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Boss told me off for exclaiming Jesus Christ

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GloMum · 08/02/2025 14:55

The other day my boss told me off for exclaiming Jesus Christ when I was surprised during a work meeting. Boss told me it’s rude towards people from different religions and asked me if I’d done my DEI training. I have, and I enjoy friendships with colleagues from varied backgrounds. I feel really stressed now in case I slip again, and embarrassed I should be told off.

YABU - This is an inappropriate exclamation at work
YANBU - It’s just an exclamation and you shouldn’t be told off for that.

OP posts:
HipMax · 08/02/2025 15:15

Rizzla · 08/02/2025 15:12

Why are people saying this who claim to be Christians? It’s a commandment to not take the Lord’s name in vain. It’s a big deal for Christians.

It's really not a big deal. It's not like Christians follow the bible much (thank God!)

MelisandeLongfield · 08/02/2025 15:14

I try to avoid blasphemy although 'bloody hell' does slip out sometimes. I avoid swearing and blaspheming altogether in the work environment (years of working in customer-facing areas where it is a complete no-no). I swear freely at home, usually variants on 'fuck'. I've occasionally had people apologise for swearing in front of me at work, so possibility I have a completely undeserved reputation as a puritan.

BiggerBoat1 · 08/02/2025 15:14

I have no religion and can imagine myself saying that, but I also think your boss was right to pull you up on it. It is not professional and could cause offence.

Hardlyworking · 08/02/2025 15:12

All I said was this piece of halibut is fit for Jehovah!

Rizzla · 08/02/2025 15:12

Why are people saying this who claim to be Christians? It’s a commandment to not take the Lord’s name in vain. It’s a big deal for Christians.

myplace · 08/02/2025 15:12

I know many people don’t think that’s a particularly strong swear, but I really do. It’s up there with all the ones you’d never say at work.

I don’t know why it’s become a weak swear. I think maybe people’s disdain for faith, religion generally makes it feel satisfying. An extra rebellion if you like- rude word and anti religious at the same time.

Watsername · 08/02/2025 15:11

I have a colleague who says this. I was really taken aback when they did it the first time. As a Christian, I really don’t like it, but haven’t had the courage to challenge it as I don’t want to come across as over-sensitive.

IntoTheArk · 08/02/2025 15:10

When we were at church a few years back I went to the back to talk to the priest about a christening for our newborn after the service. When my other DC (2) ran to a cupboard and opened it, the priest exclaimed "JESUS CHRIST" at the top of his voice, so personally I think anyone getting offended by it is just looking for things, but I'd still try to avoid saying it because people are so easily offended these days, especially on behalf of others.

saraclara · 08/02/2025 15:10

I'm not a believer, but it's not a phrase I'd use at work, just as if I find myself about to type it out in a response to a post on Mumsnet, I censor myself. When you don't know all the individuals in your audience, it makes sense to be cautious.

thestudio · 08/02/2025 15:09

The right to religious freedom = I respect your right to believe and I won't harrass or discriminate against you for it.

That's it.

skippy67 · 08/02/2025 15:08

GloMum · 08/02/2025 14:58

Boss is not Christian, I am.

Yeah, of course you are...

Pollyanna87 · 08/02/2025 15:08

ScribblingPixie · 08/02/2025 15:07

I don't understand why he would say it's rude to people of different religions. Other than Christians, who does he mean?

Christ is one of the major prophets of Islam.

ScribblingPixie · 08/02/2025 15:07

I don't understand why he would say it's rude to people of different religions. Other than Christians, who does he mean?

KimberleyClark · 08/02/2025 15:07

It’s unprofessional language in a work meeting. No need for it.

FoxtonFoxton · 08/02/2025 15:06

I had that once and immediately followed with oh god, I'm so sorry. Wasn't my finest hour. I was so embarrassed that I didn't make the mistake again -you'll probably find you are the same.
You didn't intend to offend anyone, you presumably apologised, so forget it and move on.

fluffiphlox · 08/02/2025 15:06

I am not a believer I do think that it’s inappropriate for the workplace, as is swearing generally. (I swear but not in a work context).

Collette78 · 08/02/2025 15:06

I don't think it’s professional or appropriate.
I wouldn’t expect anyone I work with to exclaim in that manner or use swearing etc either if they are working in a professional environment.

HipMax · 08/02/2025 15:06

90yomakeuproom · 08/02/2025 14:58

It is blasphemous and is offensive

To you, perhaps. Not objectively.

mamakoukla · 08/02/2025 15:06

Like swearing, blasphemy doesn’t belong in professional or workplace settings. Personally, you can swear at me all day long but I will very politely ask you to stop if you’re blaspheming. I find it more offensive (appreciate this is my personal viewpoint)

warmheartcoldfeet · 08/02/2025 15:06

It's really hard when certain phrases are so ingrained.

Good lord
Oh lordy
Good god
Oh my god

My mum used to say 'Jesus H Christ' when something like the wind slammed a door shut.

I do try to say 'cheesus' now and pretend it was a cheese reference.

Pollyanna87 · 08/02/2025 15:05

Blasphemous language is the most offensive language you can use around colleagues.

Row23 · 08/02/2025 15:05

I don’t think it deserved being told off, maybe just a gentle reminder that some people may find it offensive. Your boss was probably just trying to cover themself in making sure their staff are following general guidelines re religion etc etc.
Wouldn’t worry too much about it unless your boss came to you to say that someone had actually been offended.
I think it’s perhaps slightly unprofessional to make an exclamation in a meeting maybe. But I wouldn’t be shocked or offended I was in a meeting with someone who swore out loud or whatever.

Locutus2000 · 08/02/2025 15:05

Another DEI bashing thread. How anyone looks at the US and thinks 'that's the way' is beyond me.

DEI is about the LGB as well as the T. It's a slippery fucking slope.

Jesusisking23 · 08/02/2025 15:05

TuesdayRubies · 08/02/2025 14:57

Boss is probably a Christian, but I think it's quite pathetic to be so sensitive.

I’m a Christian and I find it pathetic to be this sensitive. People use it as a phrase when they are shocked or whatever, I do it too.

it would be different if you were screaming I hate allah or something

DutchCowgirl · 08/02/2025 15:04

I was raised in a Christian environment. And even though i don’t believe in any god anymore, i still don’t like it when people swear. It is just not a very professional reaction, it sounds aggressive and like you’re out of control. I wouldn’t like it if my colleagues would swear.