I am seriously considering a divorce. I’m a SAHM and when I say I do everything involving the kids I’m not exaggerating. My DH has only ever changed our 1 year old like twice (never a soiled nappy), I do the cooking, very rarely does he do the cleaning but he definitely keeps score when he does, which leads me to to today. We were having a conversation about women deserving 50/50 in a marriage. As he owns a business, he is the sole financial provider in our family but I am do 99% of the caregiving. Well somehow he believes he does more than me because and I quote “he has to work and look after the kids?” Seeing as I’ve not had a day off in 3 years and his never cooked a single meal nor done any laundry, I was baffled to how he worked that one out. And he, again word for word, said “he HELPS out with the kids all the time. He was playing with them earlier for 5 minutes and had to strap them into their car seat.” Like what? Are these not just tasks fathers do? In my opinion he should be doing more. If I wasn’t looking after the kids while he worked we would be spending loads on childcare. I don’t think he understands that interacting with your kids is not helping out the mom. I hate comments like that.