Does this indicate any atypical behaviour

My DS is autistic. There were signs from birth with sensory issues, but it's only because those things continued, alongside new signs that also continued past the age they were appropriate for that they meant anything if you see what I mean?

Your DD sounds fine for a two year old.

Even if she does have ADHD what good will a diagnosis do now? You can't even get one as you say, she's too young. You are just causing stress on yourself and tension in your marriage for something you can't change. The reason you can't diagnose someone as young as her is because most of what you say is normal child behaviour.

I'd say let her be, enjoy her, love her and it's highly likely this will all be normal development as other posters and said and the referral response has said.

And then, at the age at which it can be determined, if she is still showing signs, get her assessed.

You're just causing yourself stress and anxiety.

Then I kindly advise you not look for traits that are so far not presenting themselves. Even as a stay at home mum, I’d start looking into nursery or a preschool. It will give you space to not be in ‘mum mode’ all the time (something I am very guilty of myself, and mine go to school and spend one night a week at their dad’s!), and if there is any genuine developmental concerns they will be picked up on.

I think you may have posted about this a few times where the advice has always been the same. Even if your child has ASD/adhd, intensely looking for traits at this age will not help you or her. You’ve done everything right so far, so give yourself a break.

Do you have other children or lots of experience dealing with children OP?

Sometimes there are tells that experienced people pick out fairly early on. But there is always more than one, it’s a pattern of behaviour that becomes obvious.

A child I know flaps their hands when excited. Another has sensory issues around socks. Neither are autistic, nowhere even close, even though you see both these sort of ‘traits’ linked with autism.

Your child is very young and you will need to wait and see I think. These things become much more obvious as they grow, they become atypical for their developmental stage. Agree with pp to ask nursery staff to keep an eye on her. Try not to worry, she’s your beautiful child in any case.

There isn’t a ‘mild end of the spectrum’, but what you’re describing here is within the realms of typical 2 year old development. Is there any immediate familial links to autism or adhd? If a parent has (or highly suspects) they are ND then it may be something to keep an eye on. Is she going to nursery? Staff are usually well versed in what is not typical development and come from an independent view. Any concerns can also be discussed with an HV, has she had her 2.5 review?

As others have said, it sounds like normal 2 year old behaviour. The only thing that I would address and keep an eye on is the toe walking.
I have no idea if you've started various similar threads under different names but if you have, I'd suggest you see your GP about your anxiety.

@Vittoria2512 I have a feeling you're not going to listen to anything anyone here tells you about your DD's behaviour.

She's two years old. Absolutely nothing you describe is even remotely abnormal for a two year old.

Honestly, the toe walking is the thing I'd try to do something about as it can become habitual and lead to a shortening of the Achilles tendon.

Reminders to walk on flat feet and maybe have a podiatrist have a look.

As people (including me) have said on a number of similar threads, lots of behaviours linked to ADHD and ASD are entirely normal development and are only a cause for concern when they persist outside the normal age range.

Everything you describe is normal for a 2 year old.

They all use jargon because they can't yet speak like adults and jargon is them pretending to speak quickly and fluently like we do. If she's still doing it at 4-5, it might be a concern.

Like many of the other professionals on your threads, i am more concerned about your need to pathologise your child's entirely normal development.

And, to be completely honest, if she does have mild ADHD, there will be absolutely nothing you can do except manage the behaviour through usual strategies.

definitely too young to tell based on what you’ve said. But I’d be putting money on typical behaviour at this stage.

Even if her development is different to the majority of children it doesn't mean anything will get done/treated at her age.

You need to stop worrying about it. Especially as she's so young and many people have told you the exact same thing.

I agree with the other poster who said you're the one with a problem here. You need peace to enjoy your child. You're giving yourself anxiety.

It's too much. You need to stop.

If you are unable to stop stressing and looking for signs of things that are wrong or different you need medical help yourself.

That all sounds fairly normal.
At that age, my DS refused to sit still for any toddler class and was uninterested in the other children as well as the music and games they played and just wanted to check out the environment. I was really envious of the other mums who got a bit of a sit down and break. At a few points, I wondered if he had developmental issues, so I get where you're coming from. He doesn't, and this seems to be part of his personality.

I think all you can do is wait it out and note your concerns. There is nothing preventing you from using strategies to support her if you think it would be helpful.

Ok, look at it another way.
If she has……. There’s not much you can do that you aren’t already doing, just keeping her stimulation to levels she can cope with etc….. she’s two, let her be two, let her grow and develop . And what will be will be
You’re realistically not going to medicate her!!

So stop reading Honestly, you had multiple professionals say it's normal, you have strangers on the internet telling you it's normal and you have your own family who also don't see the issue. The problem here is clearly your own anxiety (which you need to address separately with your own GP)
Who knows what she doesn't and doesn't have. Is it currently stopping her from functioning? No. That's all that matters.

You’ve described a typically developing two year old. As you have been told by multiple posters, and medical professionals. You need urgent support with your health anxiety. Make a GP appointment and take a list of ALL the threads you have started, professionals you have consulted, friends you have spoken to about your concerns. Explain that you aren’t able to relax about you dds development and ask them for help.

Of course she can't sit still - she's two!

@Vittoria2512
'Jargon meaning gibberish when she tries to talk fast or pretending to be on the phone .'
This is quite a normal stage of language development and isn't jargon it's just she hasn't developed the full vocabulary she needs for these situations yet.

Have you read about schema ( normal patterns of play) which would explain the carrying ( transporting, possibly).

https://www.myteachingcupboard.com/blog/a-guide-to-play-schemas-in-early-childhood-education

https://www.onehundredtoys.com/understanding-schema-play-in-toddlers/

Sounds pretty normal and maybe has a bit of anxiety. Which I’m guessing she picks up from you.

This is the third thread you have started today under different names. Your threads indicate you are concerned and anxious about DD, so you should speak to the GP. However, much of what you list is entirely typical of some toddlers.

No completely normal. Just let her be.

She sounds like a totally normal two year old.