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To live in a Travelodge

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oakkiln · 08/02/2025 11:14

Inspired by the other poster who started a threads about liquidating their assets and living in luxury hotels in their old age (but, for us, sadly without the assets!)

My husband and I are in a desperate situation. We are both late middle age and still rent. We are doing everything we can to save for a deposit for a house and live very frugally.

Rent, rates and all house costs etc come to £21k a year. But we could live in a Travelodge for £11k. Storage for furniture etc would be £2k

Are we crazy to consider it for just a year or two?

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fluffiphlox · 08/02/2025 17:21

I’ve had to spend weeks at a time in hotels significantly posher than a Travelodge. For work and on my own. It’s not all it’s cracked up to be even with access to a decent room service menu. You’d be mad to even think about it.

Rewis · 08/02/2025 17:18

My bf did for almost a year. He got a work contract on the outskirts of London. He rented out his house and realised renting in London is insanely expensive so he lived in travel lodge. He changed the location doeending on deals.

converseandjeans · 08/02/2025 17:17

What about YHA as they have cooking facilities - maybe get a camper & do a bit of both. There are some really nice campsites for £40-50 a night.

I also think your DH needs to be working if you don't have a permanent place to live, otherwise he will be hanging around either hotel room or campsite.

Some people get a seasonal pitch & put a caravan & awning on site. I reckon that would be fine April-October. You could make it quite cosy.

oakkiln · 08/02/2025 17:17

Laiste · 08/02/2025 17:14

When you say move out to save, are you saving for the deposit?

If so how long will mortgage lenders lend for if the main earner is already 55 (or older after a couple of years saving).

Plus the no fixed address thing applies with living in a van/hotel also.

Yes, saving for a deposit. We are desperately saving every penny (quite literally beans on toast two or three times a week) but not having to pay rent and rates would really boost our deposit. Because of our ages we can only get a very short mortgage (10 years) so even a cheap house here is going to be very difficult.

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MumonabikeE5 · 08/02/2025 17:17

Consider the cost of food given there isn’t food prep facilities in hotels. But if that adds up then why not.

YourHappyJadeEagle · 08/02/2025 17:16

You could live as comfortably in a 6 berth motorhome or large caravan. Find the right site and it can be reasonable costs. And you can cook all your own food.

OneLoyalGreyFish · 08/02/2025 17:14

PP saying stay in/buy a static on a holiday park are totally wrong saying that! It’s illegal to live on a holiday park (the clue is in the holiday bit!) - I know people do it, I know a lot of holiday parks turn a blind eye to it but it is against the terms of the holiday park licence. If you do live in one you can be evicted with hardly any notice and the local council will not house you as a priority.

Laiste · 08/02/2025 17:14

When you say move out to save, are you saving for the deposit?

If so how long will mortgage lenders lend for if the main earner is already 55 (or older after a couple of years saving).

Plus the no fixed address thing applies with living in a van/hotel also.

oakkiln · 08/02/2025 17:14

ThreeLocusts · 08/02/2025 16:48

OP, I hope you'll forgive me if I tell you that you made me think of the major and the two little old ladies in Fawlty Towers. It's such a cliche of mid-20th century crime fiction too - Agatha Christie is full of ladies living in hotels.

I can see the travelodge/premier inn plan working only if you are happy to live of sandwiches and soup, essentially, and really don't mind being cooped up together. But given the way things are going (i.e. old age poverty becoming ever more of a thing), maybe you can advertise on local facebook or similar for other people of a similar age and lifestyle to houseshare with?

It's odd how hard it is to imagine what would happen if you 'lived' in a hotel. I'm a veteran of many premier inn family room holidays with the kids, and the thought of being able to flounce on the bed every evening and turn on the TV sounds rather appealing (we don't have a TV at home). But then I think of the constant struggle to keep clothing and stuff from overrunning the room... you'd actually need a lot of householding discipline.

It sounds like life has dealt you a bad hand and you are very level-headed about it. Hats off to you and your husband and I hope you find a solution that works.

For diversion:

Yes!!! I loved those old ladies! Thanks for making me smile! (And for your kind words)

Food wouldn't be too much of a problem as neither of us are big foodies. I'd honestly be happy with cup a soups, sandwiches and cereal every day, with maybe a hot dinner at Wetherspoons once a week for a treat.

Actually, I've just realised, Travelodge means no cooking for a year! BRILLIANT!!!

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TwigletsAndRadishes · 08/02/2025 17:10

Why don't you look at a cheap park home or fixed mobile home on a caravan park? Then get an Air B&B or use hotels for the couple months a year they are often closed? Some of them do not allow you to stay there 12 months of the year. Once you are no longer working you could go somewhere cheap like India or Romania and live more cheaply than you could in the UK for a couple of months at a time.

oakkiln · 08/02/2025 17:08

alwaysMakingItsofar · 08/02/2025 16:39

oh, ok. I just saw you are too proud for an ex council 1 bed flat. Good luck then

No, just have a husband with PTSD and want to live rurally away from built up areas. He'd happily live in a caravan or a tent in a field for the rest of his life if it meant bring away from people. I'd rather save every penny we have so we can live in a tiny place on the edge of a village where we could both be happy.

