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To say that prisons should be abolished altogether?

241 replies

ThisAvidOchreEagle · 09/02/2025 12:29

Rehabilitation and community justice models work better than locking people away. AIBU to think prisons are outdated and ineffective?

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username299 · 09/02/2025 16:00

MrsPeregrine · 09/02/2025 15:58

Yes, YABVVU. There would be absolutely no deterrent to serious crimes such as murder and rape and the numbers would rocket. Seriously, what planet are you living on?

There's no deterrent to rape now. We have a 1% conviction rate. What planet are you on?

MrsPeregrine · 09/02/2025 15:58

Yes, YABVVU. There would be absolutely no deterrent to serious crimes such as murder and rape and the numbers would rocket. Seriously, what planet are you living on?

FKAT · 09/02/2025 15:55

GutsyShark · 09/02/2025 15:53

This is by far the most insane thing I have ever read on Mumsnet. Being a mother should give you immunity from prosecution? I can't think of a single issue that would arise from this policy.

And obviously it doesn't apply to fathers. Because equality is such an outdated idea.

You might want to clutch your pearls harder because it's actually the view of the prisoners minister and many senior people in the prison service. Except in very specific instances (West etc) there is very little rationale for imprisoning mothers. Women get far harsher sentencing than men as well.

Edit: Oh I just saw your post said 'immunity from prosecution' - that's not what the PP said. Learn to read.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 09/02/2025 15:55

Brilliant idea OP, there's a house 2 doors down from me for sale. I'll earmark it for Rose West 🙄.

MiniPumpkin · 09/02/2025 15:55

Yabu.

prison is needed for those who present a risk of serious harm

GutsyShark · 09/02/2025 15:53

partyplanningseason · 09/02/2025 15:49

It depends on the crime.

Women and especially mothers should not be locked up for non-violent crime.

The impact on mothers of having even short sentences is horrific - they often lose their jokes and custody of their DC. The same is not true for fathers - the DC typically stay with the mother and not much changes for the family.

I'd also say prison is outdated for drug possession, but you'd need decent treatment instead, much easier to access than currently.

But for dangerous, violent offenders yes they need to be removed from the community. Definitely including men who commit serious DV and coercive control on women and children. They really need to be locked up - what alternative is there?

This is by far the most insane thing I have ever read on Mumsnet. Being a mother should give you immunity from prosecution? I can't think of a single issue that would arise from this policy.

And obviously it doesn't apply to fathers. Because equality is such an outdated idea.

MrsSkylerWhite · 09/02/2025 15:52

MrsSkylerWhite · Today 15:52

PinkSparklyPussyCat · Today 15:47
username299 · Today 15:40
I'm not sure why people keep saying this; they already are. We have very few full life termers in the UK.
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I'd like to see more whole life tariffs. Why should someone who has murdered be allowed to live most of their life free

I’d go further. Probably controversial. Whilst I don’t agree with state sanctioned executions, I do think there’s a discussion to be had about those sentenced to life having the option to choose lethal injection themselves. Several recent, horrific cases spring to mind, where guilt was crystal clear.

MrsSkylerWhite · 09/02/2025 15:52

PinkSparklyPussyCat · Today 15:47

username299 · Today 15:40
I'm not sure why people keep saying this; they already are. We have very few full life termers in the UK.
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I'd like to see more whole life tariffs. Why should someone who has murdered be allowed to live most of their life free

I’d go further. Probably controversial. Whilst I don’t agree with state sanctioned executions, I do think there’s a discussion to be had about those sentenced to life having the option to choose lethal injection themselves. Several recent, horrific cases spring to mind, where guilt was crystal clear.

partyplanningseason · 09/02/2025 15:49

It depends on the crime.

Women and especially mothers should not be locked up for non-violent crime.

The impact on mothers of having even short sentences is horrific - they often lose their jokes and custody of their DC. The same is not true for fathers - the DC typically stay with the mother and not much changes for the family.

I'd also say prison is outdated for drug possession, but you'd need decent treatment instead, much easier to access than currently.

But for dangerous, violent offenders yes they need to be removed from the community. Definitely including men who commit serious DV and coercive control on women and children. They really need to be locked up - what alternative is there?

MaggieBsBoat · 09/02/2025 15:48

maudelovesharold · 09/02/2025 15:34

The op lit the blue touch paper and retired!

