -all of whom I would never have thought used Botox as they spend most of their time make-up free in joggers, etc. 80% of them have had it done. It was a real eye opener for me. Also a little scary as it seems quite a few were having it done by a non-medical professional beautician.

Do I hate the fact that we live in a society where we feel that age/tiredness/stress is unacceptable to show on our faces? Yes. Do I judge women for navigating their way through that society - that DOES still judge women BTW - the best way they can? No. None of us live in a social vacuum. One woman's Botox is on the same spectrum as another woman's hair dye or another woman's must-have designer gown or simply the fact I shave my legs when wearing a skirt. They're just in different places on that spectrum. Most of us are conforming to a greater or lesser degree. It's a rare woman who doesn't.

It's a trend that's gaining traction among men, too.