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to think some people think WFH should be a constant nose to the grindstone?

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Yodeloo · 12/02/2025 15:45

I think some jobs are like that definitely. Heavy workload, helplines etc

Some people think all WFH should be like this and get horrified because someone hung some washing out or helped out a family member for a short time. Plenty of jobs have flexibility and it is about getting the job done not just being present in front of the computer non stop.

I get all my life admin done throughout the day around work. I do an exercise class most mornings and then start work later on the days I WFH. I will meet up with friends, work on my side business. Nobody cares at my work. All targets are met consistently.

Is it jealousy that people get so upset?

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Yodeloo · 13/02/2025 07:28

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 12/02/2025 22:47

I definitely do think people should be able to wfh and I do agree flexibility is important. I used to put out the washing, too, when I did. And I stacked the dishwasher at lunchtime. Why not?

But honestly, I do also think there are also a ton of skivers who wfh. Not everyone plays fair. There was a thread recently where plenty of people admitted it. It ruins it for others.

I think there should be clear standards or targets/expectations/milestones, and people should expect to meet them.

I have targets to meet and meet them all consistently.

I can meet the targets and do the laundry, go out for walks, go for exercise classes and meet up with friends during working hours.

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Yodeloo · 13/02/2025 07:26

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/02/2025 22:56

So your employer is paying you for only one hour's work?

Yes. Some days are mad busy and others are very quiet. Work ebbs and flows.

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Ddakji · 13/02/2025 07:24

OonaStubbs · 13/02/2025 01:25

If people at work have time to hang out washing or go to exercise classes, they are not being managed properly and are not as productive as they should be. I think WFH should be cracked down on as too many are clearly swinging the lead.

So deal with their managers. They were clearly failing when their staff were in the office full time, hiding behind a culture of presenteeism.

Or realise that it’s not the end of the world if someone does an exercise class and makes up the time later. Not everything has to slot into a 9-5 pattern and might actually be better with flexibility.

ShapedLikeAPastry · 13/02/2025 07:18

1SillySossij · 13/02/2025 01:19

It's not a question of whether the employee realises this though is it?

You've misunderstood. The previous poster was talking about whether or not the employer has realised, not the employee.

And again, this kind of 'gotcha' - oh, your work is going to be offshored hahahaha, back to the office with you, slacker! - is another example of lack of imagination. Not everyone who WFH is doing calls or sales. My job doesn't really exist outside of the UK and certainly couldn't be done via a call centre in Bangalore or wherever. And if a job can genuinely be done better by AI, than the office / WFH argument is irrelevant anyway.

But you know, carry on gloating at the chance that some people could possibly lose jobs because they work in a way that you don't understand; that's a great look for you.

ThePartingOfTheWays · 13/02/2025 06:53

1SillySossij · 13/02/2025 01:19

It's not a question of whether the employee realises this though is it?

Sorry, not sure what you mean here?

OonaStubbs · 13/02/2025 01:25

If people at work have time to hang out washing or go to exercise classes, they are not being managed properly and are not as productive as they should be. I think WFH should be cracked down on as too many are clearly swinging the lead.

1SillySossij · 13/02/2025 01:19

ThePartingOfTheWays · 12/02/2025 22:57

There can't be many employers who are in a line of work where offshoring would be feasible, but have somehow not realised this in at least half a decade of remote working. Realistically that's got to be quite a niche group.

It's not a question of whether the employee realises this though is it?

SueblueNZ · 12/02/2025 23:46

Ladysodor · 12/02/2025 17:59

Everyone should be back in the office by now. WFH allows you the casual lazy breaks that a day in the office wouldn’t allow. About time the Gov clamped down on this loophole.

What a load of tosh.
Some employers - mine included - have closed their brick and mortar workplaces to save money. Why pay office leases and provide furniture and heating when they can make their employees work from home and provide only laptops and cellphones?

Princessfluffy · 12/02/2025 23:46

I think the main worry about WFH is that a lot of jobs that provably can be done remotely are now being moved to wherever in the world labour is cheapest.

