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to think some people think WFH should be a constant nose to the grindstone?

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Yodeloo · 12/02/2025 15:45

I think some jobs are like that definitely. Heavy workload, helplines etc

Some people think all WFH should be like this and get horrified because someone hung some washing out or helped out a family member for a short time. Plenty of jobs have flexibility and it is about getting the job done not just being present in front of the computer non stop.

I get all my life admin done throughout the day around work. I do an exercise class most mornings and then start work later on the days I WFH. I will meet up with friends, work on my side business. Nobody cares at my work. All targets are met consistently.

Is it jealousy that people get so upset?

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ThePartingOfTheWays · 14/02/2025 15:48

Praying4Peace · 14/02/2025 12:55

THIS. OP's story epitomises the unfairness of WFH and why companies are requesting a RTO. As for meeting targets and company not worried, my question is are you paid per job or for specific contracted hours?
In my workplace, there are groups of people who have to clock in and out (yes, in 2025) and others who WFH. Epitomises the great societal divide,
I know people who have given up paid childcare whilst wfh?????. looked after GC, visiting hairdressers and nailbars, gardening groups (as some examples), all whilst WFH. Says it all
As always, I am prepared to be shouted out on this

Presumably you apply the same principle and post just as much criticism of jobs that pay more than others, or have better benefits such as pensions, maternity leave etc? Or more actually, since not everyone does want to work remotely whereas everyone likes more money.

Weird the way we don't seem to see as many threads saying what a great social divide it is that some people get great maternity pay and others SMP, some people get twice as much annual leave as others etc.

Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 15:38

Praying4Peace · 14/02/2025 12:55

THIS. OP's story epitomises the unfairness of WFH and why companies are requesting a RTO. As for meeting targets and company not worried, my question is are you paid per job or for specific contracted hours?
In my workplace, there are groups of people who have to clock in and out (yes, in 2025) and others who WFH. Epitomises the great societal divide,
I know people who have given up paid childcare whilst wfh?????. looked after GC, visiting hairdressers and nailbars, gardening groups (as some examples), all whilst WFH. Says it all
As always, I am prepared to be shouted out on this

Some companies may be requesting a RTO. My company no longer have the office space to accommodate everyone to RTO thank goodness!

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Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 15:37

HotCrossBunplease · 14/02/2025 12:56

While I broadly agree with your stance OP, I don’t think it’s helpful to keep talking about running your “side business” during working hours. You’ve mentioned that your employer is fine about this but it would be in breach of many people’s employment contracts and could land them in big trouble. It’s really important to check that carefully.

This reminds me actually of some ridiculous person who posted an AMA last year claiming that they had two simultaneous full time jobs in marketing that they were able to do while WFH, and neither employer knew about the other. Running two laptops simultaneously etc.

Because other people could get in trouble, I shouldn't mention talking about running my side business? If it is in breach of someone's employment contract then they need to check and make the decision whether to take the risk.

It is not an issue for me. I hit all my targets consistently. If I wasn't then it would raise suspicion about how I spend my time. I would rather keep my employer happy by doing everything that needs to be done in the most efficient way and then focus on all the other things I can do for myself in working time.

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ShapedLikeAPastry · 14/02/2025 14:50

In my workplace, there are groups of people who have to clock in and out (yes, in 2025) and others who WFH. Epitomises the great societal divide

Are they fulfilling exactly the same roles? Because I could say the same for my workplace, but that's because different groups of people in my large organisation have different jobs.

If both groups are indeed doing exactly the same role then I would suggest that's a shit management issue, not a societal one.

Fizbosshoes · 14/02/2025 13:57

HotCrossBunplease · 14/02/2025 12:56

While I broadly agree with your stance OP, I don’t think it’s helpful to keep talking about running your “side business” during working hours. You’ve mentioned that your employer is fine about this but it would be in breach of many people’s employment contracts and could land them in big trouble. It’s really important to check that carefully.

This reminds me actually of some ridiculous person who posted an AMA last year claiming that they had two simultaneous full time jobs in marketing that they were able to do while WFH, and neither employer knew about the other. Running two laptops simultaneously etc.