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alwaysMakingItsofar · 08/02/2025 17:01

with 50 000 a year you can buy a very decent maisonette or a flat in the SE also. Some weirdo brainwashing happened to the lady

oakkiln · 08/02/2025 17:01

bouncydog · 08/02/2025 15:18

There is a facebook group called Van Life which is all about people living in motor homes and vans so you could see what it might be like.

Sounds brilliant. I'll take a look. Thanks

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oakkiln · 08/02/2025 16:59

@DesperatelySeekingDan you are absolutely spot on! In our 30 years together my husband and I have lived in 9 different houses. The last five moves have been because the landlord has sold up. I know our current landlord wants to sell one day.

Renting is hell. You never know when you are going to get the news that you have two months to find a new place to live. Difficult at the best of times with 100+ people going for each place (one waiting list I joined to view a house had over 180 people on it), let alone trying to find one that's suitable for a disabled child. Then there's the cost of moving, getting the carpets professionally cleaned, removal costs, having to buy new furniture because the old stuff won't fit, buying new curtains. Our last house move cost nearly £5k.

We can never have pets as that would put us at the bottom of the list for potential landlords. Not that we can afford them with eye watering rents.

Renting is awful. I feel like a nomad and would love to one day have a place I could call home.

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Oodlesandoodlesofnoodles · 08/02/2025 16:56

I’ve known a couple of families living in the local travel lodge while waiting for housing and it was quite bleak. One room: can’t get away from your spouse!

I think it would be the equivalent of a camping holiday vs having to live in a tent.

MocktailMe · 08/02/2025 16:53

I have not RTFT but I worked there.

You'll have to move rooms within the hotel every couple of weeks - you won't be able to stay in the same room the whole time.

It's against T&C to bring any sort of camping stove or hob etc. Anything like that.

They have a lot of long term guests living there mostly council paid emergency accommodation. Some of these people are living incredibly difficult lives. Each lodge is different but if its a cheap roadside expect lots of long term social housing guests and expect the drugs and police that often come with it.

Basically you can do it, but you'll need to accept that you won't be able to cook or have a fridge. You'll need to pack and move rooms all the time. And the rooms are really small.

I'd rent a trailer at a caravan park for 9 months and do 3 in hotels personally (to avoid council tax)

beardediris · 08/02/2025 16:51

Ive friends who live on a canal boat because they cant afford to buy/rent in the SE and are “permanent cruisers”. They quickly discovered if you’re not on the electoral role you cannot get any loan mortgage credit card or open a bank account. They used their parents address. After three years of living in a boat they got fed up and having saved some money they applied for a mortgage they found it difficult the banks /building societies asked for proof of regularly paying rent/utilities/council tax etc. none of which they were able to demonstrate and were only offered mortgages with much higher interest rates and not as much as they would need to have borrowed. I’ve sort of lost contact but I believe they are still on the boat and have resigned themselves to living like this until maybe they in the future when they hope to inherit some money.

ThreeLocusts · 08/02/2025 16:48

OP, I hope you'll forgive me if I tell you that you made me think of the major and the two little old ladies in Fawlty Towers. It's such a cliche of mid-20th century crime fiction too - Agatha Christie is full of ladies living in hotels.

I can see the travelodge/premier inn plan working only if you are happy to live of sandwiches and soup, essentially, and really don't mind being cooped up together. But given the way things are going (i.e. old age poverty becoming ever more of a thing), maybe you can advertise on local facebook or similar for other people of a similar age and lifestyle to houseshare with?

It's odd how hard it is to imagine what would happen if you 'lived' in a hotel. I'm a veteran of many premier inn family room holidays with the kids, and the thought of being able to flounce on the bed every evening and turn on the TV sounds rather appealing (we don't have a TV at home). But then I think of the constant struggle to keep clothing and stuff from overrunning the room... you'd actually need a lot of householding discipline.

It sounds like life has dealt you a bad hand and you are very level-headed about it. Hats off to you and your husband and I hope you find a solution that works.

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CanelliniBeans · 08/02/2025 16:47

claudiaswinklemen · 08/02/2025 11:46

I think you might be better in a “holiday home” lodge/caravan.

Agree.
Or an air bnb somewhere with a few moves a year
You definitely need to consider meals and laundry

alwaysMakingItsofar · 08/02/2025 16:39

oh, ok. I just saw you are too proud for an ex council 1 bed flat. Good luck then

alwaysMakingItsofar · 08/02/2025 16:37

What about shared ownership, council list application etc

Mriscan · 08/02/2025 16:34

Hire a mobile home instead

SheridansPortSalut · 08/02/2025 16:25

You'll need to save up for two places because you'll have split up after the stress of living in one room with no kitchen, storage or laundry facilities for 2 years.

fridaynight1 · 08/02/2025 16:21

There was a lady who lived in a hotel in our town. We’d stayed there ourselves on and off between a house move and renovation. She had a cozy spot in reception, people to talk to and someone to cook, clean and make the bed everyday. I’d say she was in her early 70’s - too full of life to be living in a residential home somewhere. Sadly the hotel is now housing asylum seekers. Such a shame it was a nice hotel and she was happy and settled there. I hope she’s found another nice hotel.

oakkiln · 08/02/2025 16:06

I work in an office, salary £50k, and very secure (well, as secure as it can be these days) but it's family owned and flexible so perfect for me. My husband hasn't worked for 25 years due to being a carer but he's hoping to pick up some unskilled work to tide him over until his state pension kicks in.

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