Love this, reminds me of. John Brunner novel.

IVFmumoftwo · 09/02/2025 15:48

You think Peter Sutcliffe could have been rehabilitated?

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 09/02/2025 15:47

username299 · 09/02/2025 15:40

I'm not sure why people keep saying this; they already are. We have very few full life termers in the UK.

I'd like to see more whole life tariffs. Why should someone who has murdered be allowed to live most of their life free?

Scrabbelator · 09/02/2025 15:46

Sure, just let convicted murderers, rapists and paedophiles live freely among us. No matter how many convictions they have, don't take away their freedom. No matter how heinous their crime, let them live freely among us.

Brilliant idea. How could it possibly go wrong...

Whammyyammy · 09/02/2025 15:44

Yeah. Let's let murderers, rapists, terrorists, drug dealers etc all do a wicker weaving course then pump them back into a civilised community....

Nanny0gg · 09/02/2025 15:42

WearyAuldWumman · 09/02/2025 13:08

Would you care to explain what you mean by 'community justice', OP?

Stocks? Pillories? Stoning?

username299 · 09/02/2025 15:40

ChowMoWan · 09/02/2025 15:22

I think that would be fine for non-violent offenders but do you really want serial killers, terrorists and child rapists on the street?

I'm not sure why people keep saying this; they already are. We have very few full life termers in the UK.

Nanny0gg · 09/02/2025 15:40

Simonjt · 09/02/2025 13:02

If it was a deterrent prisons would be shutting due to a lack of people going to prison, where as they have the highest prisoner rate in the world.

But much lower crime now (apparently)

BTW I think it's barbaric so I'm not advocating it

Nanny0gg · 09/02/2025 15:38

AquaPeer · 09/02/2025 12:57

“No country has ever eradicated prisons and rehabilitated criminals in the community as you suggest OP”

”el Salvador has… by having prisons”

erm…
what? 😂

Yes. Wrong post

Zusammengebrochen · 09/02/2025 15:38

Lourdes12 · 09/02/2025 15:31

A lot of people cannot be rehabilitated

And even if they can they are also initially still a danger to others.

Nanny0gg · 09/02/2025 15:38

aei22 · 09/02/2025 12:56

What’s the deterrent to committing crimes then? I’ll steal my next Tesco shop shall I?

You could

Shoplifting doesn't seem to get that much attention

maudelovesharold · 09/02/2025 15:34

The op lit the blue touch paper and retired!

MaggieBsBoat · 09/02/2025 15:32

Teenager? Silly? No critical thinking skills?

Laugh Out Loud.

Simonjt · 09/02/2025 15:32

ViolinsPlayGentlyOn · 09/02/2025 15:27

Presume you’re both relatively high earners, then. My understanding is that tax in most Scandinavian countries is a lot higher for average earners than the UK but higher earners pay similar / less.

Don’t know where you live, but looking at the calculators, I’d get about 10% less in my take-home pay for the same salary if I lived in Stockholm (picked as that’s where I found a calculator for first) - and I earn above average for the UK.

No we’re not, due to moving here we had to start on the bottom ladder in our industries, I’ve only been working just over a year. My tax rate varies a little but its from 29.1-31%, I get a very small rebate otherwise my total tax rate would be 32%.

JaneAustensHeroine · 09/02/2025 15:32

There are enough dangerous people roaming our streets as it is. We need more prisons and a more effective system. Yes, in principle rehabilitation is a positive thing which I support but in reality some people cannot be rehabilitated and go onto commit the most heinous crimes again. Would you want to live next door to them? Have your children near them? Work alongside them? If you genuinely think everyone can be rehabilitated then read the news about people who have continued to reoffend and the stories of people who have lost loved ones at their hands.

Rightsraptor · 09/02/2025 15:31

I'm sure OP is being deliberately contentious.

However, I'm also sure that we should have a policy of 'prison as a last resort' for lots of offences, but definitely not those of violence. Approximately 20% of female prisoners are in for non-payment of fines relating to not paying for a TV licence - do we think that's right? I don't. I'd get rid of the bloody licence anyway, but until then some other means of community punishment should surely be possible.

And of course Rudikubana, Rose West, Valdo Colocane, Ian Huntly and all the rest of that category should stay behind bars for the rest of their lives. But they aren't typical prisoners, so let's not measure the usual con by them.