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I am Not "Woo" at all but this just happened

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Tacsi · 09/02/2025 20:05

so I'm in no way, shape or form "woo" buuutttt just been sitting on side of my bed texting on my phone and my soundbar for TV (which I've had for 4 years with no issues) just decided to launch itself onto the floor, has hit my foot and cut it, picked it back up thinking how weird 🤷🤷 went back to my phone and a bottle of water, tube of face cream and a lip balm on top of my chest of drawers then launched themselves across the room, pretty freaked out by this point but still being rational in my head, picked phone back up carried on messaging back a friend, looked up to think what I was trying to type and felt a big tap /slap and literally saw my phone fly in the air and land other side of room, trying hard to think rationally but feeling pretty spooked right now
😭there's a rational reason for all this, yes???

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Imbusytodaysorry · 10/02/2025 09:05

OhMyGollyGoshGosh · 09/02/2025 20:43

  1. Your soundbar launched itself onto the floor.
  2. A bottle of water, a tube of face cream and a lip balm launched themselves across the room.
  3. Your phone then 'literally flew in the air' and landed on the other side of the room.
  4. You felt a 'big tap/slap'.

I'd be looking at your local news and Facebook groups to see if anyone else had a similar experience with a vibration this huge.

If not, I think I'd book an appointment with my GP.

Edited

Pretty patronising.

Christwosheds · 10/02/2025 09:05

Minimili · 09/02/2025 21:29

I keep having similar things happen and I’m not woo at all either.

I live in a very very old house and when my DP moved in he kept mentioning things suddenly falling over or falling off things that had never moved before. I kept telling him it was a load of nonsense and that he just believed the people who said the house must be haunted as it’s so old and he was now looking for signs.

We were sitting watching tv the other night and the remote control was on the bedside table right in the middle, the remote suddenly moved like it was being pushed and fell on the floor quite a distance from the table.

There have been a few things like this happen but more annoyingly things also go missing. I once fell asleep with my AirPods in, I had an audio book on timer and fell asleep in the first 5 minutes, I woke up when it went off only 30 minutes later and DP was still awake reading and swore I had hardly moved. One AirPod was missing and we tore the house apart looking for it but never found it. I was convinced DP had moved it at first but he helped look for it for days and would have preferred to fess up if it was a joke rather then spend that much time searching.

I took my ring off to wash up and it was never seen again, there have also been many other things but they were the weirdest as they disappeared so quickly never to be seen again.

We live in a very remote area, the house is surrounded by woodland and you have to go down an unlit country road to get to it. I was once walking home (which I hate and try to avoid) and was using my phone as a torch, it was so dark despite the torch and I was walking fast to get home quickly.

I was nearly home when I heard a rustling noise behind me and swung round.
There was a figure behind me that looked like it was all in black, all I saw was a pair of eyes in a pale white face, it was almost just eyes in the dark that locked with mine.
I was absolutely terrified and turned to see if anything was in front of me or to see if any cars were coming, I looked back a split second later and the figure had gone.

I ran all the way home and collapsed in the house panting and in shock, I don’t think DP would have believed me if I hadn’t been in such a state.

I try to avoid walking home now but I’m still trying to find an explanation. I’m like OP, despite seeing these things with my own eyes I’m not convinced they are supernatural.

You will probably never get an answer OP, my only conclusion from these events is unexplained things happen and there is probably a logical reason behind it or maybe we are just skeptics and are being targeted by sort of spirit or ghost (what’s the difference?) but refuse to believe it.

I almost drove myself mad trying to think of what caused it (and I did get a carbon monoxide alarm) but now I just accept it. If it is a ghost I wish it would piss off, it’s often valuable things that go missing and it’s very irritating!

This has reminded me of the thread about the missing clock chains - did they ever return, does anyone know?

anyolddinosaur · 10/02/2025 09:03

Or look here www.volcanodiscovery.com/earthquakes/united-kingdom/wales.html

anyolddinosaur · 10/02/2025 09:02

"A total of 28 earthquakes have been recorded across the country since the beginning of 2025, all of which have been strong enough to be detected by the British Geological Society and measured on the Richter scale."

Maybe ask the BGS?

Imbusytodaysorry · 10/02/2025 09:01

Tacsi · 09/02/2025 20:28

15 years, nope nothing at all before this, the elderly lady died here before we bought house, was told it was haunted, but I don't belive in all that!! 🤔

You didn’t ?

jellyfishperiwinkle · 10/02/2025 08:57

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 10/02/2025 08:36

Like OP said, there are a multitude of possible causes/explanations that are infinitely more plausible than "ghosts", because ghosts do not exist.

I do believe in ghosts but not that they are spirits of the dead. I believe they are dreamt, imagined or hallucinated.

HowamImiddleaged · 10/02/2025 08:41

I'm atheist too but I do believe in spirits and their energy remaining.

I lost my DB two years ago and I am struggling with it. One day I turned around to the kitchen worktop and there was a large white shadow/light there, then it disappeared. I thought it was salt or flour that was falling down but nothing. It wasn't the sun either. I honestly believe it was something. Nothing before or since.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 10/02/2025 08:36

Newfoundzestforlife · 10/02/2025 07:59

I find it confusing how you say these things happened in front of your very eyes yet you still don't believe in ghosts 🤔

Like OP said, there are a multitude of possible causes/explanations that are infinitely more plausible than "ghosts", because ghosts do not exist.

jellyfishperiwinkle · 10/02/2025 08:29

What I notice with ghost stories and potentially supernatural stuff, is that on almost every occasion the person in question is going through some kind of stressful change in life even when they are feeling no obvious stress symptoms day to day.

