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To believe that eating meat should be illegal?

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BySpoonyBlueScroller · 10/02/2025 09:34

The environmental damage and animal cruelty outweighs the cultural or personal benefits. AIBU to think it’s time to outlaw meat production?

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DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 10/02/2025 11:09

hamstersarse · 10/02/2025 11:02

you do know that animals are barbaric to one another don’t you? I think you are under the illusion that animals are like they are on Disney,

My hens are pretty evil to each other, same for the goats. And as for the pigs….🤪
What would you do with a hen that attacks another to the point of bleeding? Or a goat that draws blood on a newcomer?

Animals have very harsh hierarchies in their groups. They don’t do disability allowances or play “be kind” with any weaknesses

I’m not even saying this to say it justifies us eating them, more that I see you live in a naive innocent world where everything should be nice to each other, And it’s ridiculous, It’s just not true. My animals are slaughtered in as humane conditions as possible, better than how most humans die,

Indeed. We always get the same complaints when David Attenborough and others film animal brutality in the wild - whether killing prey for food, lions killing cubs that were fathered by a rival lion or other - and don't step in to stop it.

Animals don't have these fluffy sensitivities that we do.

Fencehedge · 10/02/2025 11:09

derxa · 10/02/2025 11:06

I’m a sheep farmer.

So you profit from death. I grew up on a dairy farm. I disagree with you.

DiscoBaIIs · 10/02/2025 11:08

Oopsadaisy92 · 10/02/2025 11:07

Hate to be the one to point this out but agricultural farming is just as environmentally damaging and causes animal cruelty. All that farming land has to go somewhere and trees need to be removed for it. The chemical pesticides used to enhance yield cause untold damage to the wildlife. The machines used to plow and harvest the land kill animals and cause unnecessary stress. But how cute does an animal have to be before the vegans become invested in their cause?

This has already been answered, but yay you for thinking you've said something original.

Fencehedge · 10/02/2025 11:07

DiscoBaIIs · 10/02/2025 11:05

The thing is, we DO know right from wrong. And much of it is taught, too. We have been taught they animal abuse is wrong - it is illegal to hurt cats and dogs. But we are also taught that this only applies to certain animals. WHY? Do cows not experience pain the same way cats and dogs do?

Why don't people eat cats and dogs in the UK? Most here will be aghast at the idea, but not understand why.

If I kick a dog, people will try to stop me, and I'll even likely be charged. If I eat a burger from a cow, someone will ask if I want ketchup or mayo. We DO know what's right, if we think about it. But we are conditioned NOT to think, not to challenge. Those of us who DO challenge are called 'preachy vegans', in a tone telling us to shut up. But people do know, they are just uncomfortable with having it pointed out.

100% agree. Vegan-shaming is seen as acceptable now. It won't be in the future.

DiscoBaIIs · 10/02/2025 11:07

hamstersarse · 10/02/2025 11:02

you do know that animals are barbaric to one another don’t you? I think you are under the illusion that animals are like they are on Disney,

My hens are pretty evil to each other, same for the goats. And as for the pigs….🤪
What would you do with a hen that attacks another to the point of bleeding? Or a goat that draws blood on a newcomer?

Animals have very harsh hierarchies in their groups. They don’t do disability allowances or play “be kind” with any weaknesses

I’m not even saying this to say it justifies us eating them, more that I see you live in a naive innocent world where everything should be nice to each other, And it’s ridiculous, It’s just not true. My animals are slaughtered in as humane conditions as possible, better than how most humans die,

Nobody with any sense thinks animals are all lovely top each other like they are in a Disney movie. But we are BETTER than other animals in the way we can think about what we are doing, and we can make better choices.

There is no such thing as humane slaughter. Why do we not euthanize old cats and dogs at the slaughtehouse, if it is so humane?

Sunhatweather · 10/02/2025 11:07

CasperGutman · 10/02/2025 09:36

From a purely logical standpoint I can see the argument. You're not unreasonable to think a ban could be beneficial. But it's a very, very deeply embedded cultural practice that's widely accepted in our society. It's not going to be banned any time soon and you would be unreasonable to expect it to be.

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But it’s not just cultural, is it? It’s biological.