I think I remember the person, on AMA. IIRC they were looking after a child aswell and were doing 2 "full time" jobs that each required 1 or 2 hours work per day

HotCrossBunplease · 14/02/2025 12:56

While I broadly agree with your stance OP, I don’t think it’s helpful to keep talking about running your “side business” during working hours. You’ve mentioned that your employer is fine about this but it would be in breach of many people’s employment contracts and could land them in big trouble. It’s really important to check that carefully.

This reminds me actually of some ridiculous person who posted an AMA last year claiming that they had two simultaneous full time jobs in marketing that they were able to do while WFH, and neither employer knew about the other. Running two laptops simultaneously etc.

Praying4Peace · 14/02/2025 12:55

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 12/02/2025 15:51

If you have specific wfh working hours, surely you should be working during them? Why should your employer be paying you to do your laundry and go to an exercise class? Confused

If you have totally flexible working hours and are allowed to do your work any time as long as it gets done, then obviously the question isn't really relevant.

THIS. OP's story epitomises the unfairness of WFH and why companies are requesting a RTO. As for meeting targets and company not worried, my question is are you paid per job or for specific contracted hours?
In my workplace, there are groups of people who have to clock in and out (yes, in 2025) and others who WFH. Epitomises the great societal divide,
I know people who have given up paid childcare whilst wfh?????. looked after GC, visiting hairdressers and nailbars, gardening groups (as some examples), all whilst WFH. Says it all
As always, I am prepared to be shouted out on this

MegTheForgetfulCat · 14/02/2025 12:45

Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 11:35

This approach doesn't always work for knowledge based tasks. Not every task can be measured and recorded particularly problem solving.

No, it doesn't suit all roles - it was a reply to PP describing it as "archaic", which it clearly isn't as it's widely used across many industries.

Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 11:35

MegTheForgetfulCat · 14/02/2025 09:45

A lot of industries operate on that basis, and in the case of many professional services it will be a breach of regulatory standards to fabricate time recording where a client is being charged (accountants, lawyers, auditors etc).

Even if your charging structures aren't based on hourly rates, surely it's a good way of keeping track of how much time people are spending on particular tasks, in order to allocate a cost to the business, assess staff capacity levels etc?

This approach doesn't always work for knowledge based tasks. Not every task can be measured and recorded particularly problem solving.

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PullTheBricksDown · 14/02/2025 10:05

MagpiePi · 12/02/2025 16:09

It's not like everyone in an office is working the whole time. There's always plenty of non-work related chat, people going to make a cup of tea, or clearly scrolling on their phones IME.

Some of us are old enough to remember the days when taking 20 minutes off every two hours for a 'fag break' was acceptable if you were a smoker. Apparently that was a golden age of dedication to your employer and staying on task. Don't make me laugh.

MegTheForgetfulCat · 14/02/2025 09:45

SecondMrsTanqueray · 14/02/2025 09:34

That’s so archaic. I’d hate to have a job like that.

A lot of industries operate on that basis, and in the case of many professional services it will be a breach of regulatory standards to fabricate time recording where a client is being charged (accountants, lawyers, auditors etc).

Even if your charging structures aren't based on hourly rates, surely it's a good way of keeping track of how much time people are spending on particular tasks, in order to allocate a cost to the business, assess staff capacity levels etc?

Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 09:45

Fizbosshoes · 14/02/2025 09:04

Fir people who used to work in an office but now reach all targets in half a day at home, how did you spend all the spare time in the office?

I ran my side business, sorted out life admin, did transcription work.

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SecondMrsTanqueray · 14/02/2025 09:34

Addeline · 13/02/2025 23:19

We complete timesheets so it would be considered fraud if we put down times we weren’t working. If you don’t put down 37 hours, you’d be expected to make the time up. If you’ve run out of things to do, you’d be expected to help someone who’s overloaded.

That’s so archaic. I’d hate to have a job like that.

OlivePeer · 14/02/2025 09:15

Fizbosshoes · 14/02/2025 09:04

Fir people who used to work in an office but now reach all targets in half a day at home, how did you spend all the spare time in the office?