There is often a bereavement or someone is very ill, they have just moved in somewhere, they have started university, there has been a marriage break-up, there is a teenager going through adolescence, or they are having problems in their job or career.

I guess a believer would say there are spirits trying to help or show you something in a difficult situation. A sceptic (and I fall on that side of the fence in spite of what I've seen myself) would say it is all coming from our own minds.

EBearhug · 10/02/2025 08:16

My money's on seismic/subsidence activity and the brain trying to make sense of it.

For those who've felt weight on the bed, look up sleep paralysis and hypnogogic/hypnopompic hallucinations.

I know I've had a few things where I can't tell if I really heard them or my brain conjured them up when half asleep - I do get very vivid dreams, and sometimes when I'm semi-conscious, rifting off or waking, I just haven't known what caused a half-remembered sound.

lnks · 10/02/2025 08:11

Newfoundzestforlife · 10/02/2025 07:44

Because you wouldn't dare to say you're anti Muslim.

What is wrong with saying you’re anti any religion?

I believe a lot of harm is done in the name of religion, and this isn’t unique to Catholicism or Christianity in general

(edited as posted too soon)

Newfoundzestforlife · 10/02/2025 07:59

I find it confusing how you say these things happened in front of your very eyes yet you still don't believe in ghosts 🤔

PearlClutzsche · 10/02/2025 07:55

Edited to add: I meant to quote the post that said "because you wouldn't dare criticise Islam"

Would I not? I'm an equal opportunities religion scorner.
I regard all religion as silly, pointless and manufactured as the gods of ancient Greece. People will believe in totally different "gods" in a few centuries' time. Countless people will die in their name, too.

On a lighter note, I love that there's a Wikihow on how to get rid of ghosts!

LoganberryWay · 10/02/2025 07:52

A talk by an RC Exorcist.

16.24 explains the types of demonic activity.

Newfoundzestforlife · 10/02/2025 07:44

PearlClutzsche · 09/02/2025 21:50

How is it not?

Because you wouldn't dare to say you're anti Muslim.

Tacsi · 10/02/2025 06:54

ColourBlueColourPurple · 10/02/2025 02:58

Fuck that. I'd be out of there. Aren't you scared??

not really as there will be (somewhere) a logical explanation.

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LouH1981 · 10/02/2025 06:48

DoBeGoodDontBeBad · 09/02/2025 20:36

If it's been quiet for 15 years could the haunting be trying to alert your attention to something important maybe?

Have you left your hair straighteners on?

Or it could be a significant date…

Feelingathomenow · 10/02/2025 06:46

whathaveiforgotten · 10/02/2025 06:04

@Feelingathomenow

What carbon monoxide can cause things to fly off shelves lol / who knew?

No but carbon monoxide poisoning can cause confusion and hallucinations.

Ah so you’re saying the sound bar, lip balm and phone didn’t move?

whathaveiforgotten · 10/02/2025 06:04

@Feelingathomenow

What carbon monoxide can cause things to fly off shelves lol / who knew?

No but carbon monoxide poisoning can cause confusion and hallucinations.

XDownwiththissortofthingX · 10/02/2025 05:54

PearlClutzsche · 09/02/2025 23:59

What if it's the ghost of an atheist?

It's always been a source of mirth for me that believers insist ghosts and so on are not bound by the laws of the universe, but are somehow subject to whatever nonsense man-made religions which are usually no more than a few hundred years old have come up with in order to deal with them.

I mean, as an atheist myself, I don't think I'm going to be particularly bothered if I'm in the middle of haunting somebody and they call in a Catholic priest. No doubt I'd just be tagged as some sort of exorcism-resistant "demonic" presence or some other absolute rubbish.

PyongyangKipperbang · 10/02/2025 05:25

AngelicKaty · 10/02/2025 04:33

It's brilliant that you started talking to them - so would I. I mean, why not? You might just learn something about them.

They muck about but its actually quite nice. We think of them more like Julian and Robin in Ghosts than anything in Poltergeist!

CobraChicken · 10/02/2025 04:38

That previous post ^ had an image attached, but I guess MN need to check all uploaded pics before displaying them, now.

CobraChicken · 10/02/2025 04:37

Are you located inside the area indicated on this map? If so it's probably historic coal mining related subsidence.

itsgettingweird · 10/02/2025 04:33

I've told this story here before but I did have similar once. Probable about 10 years ago.

Sat in lounge with ds and the single plastic (few inches in size) clipboard he'd got from a party bag suddenly flew off kitchen side and we only know because we heard it hit kitchen floor and saw it there from lounge - neither of us was near it.

Following day the hairbrush is not been able to find for a few days was in the middle of the hallway when I walked down it. Again we'd both been in lounge at the time it appeared.

No weird shit happened before or since. We've lived here 17 years.

It was freaky at the time but it's just faded into something I share on MN every now and then!

AngelicKaty · 10/02/2025 04:33

PyongyangKipperbang · 10/02/2025 04:11

I have never been woo but in the 26 years in this house me and the kids have all experienced things. We had all been experiencing them, it turned out, and didnt say anything to each other in case all the others thought we were crazy.

Nothing scary but, but not rationally explainable. So we started talking to them, (we are sure there is more than one, when DC3 was about 3 she mentioned "the others" quite often), saying hi when we got home, asking for their help for finding lost things and saying thank you when we found them. All has been peaceful. Sometimes things still happen, but it seems more playful than malicious.

It's brilliant that you started talking to them - so would I. I mean, why not? You might just learn something about them.