Oopsadaisy92 · 10/02/2025 11:07

Hate to be the one to point this out but agricultural farming is just as environmentally damaging and causes animal cruelty. All that farming land has to go somewhere and trees need to be removed for it. The chemical pesticides used to enhance yield cause untold damage to the wildlife. The machines used to plow and harvest the land kill animals and cause unnecessary stress. But how cute does an animal have to be before the vegans become invested in their cause?

derxa · 10/02/2025 11:06

Fencehedge · 10/02/2025 11:03

How? Do you live within earshot of farm animals? I do.

I’m a sheep farmer.

DiscoBaIIs · 10/02/2025 11:05

Haemagoblin · 10/02/2025 11:00

See I don't believe that it is 'morals' that separate us. We ARE animals, with no more inherent or objective virtue than any pig or chimp.

The only thing that makes us different is our huge brains, which have enabled us to effectively take over the planet (and ironically also to wreck it), whilst still having brainspace left over to invent/ornament a whole bunch of inessential made-up stuff stuff like games, literature, music, art, religion and morality.

Morality, because it is made up, is relative. The only 'morals' that hold fast across pretty much all human cultures are ones that have a pretty strong basis in evolutionary necessity and other mammals by and large share them.

Otherwise our 'moralities' vary enormously and evolve/attenuate over time based on exigent circumstances. Once upon a time homosexuality was 'immoral' (and still is in a number of cultures). Incest is 'immoral' to varying degrees in differing cultures (so in the UK we'd be pretty repulsed by marriage between first cousins nowadays, whereas it is quite normal in other cultures. Multiple wives is considered immoral in our culture but perfectly acceptable in others. Suicide and even murder/suicide has at various times in various cultures (and even within the same culture) been considered evil, honourable, required or morally neutral depending on its social effect.

So to my mind the idea there is some sort of 'true' morality that all/most human beings inherently share that animals do not is not demonstrable or a good argument for legislation. I would love it if things were different, and that 'my' morality was entirely 'correct' and objective, but it absolutely isn't. Any more than yours is, or a lioness's is, or a kamikaze pilot's is.

The thing is, we DO know right from wrong. And much of it is taught, too. We have been taught they animal abuse is wrong - it is illegal to hurt cats and dogs. But we are also taught that this only applies to certain animals. WHY? Do cows not experience pain the same way cats and dogs do?

Why don't people eat cats and dogs in the UK? Most here will be aghast at the idea, but not understand why.

If I kick a dog, people will try to stop me, and I'll even likely be charged. If I eat a burger from a cow, someone will ask if I want ketchup or mayo. We DO know what's right, if we think about it. But we are conditioned NOT to think, not to challenge. Those of us who DO challenge are called 'preachy vegans', in a tone telling us to shut up. But people do know, they are just uncomfortable with having it pointed out.

Fencehedge · 10/02/2025 11:04

hamstersarse · 10/02/2025 11:02

you do know that animals are barbaric to one another don’t you? I think you are under the illusion that animals are like they are on Disney,

My hens are pretty evil to each other, same for the goats. And as for the pigs….🤪
What would you do with a hen that attacks another to the point of bleeding? Or a goat that draws blood on a newcomer?

Animals have very harsh hierarchies in their groups. They don’t do disability allowances or play “be kind” with any weaknesses

I’m not even saying this to say it justifies us eating them, more that I see you live in a naive innocent world where everything should be nice to each other, And it’s ridiculous, It’s just not true. My animals are slaughtered in as humane conditions as possible, better than how most humans die,

Well that's alright then 🙄

Haemagoblin · 10/02/2025 11:03

sparrowflewdown · 10/02/2025 10:34

I do also believe eating meat ( or using any animal products) will not be a thing in 20 - 30 years time.

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To be frank if we're all still in a position to be worrying our heads about the ethics of eating meat in 20-30 years time, I'll be bloody delighted. The way things are going that will be the LEAST of our worries.

Fencehedge · 10/02/2025 11:03

derxa · 10/02/2025 11:02

So much nonsense.

How? Do you live within earshot of farm animals? I do.

hamstersarse · 10/02/2025 11:02

DiscoBaIIs · 10/02/2025 10:54

Doesn't upset you enough not to participate in the barbarity though, does it! Enough with the faux sadness. We see through it.

you do know that animals are barbaric to one another don’t you? I think you are under the illusion that animals are like they are on Disney,

My hens are pretty evil to each other, same for the goats. And as for the pigs….🤪
What would you do with a hen that attacks another to the point of bleeding? Or a goat that draws blood on a newcomer?

