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Friend at it in the kitchen??

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DoYouFeelLikeAPlasticBag · 10/02/2025 17:22

Haven't seen a friend for a while so she came over to visit today and brought food and her new boyfriend along with her so I could meet him. From what she had said he seemed okay but he didn't talk at all.

About half an hour in she decided she was going to put a pizza on and the boyfriend followed her though the kitchen. Fine.

Anyway, after about 5 mins she hadn't come back in and I could here 'whispering' so went in to see if she needed help or anything. Turns out.. they were at it over the side!!

She pretended it was nothing and tried to act normal but I told them to take the pizza home and carry on their afternoon in their own house.

They both stormed out.

Was I being over the top? I'm all up for everyone loving a shag but I've never wacked my pants down at lunch at my mates?

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DoYouFeelLikeAPlasticBag · 10/02/2025 17:29

UpUpUpU · 10/02/2025 17:28

Sorry OP, I don't quite believe it.

If it is true, you should have kept the pizza as compensation.

I did quite fancy it but couldn't have ate it knowing it could have touched something I didn't want it to

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DoYouFeelLikeAPlasticBag · 10/02/2025 17:28

I just couldn't believe it was so out in the open!! Would have thought it was manky wherever they went but it's not even like they tried to sneak off to the bathroom for privacy.

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WilmaTitsDrop · 10/02/2025 17:28

Lol

UndermyShoeJoe · 10/02/2025 17:28

I just can’t get over the thought that fully grown adults thought it was acceptable to just start having sex in your kitchen. Sober, middle of the day, you on the sofa.

UpUpUpU · 10/02/2025 17:28

Sorry OP, I don't quite believe it.

If it is true, you should have kept the pizza as compensation.

5128gap · 10/02/2025 17:27

Good for you. I'd not want to be the unconsenting prop in their exhibitionist fantasy either. They were incredibly rude and disrespectful towards you. Round of applause for the way you dealt with it.

DoYouFeelLikeAPlasticBag · 10/02/2025 17:26

Thirteenblackcat · 10/02/2025 17:26

Are they going to pay for a deep clean of your kitchen?

Edited

Well I'd hope so but I very much doubt it after that episode.

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Thirteenblackcat · 10/02/2025 17:26

Are they going to pay for a deep clean of your kitchen?

Stripeyanddotty · 10/02/2025 17:26

lol.

Lilith666 · 10/02/2025 17:25

Surely this is the height of rudeness!! I am not a pearl-clutcher, but this is awful!

Thirteenblackcat · 10/02/2025 17:25

YANBU

DoYouFeelLikeAPlasticBag · 10/02/2025 17:25

The boyfriend even gave me a dirty look after me not even getting a hello so that topped it off ffs

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ItGhoul · 10/02/2025 17:24
Hmm
PeriPeriMam · 10/02/2025 17:24

They both stormed out????? Oh gawd. You're not unreasonable. I hope they pulled their pants up first? 😂