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Dryrobe W****r

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CareerChange24 · 07/02/2025 15:48

Am I being unreasonable that I’ve discovered there is a Facebook page taking non consenting photos of lone women and children in dryrobes and mocking them. Or am I a snowflake? I wear one. Whilst I know they aren’t a stylish choice. It’s the most practical thing I’ve owned in years. I would be furious if someone took a photo of me and uploaded it

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AnnaQuayInTheUk · 08/02/2025 06:52

Slightly off point, but I love the fact that there are so many open water swimmers on this thread

I wore mine last weekend. Outdoor temperature was minus 5, water temperature was 4C. I was bloody glad of it afterwards. There were 22 of us swimming together and I think everyone was wearing a version of a Dry Robe.

OneForTheRoadThen · 08/02/2025 06:15

OneForTheRoadThen
You must feel so superior

Come on. She was at DL. Not the gym 😂

Was she? She didn't mention it 🤣

Tattletwat · 08/02/2025 03:58

noodlezoodle · 07/02/2025 22:22

This is clearly not the point of this thread, but how do you wash them, or do you need to wash them? Asking on the assumption that the fleece acts like a towel, and towels need frequent washing.

Seeing as when we have a washing thread, mumsnetters wash a towel after every use then yeah. But in reality towels don't need washing as much as mumnetters think.

MissHollysDolly · 08/02/2025 01:02

I adore mine for dog walks, school drop offs and watching the kids play sport on a freezing Sunday morning.

CareerChange24 · 08/02/2025 00:44

Chumpfriend · 08/02/2025 00:14

As a bit of a contrarian - who largely resists going anywhere too outdoors - this thread has made me really really want one 😂

BUY IT. BUY IT. I really like the one I’ve seen Michelle keegan wear. An olive green with black fleece lined. You’ll find so many uses for it. Festivals when it’s raining and you get them muddy. But the material is really durable so a quick wipe and looks brand new.

I have a collection of coats as winter is my favourite season and this gets the most use.

Ive had a few people say can we feel inside of them. Other women! Saying oh it looks cool on a dreary day like this

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Chumpfriend · 08/02/2025 00:14

As a bit of a contrarian - who largely resists going anywhere too outdoors - this thread has made me really really want one 😂

ByWaryCrab · 08/02/2025 00:02

What? Up towelling a female child of fourteen? So up skirting is illegal but a grown man can up towel a child?

screamtoabloodysigh · 08/02/2025 00:01

I feel the cold. Really feel the cold. I don't have a dry robe, but I would live in one if I could.

I will admit I used to think the wolf fleeces were a bit sad. But then I thought about the clothes I love, and how people might think they sad or weird. And then I thought: those people are getting joy from the clothes they are wearing, just like i get joy from my clothes. So power to them.
And now seeing people wearing wolf fleeces makes me happy, because those people are wearing what they love.

CareerChange24 · 07/02/2025 23:43

OneForTheRoadThen · 07/02/2025 21:26

You must feel so superior

Come on. She was at DL. Not the gym 😂

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spikefaithbuffy · 07/02/2025 23:38

Sometimes for me it's just what I have to hand

So I'll either be coming back from swimming which is why I'm wearing it. Or I'm going to the supermarket or something, get there and it starts chucking down, and the robe is the only coat in my car!

I do live in the NW so weather is.. unpredictable Grin

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 07/02/2025 23:08

fingerbobz · 07/02/2025 21:04

I dont know why people choose dry robe over a normal coat for day to day life

I think this would be my question too.

i mean I don’t mind if people do but I also wonder.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 07/02/2025 23:04

I do think dry robes when not worn for their intended purpose (such as getting changed after outdoor swimming) can look a bit silly. Especially when worn with impractical trousers and shoes so the wearer still has wet legs and feet.

For example, we sometimes go to an outdoorsy place with lots of activities on holiday (not centre Parcs!), including in the winter, people were shuffling about in dry robes with crocs looking incredibly miserable - it just wasn’t the right place for them - you needed walking boots/ shoes, decent jackets and waterproof trousers. Stuff you could move about in as well as be dry.

However taking pictures of women and children and publishing them to call them wankers, is wankerish behaviour!

A dry robe is good in his place!

Loveumagenta · 07/02/2025 22:57

noodlezoodle · 07/02/2025 22:22

This is clearly not the point of this thread, but how do you wash them, or do you need to wash them? Asking on the assumption that the fleece acts like a towel, and towels need frequent washing.

Not really - it’s Sherpa fleece so doesn’t absorb like towel, and it sort of wipe clean though you can throw in a cold wash if you really want to but Inwouldnt advise any detergent or anything.
I know that probably doesn’t sound very hygienic but mine has been fine for years and years with a wipe or a brush and really doesn’t need much washing at all!

Wemaybebetterstrangers · 07/02/2025 22:56

Also a good blanket for the dog to sleep on in the pub

Loveumagenta · 07/02/2025 22:54

We had a long car trip and the kids used mine as a big snuggly in back of car. Also came in handy when one of them tipped head first into a steam and was soaked through

Wemaybebetterstrangers · 07/02/2025 22:35

I feel quite sorry for people that don’t have a dry robe (or similar).. they’re missing out on complete weather protection. It feels like wearing a cosy head to toe waterproof towel and shield.

Nectarines · 07/02/2025 22:25

I am a dryrobe wanker. My kids do cross country and I don’t want to be cold and wet.

Wemaybebetterstrangers · 07/02/2025 22:23

goingback · 07/02/2025 22:08

As well as Gorpcore i feel the same about members of the public wearing football attire and other sportswear when they clearly are not in the act of participating or supporting.

Yes agreed. Anyone over age 18 wearing a football shirt, when not playing or watching football. Grimmest of grim. And if they take it off and walk round without a top on, even grimmer 🤢

noodlezoodle · 07/02/2025 22:22

This is clearly not the point of this thread, but how do you wash them, or do you need to wash them? Asking on the assumption that the fleece acts like a towel, and towels need frequent washing.

goingback · 07/02/2025 22:08

As well as Gorpcore i feel the same about members of the public wearing football attire and other sportswear when they clearly are not in the act of participating or supporting.

BreezyScroller · 07/02/2025 22:01

I don't care if people like them or not, it's the judgement and sites against them that are bizarre.

A Dry Robe is £160+, a decent padded waterproof coat starts around that price point. I know you find cheaper, but you tend to get what you pay for.

If you only buy one, it makes sense for many of us to get the dry robe, which is a lot more versatile. Keep space and money for a smart coat.

I wonder how many sales they are going to get from that thread 😂

Youngheartsalittletogetherness · 07/02/2025 21:41

MyUmberSeal · 07/02/2025 21:37

What is a Wolf fleece? I’ve just googled it and loads of jackets with images of wolves on came up 🤣, I’m thinking that’s not what they are.

That's exactly what they are👍😁

Littletreefrog · 07/02/2025 21:39

That page is full of w*nkers presumably DryRobe-less w*nkers.

My teenage son is a National level competitive Open Water swimmer. I asked a question about DryRobes on an Open Water Swimming Facebook page which some pathetic individual reposted on that page for some inexplicable reason

If an Open Water swimmer can't wear a DryRobe at Open Water swimming events then who can?!

MyUmberSeal · 07/02/2025 21:37

Playgroundincident · 07/02/2025 21:34

There is also a wolf fleece appreciation society doing similar.

What is a Wolf fleece? I’ve just googled it and loads of jackets with images of wolves on came up 🤣, I’m thinking that’s not what they are.

Playgroundincident · 07/02/2025 21:34

There is also a wolf fleece appreciation society doing similar.

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