Animals have very harsh hierarchies in their groups. They don’t do disability allowances or play “be kind” with any weaknesses

I’m not even saying this to say it justifies us eating them, more that I see you live in a naive innocent world where everything should be nice to each other, And it’s ridiculous, It’s just not true. My animals are slaughtered in as humane conditions as possible, better than how most humans die,

derxa · 10/02/2025 11:02

CoffeeCantata · 10/02/2025 10:54

I am NOT the evangelical type, so I just don't eat meat - I don't preach at people.

But we're so conditioned to ignore the cruelties of meat production. We all love to see the lambs with their mums at Easter - but has anyone seen and heard those same ewes crying pitifully all day long for their lambs when they're all taken to slaughter (except some ewe lambs for breeding) after only a couple of months of life? It's extremely harrowing!

This is the kind of thing the meat industry works very hard to keep from most urban dwellers and to stop us thinking about it or joining the dots.

It was put superbly by Homer Simpson when Lisa wanted to stop eating meat:

'But Lisa, it's lamb, not A lamb!'

So much nonsense.

DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 10/02/2025 11:02

Fencehedge · 10/02/2025 10:57

Don't be so silly. I said it's a general trend that is actually happening. I didn't do it!

OK, apologies for misconstruing you - but the links that came up were virtually all based on serious concerns with being able to provide enough guide dogs for folk who need them, not on a widespread desire to stop using them.

Fencehedge · 10/02/2025 11:01

QuestionableMouse · 10/02/2025 11:00

It's not just meat though, is it?

They'd be no wool, no leather (and no, the plastic replacements aren't anything like the same), no lanolin (goodbye a lot of cosmetic and skin care products), no eggs, no dairy (and you will never convince me that plant milks are better for the environment - especially ones like almond! Not to mention soy is a horrible product).

They're also be no manure (or blood and bone fertilizer) which would mean an increase in alternatives - the production of which isn't great, either.

I'm pretty sure I'm missing stuff that we use every day and are animals by products.

I don't eat much meat as it is, but being coeliac I need some because I struggle to find alternatives. I can't eat soy because it makes me unwell, can't eat too much oat based stuff because it gives me stomach ache and I refuse to drink almond milk because of mono cropping.

I'm sure the people of the 1300s couldn't imagine a different world, either.

85PercentFaithful · 10/02/2025 11:01

Fencehedge · 10/02/2025 10:59

It'll be scaled up in decades

Decades is right - assuming those companies can get funding to scale. Which they may not because of the significant consumer purchasing/attitude shift also required.

QuestionableMouse · 10/02/2025 11:00

It's not just meat though, is it?

They'd be no wool, no leather (and no, the plastic replacements aren't anything like the same), no lanolin (goodbye a lot of cosmetic and skin care products), no eggs, no dairy (and you will never convince me that plant milks are better for the environment - especially ones like almond! Not to mention soy is a horrible product).

They're also be no manure (or blood and bone fertilizer) which would mean an increase in alternatives - the production of which isn't great, either.

I'm pretty sure I'm missing stuff that we use every day and are animals by products.

I don't eat much meat as it is, but being coeliac I need some because I struggle to find alternatives. I can't eat soy because it makes me unwell, can't eat too much oat based stuff because it gives me stomach ache and I refuse to drink almond milk because of mono cropping.

DiscoBaIIs · 10/02/2025 11:00

mandarinduck110 · 10/02/2025 10:57

We're lucky to have a very good one down the road but things aren't easy for them and it's one of my biggest fears that we lose them. I was hoping that the grants for small abattoirs would help but the way these grants are being managed I can't hold out too much hope.

A very good one? How so? So you're admitting that there are other not very good ones? Hm.

Haemagoblin · 10/02/2025 11:00

DiscoBaIIs · 10/02/2025 10:34

You are right about the dairy. It's an abhorrent industry.

Humans CAN thrive on WFPB (whole foods plant based) diets. Animals who are carnivores obviously can't. Herbivores can. Omnivores too. They don't have morals - this is what separates humans from the rest of the animal kingdom. Only some of us don't have morals.