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 12/02/2025 23:10

I do one WFH day a week, and have one non-working day (a Wednesday). I’m a lecturer and on my WFH day I teach two remote classes, and get my lesson prep/marking done for the rest of the week. Do I stick a wash on first thing/sort it/hang it? Yes of course. Generally after my second remote class I’m kind of done, because I work far more efficiently at home and batter through all my work in the morning with no distractions. I am often pottering around the house, but available to attend to my laptop if it beeps with emails or messages.

Today on my non-working (unpaid, I am on a .8 contract) day I have replied to numerous emails/Teams messages, and also arranged a referral for a student who needs support for personal issues. I figure it all balances out, and am grateful to have a manager who feels the same.

Pp mentioned the Teams status going to “away”. I changed mine to offline about two years ago when a student said I would get into trouble if management saw. I was standing right next to her, in a teaching space, on campus, with my laptop at the other side of the room. Not all work is done at a desk!

ThePartingOfTheWays · 12/02/2025 22:57

1SillySossij · 12/02/2025 22:47

Maybe your employer will find renting an office in Bangalore is cheaper yet, or replacing half of the staff with AI? 😂

There can't be many employers who are in a line of work where offshoring would be feasible, but have somehow not realised this in at least half a decade of remote working. Realistically that's got to be quite a niche group.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/02/2025 22:56

Yodeloo · 12/02/2025 18:38

I have specific working hours with flexibility. I can do my exercise class in the day and make up in the evening if needed. Or sometimes it is just really quiet - only done an hour's work today.

So your employer is paying you for only one hour's work?

Carinattheliqorstore1 · 12/02/2025 22:53

I WFH due to a disability. The office is a very long commute, which was fine when I was in perfect health: now it’s not doable. To support me, my employer also allow me to work flexible hours part time: they also encourage me to take time for my sons school things like sports days: parent visits. I don’t take the piss. During January I worked lots of extra hours to get a time sensitive project complete. However, it’s calmed down a bit now, so yeah, some days I have taken it a wee bit easier..

SENDqueries · 12/02/2025 22:53

ThePartingOfTheWays · 12/02/2025 22:39

No doubt. Office space is expensive. There's a reason loads of public sector staff had hybrid enforced on them during austerity. The bottom line is the bottom line!

Yep, the local authority i work for sold all but the main building off. We literally don't have an office space as legally my team can't share space with any aspect of children's services. If we want to borrow an office space for a team meeting we get charged £60 per hour, to use local authority owned office space that doesn't belong to my team!

1SillySossij · 12/02/2025 22:47

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 12/02/2025 22:30

Same here, there will be no way there won’t be a degree of hybrid working 🤷🏻

crashingly disappointing for some posters I know

Maybe your employer will find renting an office in Bangalore is cheaper yet, or replacing half of the staff with AI? 😂

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 12/02/2025 22:47

I definitely do think people should be able to wfh and I do agree flexibility is important. I used to put out the washing, too, when I did. And I stacked the dishwasher at lunchtime. Why not?

But honestly, I do also think there are also a ton of skivers who wfh. Not everyone plays fair. There was a thread recently where plenty of people admitted it. It ruins it for others.

I think there should be clear standards or targets/expectations/milestones, and people should expect to meet them.

ThePartingOfTheWays · 12/02/2025 22:39

Linux20 · 12/02/2025 22:29

Exactly. We go in once a week/ once a fortnight depending on holidays etc. There are over 800 people based in my office and 156 desks. We wouldn’t physically fit, the company has saved loads by downsizing.

No doubt. Office space is expensive. There's a reason loads of public sector staff had hybrid enforced on them during austerity. The bottom line is the bottom line!

RufustheFactuaIReindeer · 12/02/2025 22:30

Yodeloo · 12/02/2025 18:51

Fortunately my employers are not hoiking us back to the office. Hybrid working in my organisation is here to stay 😂

Same here, there will be no way there won’t be a degree of hybrid working 🤷🏻

crashingly disappointing for some posters I know

Linux20 · 12/02/2025 22:29

FaithFables · 12/02/2025 19:49

Hate to break to you, but some jobs are entirely wfh based. There is no office to go back to.