A lot of time being bored. I've tended to have jobs where you're waiting for an email or task to come in, so a lot of waiting around, keeping an eye on your inbox while time ticks by at a glacial pace. Making tea. Spending longer than needed on the tasks if I knew I'd be sitting around for a while otherwise. Seeing if anyone else needed anything (if appropriate - also tends to get people's backs up so not recommended on a regular basis). At least at home I can read a book (or go on mumsnet) during the pauses.

Fizbosshoes · 14/02/2025 09:04

Fir people who used to work in an office but now reach all targets in half a day at home, how did you spend all the spare time in the office?

ThePartingOfTheWays · 14/02/2025 07:38

Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 07:31

It is not difficult to understand that all jobs do not involve working solidly for every minute of your working hours.

I get everything done in less time and hit all my targets. Then I do other life stuff. So what is the problem?

I dunno, it seems to be quite beyond the understanding of some people.

Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 07:33

Addeline · 13/02/2025 23:19

We complete timesheets so it would be considered fraud if we put down times we weren’t working. If you don’t put down 37 hours, you’d be expected to make the time up. If you’ve run out of things to do, you’d be expected to help someone who’s overloaded.

So happy my work doesn't run a timesheet system!

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Yodeloo · 14/02/2025 07:31

BellissimoGecko · 13/02/2025 23:49

God, you're smug.

You should be working the hours you are paid for.
It's not difficult.

It is not difficult to understand that all jobs do not involve working solidly for every minute of your working hours.

I get everything done in less time and hit all my targets. Then I do other life stuff. So what is the problem?

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EveInEden · 14/02/2025 07:30

Princessfluffy · 12/02/2025 23:46

I think the main worry about WFH is that a lot of jobs that provably can be done remotely are now being moved to wherever in the world labour is cheapest.

This has been going on for decades. It isn't new. Many roles cant be done offshore because they require onshore working due to the services they provide.

BellissimoGecko · 13/02/2025 23:49

God, you're smug.

You should be working the hours you are paid for.
It's not difficult.

Addeline · 13/02/2025 23:19

We complete timesheets so it would be considered fraud if we put down times we weren’t working. If you don’t put down 37 hours, you’d be expected to make the time up. If you’ve run out of things to do, you’d be expected to help someone who’s overloaded.

marmaladeandpeanutbutter · 13/02/2025 22:38

But OP, if you do all that, your targets must be wrong. Still, not necessarily your problem.

FaithFables · 13/02/2025 15:28

OonaStubbs · 13/02/2025 01:25

If people at work have time to hang out washing or go to exercise classes, they are not being managed properly and are not as productive as they should be. I think WFH should be cracked down on as too many are clearly swinging the lead.

Clearly you've not read the thread. Do you think people who WFH aren't bound by the same employment laws as everyone else? I do 9 hours per day from home, 5 days per week. I have one hour unpaid break, that's broken up through out the day. 15 minutes in the morning, half an hour for lunch and 15 minutes in the afternoon.

Morning break I make tea and toast whilst putting a wash on and hoovering. Lunchtime, I'll put the washing on the radiators/in the dryer and then walk the dog. Afternoon break I have coffee and biscuits whilst doing any other housework that needs doing.

Do you work all day without a break? Do you never go the loo, make a cuppa, chat to a colleague or pop out for lunch? If you don't then you have a point, if you do, well bit hypocritical of you, yes?

Yodeloo · 13/02/2025 13:02

k1233 · 13/02/2025 10:10

@Yodeloo work on my side business.

Yeah, worked with a guy who did similar. He was instantly dismissed when work found out.

Won't be the case for me!

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Linux20 · 13/02/2025 12:32

ThePartingOfTheWays · 13/02/2025 10:48

Does not compute, I expect.

Some MNers simply can't cope with the idea that anyone might need to do work with people who don't live within commuting distance of them, let alone in a different country.

Exactly I’m on the south coast. There are 8 people in my team 2 others live close enough to go to the same office as me. Another 2 in London, one in Shropshire and 2 in Scotland. Which office are we all supposed to be in or should we all commute to our nearest office to then sit on our own in an office and speak on Teams?
we also do an international job and have to have calls regularly with Australia, India and the US, which don’t fit into standard hours.

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