See I don't believe that it is 'morals' that separate us. We ARE animals, with no more inherent or objective virtue than any pig or chimp.

The only thing that makes us different is our huge brains, which have enabled us to effectively take over the planet (and ironically also to wreck it), whilst still having brainspace left over to invent/ornament a whole bunch of inessential made-up stuff stuff like games, literature, music, art, religion and morality.

Morality, because it is made up, is relative. The only 'morals' that hold fast across pretty much all human cultures are ones that have a pretty strong basis in evolutionary necessity and other mammals by and large share them.

Otherwise our 'moralities' vary enormously and evolve/attenuate over time based on exigent circumstances. Once upon a time homosexuality was 'immoral' (and still is in a number of cultures). Incest is 'immoral' to varying degrees in differing cultures (so in the UK we'd be pretty repulsed by marriage between first cousins nowadays, whereas it is quite normal in other cultures. Multiple wives is considered immoral in our culture but perfectly acceptable in others. Suicide and even murder/suicide has at various times in various cultures (and even within the same culture) been considered evil, honourable, required or morally neutral depending on its social effect.

So to my mind the idea there is some sort of 'true' morality that all/most human beings inherently share that animals do not is not demonstrable or a good argument for legislation. I would love it if things were different, and that 'my' morality was entirely 'correct' and objective, but it absolutely isn't. Any more than yours is, or a lioness's is, or a kamikaze pilot's is.

DiscoBaIIs · 10/02/2025 10:59

HipMax · 10/02/2025 10:56

Who is we? The poor have always lived, mostly badly, on little meat. But also little vegetables either. And human have tended to starve to death quite a lot throughout history.

Let's all be clear here; a notion to make meat and dairy illegal is a plan to kill a huge number of humans.

Huh? How did you work that out? We need to make whole foods more affordable. Win win.

You might be interested in this little nugget:

"The UK government spends at least £1.5 billion a year subsidising livestock farming, ten times the UK’s annual budget for planting trees. Meanwhile, despite a global explosion in demand for planet-friendly alternative proteins, the UK has only committed £90m in research and development to this sector. "

From https://animalrebellion.org/campaigns/ditch-the-subsidies-defra/

I'd ban subsidies to the death industry, and plough that money into the whole foods plant based industries instead.

Ditch the subsidies, DEFRA - Animal Rebellion

In late October 2021, ahead of the COP26 summit in Glasgow, Animal Rebellion protestors scaled the face of the Department for Environment, Food and Rural Affairs (DEFRA) building in London to highlight our calls for a plant-based future. Animal Rebelli...

https://animalrebellion.org/campaigns/ditch-the-subsidies-defra

Fencehedge · 10/02/2025 10:59

85PercentFaithful · 10/02/2025 10:58

Lab grown meat is HUGELY expensive due to the processes involved. Unless that becomes viable from a cost perspective, it’s currently in the realms of ‘interesting science’ and that is all.

It'll be scaled up in decades

85PercentFaithful · 10/02/2025 10:58

Lab grown meat is HUGELY expensive due to the processes involved. Unless that becomes viable from a cost perspective, it’s currently in the realms of ‘interesting science’ and that is all.

mandarinduck110 · 10/02/2025 10:57

hamstersarse · 10/02/2025 10:52

I agree with your post, however one of the unintended consequences of this view is that regulation for abattoirs is so intense that there are now very very few in the uk.

What it means for small farmers like us is a 2.5 hour trip for the animals. It upsets me greatly. We’ve been trying to open an abbatoir locally for 8 years now but it’s genuinely impossible

We're lucky to have a very good one down the road but things aren't easy for them and it's one of my biggest fears that we lose them. I was hoping that the grants for small abattoirs would help but the way these grants are being managed I can't hold out too much hope.

Fencehedge · 10/02/2025 10:57

DalzielOrNoDalzielAndDontPascoe · 10/02/2025 10:54

Have done and it doesn't look like it's a positive choice for many to stop using guide dogs.

Either way, you're suggesting limiting the choices of some of the most underprivileged members of society in trying to reduce the impact of their disability on their lives.

It reminds me of the male leaders of Scientology who declare that women giving birth should learn to do so in silence, because they prefer it.

Don't be so silly. I said it's a general trend that is actually happening. I didn't do it!

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