Exactly. We go in once a week/ once a fortnight depending on holidays etc. There are over 800 people based in my office and 156 desks. We wouldn’t physically fit, the company has saved loads by downsizing.

Supergirlscousin · 12/02/2025 22:27

gannett · 12/02/2025 19:21

Why is laundry always used as the go-to shirking evidence on threads like this? It takes 5 minutes. Laundry won't help anyone shirk properly.

It's always a little alarming that some people can't grasp the concepts of jobs that aren't measured in solid blocks of eight working hours; or jobs where the amount of work ebbs and flows; or that quality of work has nothing to do with putting your nose the grindstone 9-5; or that quality of work can even improve with non-work breaks. Or just jobs and lives that aren't like their own. If I was beng bitchy I would say no wonder those people are stuck in shit jobs where presenteeism is all that matters, instead of enjoying the autonomy of deciding when and how to do work to a schedule that suits us.

This.

Sometimes you also just need to take yourself off for a 10 min walk round the block to be more productive!

IHadaMarvelousTimeRuiningEverything · 12/02/2025 22:09

Ddakji · 12/02/2025 21:34

I don’t know anyone who was. My colleagues certainly weren’t best pleased.

You must know some affluent people who can just lose a fifth of their salary for six weeks and not blink.

No, I think the people I knew that were losing a fifth of their salary were probably making a bit of a saving because they weren't paying for petrol, train tickets and other expenses involved in commuting to work. They were stuck at home, only allowed at once a day, so their expenditure naturally reduced. Whether that was you or not is neither here nor there. I know people that were in that position and it's those same people that are kicking up a stink about people wfh.

CandyLeBonBon · 12/02/2025 22:03

If you're in an office, there's going to be a bit of time chatting to colleagues, making coffee etc. I view putting the laundry on etc as a similar use of time. And I get faaaarrrrr more work done when I wfh because there are fewer distractions and my output is significantly higher than when I'm in the office - mainly because people stop by for a chat etc which I don't get at home.

It's swings and roundabouts and if your core hours are covered, you have the trust of your company and you deliver what you're supposed to, then it's all good I reckon!

Addeline · 12/02/2025 21:54

My WFH days aren’t like that. I’m expected to be at my desk working, except for short breaks to use the loo/get a drink and take my lunch break. I’d probably get sacked if it became known I put the washing out or did my own admin on paid work time. They can tell if you’re not there generally as we’re on chat a lot.

SENDqueries · 12/02/2025 21:40

I'm contracted to do 30 hours a week and work exclusively from home. My day generally looks

6.15am-6.45am morning work admin
Get kids up and ready for school

9am-2.30pm I work but I stop for 10 minutes to sort my laundry, 20 minutes to eat and 10 minutes to faff the dishwasher.

4pm after getting home from the pick up I will log back on and do another hour. If things are crazy that often becomes two or even three hours (and build up TOIL).

My job is really intense, I have to break the big block up to make it manageable so 2 x 10 minutes and 1 x 20 minutes which is made up (and more) later works well for me. If I have to take a personal phone call or run a personal errand then, again, that gets made up.

Yes I have flexibility, yes my job gets 100%, yes it suits my life and I earn less in the public sector than my private sector equivalent. If it works all round then why does it matter.

PhilomenaPunk · 12/02/2025 21:39

rwalker · 12/02/2025 16:05

hanging your washing out in works time and going to the gym is taking the piss if your being paid you should be working

Don't you ever take breaks when you're at work? Make cups of tea? Go to the toilet? Have a chat with colleagues? Do a bit of filing or go for a walk around the building to stretch your legs? Etc etc.? What's the difference between that and spending literally 3-4 minutes loading a washing machine?

You realise that you're actually supposed to take a screen break at least once an hour to stop eye strain-so why can't you spend that time completing a quick household chore?