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Dryrobe W****r

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CareerChange24 · 07/02/2025 15:48

Am I being unreasonable that I’ve discovered there is a Facebook page taking non consenting photos of lone women and children in dryrobes and mocking them. Or am I a snowflake? I wear one. Whilst I know they aren’t a stylish choice. It’s the most practical thing I’ve owned in years. I would be furious if someone took a photo of me and uploaded it

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MumblesParty · 07/02/2025 17:44

What makes dry robes different from coats? Are they lined with toweling?

ByWaryCrab · 07/02/2025 17:43

Stafanko · 07/02/2025 17:34

It's actually not illegal at all to take someone's picture in a public place and distribute it elsewhere. Even if people are identifiable. I'm not sure you could call wearing a coat in public 'a vulnerable situation'.

To be clear I'm not saying I agree with it, I think it must be full of sad people with too much time on their hands. But it's not illegal.

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I meant association with washing bathing changing swimming. And if it’s minors or adults with disabilities, sick or elderly people it is. Have had two instances of this to deal with in the out doors, students changing after canoeing and students drying after stream walking. Bad. These guys are bold, they don’t care that an adult is remonstrating with them, they just keep clicking….shameless.

AllFadestoBlack · 07/02/2025 17:43

I must be DRW, I have a regatta camouflage one that I wear on freezing cold days when it's pouring down rain. For regular rainy days I have a rain coat. I don't live near the beach and I can't even swim.

I've seen the posts on Facebook and I think it's really sad that people take the time to not only take photos but to post them online and mock people wearing them. I don't think they're a crime against fashion either, honestly who cares what someone else is wearing.

Unpaidviewer · 07/02/2025 17:41

Last time someone posted about this group I checked it out. And someone in the group had highlighted the profile picture of one of the men who had been taking photos of women. He was a rotund, older guy, wearing skinny jeans, and he looked like he needed a wash. People in glass houses came to mind...

menopausalmare · 07/02/2025 17:41

Have you seen the website ' look at my fucking red trousers'? Mostly men, if you're worried that mostly women are dryrobe wankers.

Duckyfondant · 07/02/2025 17:38

This thread has persuaded me that there is in fact a dry robe wearer personality. The FB page is dull but the whining over anonymous photos on the internet is quite funny

MinnieBalloon · 07/02/2025 17:37

Is it in a public place? Then they don’t need consent to take photos of anyone else, adult or child.

spikefaithbuffy · 07/02/2025 17:37

It's ridiculous
Like I might be miles from the sea but I've just finished swimming in a reservoir so yes, I'm wearing one!

Shimmyshimmycocobop · 07/02/2025 17:36

NooNakedJacuzziness · 07/02/2025 16:02

You can only be a dry robe wanker if you're wearing one miles from the sea, I.e in Asda. Plus points for wearing with crocs. And it's definitely not just women they target!

Agree it's a bit mean but all faces have to be blanked out.

Don't agree, I often stop at the supermarket on the way back from a swim, not in the sea but lucky enoughto live near several lochs. I also wear it dogwalking in the winter as it's by far my most practical coat. I swim outdoors all year round but people won't necessarily know that so the best thing is just not to give a shit what people think

Stafanko · 07/02/2025 17:34

ByWaryCrab · 07/02/2025 17:29

Me too, it’s also illegal to distribute or take photos of people in vulnerable situations…

It's actually not illegal at all to take someone's picture in a public place and distribute it elsewhere. Even if people are identifiable. I'm not sure you could call wearing a coat in public 'a vulnerable situation'.

To be clear I'm not saying I agree with it, I think it must be full of sad people with too much time on their hands. But it's not illegal.

ThatsNotMyTeen · 07/02/2025 17:33

The group is mean, although, a lot of people do look ridiculous in them tbf

i I have a (cheaper version) dry robe I wear to the outdoor pool. One time I needed to go shopping after swimming and I had forgot my coat and only had the robe, I went into the shop in my shirt sleeves rather than the DR as I was afraid I’d end up on the page

latetothefisting · 07/02/2025 17:32

Theunamedcat · 07/02/2025 16:22

I'm sorry but 40+ posts A DAY? does no-one have anything resembling a life anymore?

exactly.

" Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?"
"Take photos of random strangers wearing warm coats while going about their daily lives, and upload it to a website with a "witty" caption to mock them..."

I think I'd get more satisfaction, amusement and intellectual stimulation from picking my toenails. I don't know about "furious," though, I think I'd just feel a bit depressed that so many people had literally nothing better to do.

abracadabra1980 · 07/02/2025 17:31

Yeah, its mean. I bought one ages ago, knowing the Facebook group exists. I walk dogs, swim with dogs, and attend dog events in all weathers. I also potter around in my campervan. I really don't give a crap. It's the warmest apparel, ever. In addition to this social shame, I also own a coat which is not Dryrobe, but looks exactly like one, except for it's fleecy lined. Sticks and stones and all that....

HipMax · 07/02/2025 17:30

NooNakedJacuzziness · 07/02/2025 16:02

You can only be a dry robe wanker if you're wearing one miles from the sea, I.e in Asda. Plus points for wearing with crocs. And it's definitely not just women they target!

Agree it's a bit mean but all faces have to be blanked out.

I often wear one in Tesco. But it's basically at the beach and I've usually just been swimming. And often with crocs. Or uggs.

ByWaryCrab · 07/02/2025 17:29

CareerChange24 · 07/02/2025 15:48

Am I being unreasonable that I’ve discovered there is a Facebook page taking non consenting photos of lone women and children in dryrobes and mocking them. Or am I a snowflake? I wear one. Whilst I know they aren’t a stylish choice. It’s the most practical thing I’ve owned in years. I would be furious if someone took a photo of me and uploaded it

Me too, it’s also illegal to distribute or take photos of people in vulnerable situations…

Tattletwat · 07/02/2025 17:28

I remember the Full Kit wanker page where people would post pictures of grown men out and about in full football kits.

Can't get myself would up about this.

PeterPipper · 07/02/2025 17:26

I must be a DDRW. The extra D at the beginning stands for disabled. I wear one when riding my mobility scooter in the rain. It keeps my knees dry, whereas a normal coat would just ride up.

Lozzq · 07/02/2025 17:25

Eugghh DRWs are the worst, of all the henious crimes to commit, wearing a dry robe has got to be up there, and don’t get me started on the cammo ones! There should be fines for crimes against fashion for these awful things. Agree with the no pictures, my eyes have been violated once, why would anyone want to re live the memory.

Flicitytricity · 07/02/2025 17:22

Bekindmyarse · 07/02/2025 17:09

Not the point of the post? But are they waterproof? I hate swimming but spend enough time outside in the pissing rain that I’d become a DRW if it meant being dry.

Yes, I have labradors, so I'm out in all weathers and I always come back dry.

chelseahealyslips · 07/02/2025 17:20

Oh give over 😂 I said I don't hate dryrobes!

@loveumagenta

CareerChange24 · 07/02/2025 17:18

And also I do have a sense of humour. I wore mine also down the mine at the national coal mining museum and the man doing the tour was laughing I could camp down there for the night and the camo print was glowing in the dark. I told him I own a white one aswell. It’s the misogyny and nastiness of the site I was shocked by

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cheezmonster · 07/02/2025 17:18

Just feel sorry for those who pass their time this way, honestly.

VoodooRajin · 07/02/2025 17:17

I thought it was to do with the middle class thing

WestwardHo1 · 07/02/2025 17:16

TheHeadOfTheHouse · 07/02/2025 17:13

It is a mean group, it put me off wearing mine that I felt a tit in public with it on. I only wore it 5 times and then sold it.

its not very practical for out and about I found as the arms were too short, no toggles on the hood, no cuffs on the wrists and it was tent like.

i was a size 20 and wearing a small and it was massive on me. It was too restricting to drive in, water went up my arm when it was raining as I had to hold the hood on my head and there was massive gaps in the arms at the wrists.

They are massive because they were originally intended as something to change under in a cold wind, not to wear as a normal coat. You need a bit of wriggle room to remove a wet wetsuit.

CareerChange24 · 07/02/2025 17:16

They are waterproof, despite people saying on this page they aren’t. I was in the dentist and my dentist was the one who said I wear one and about this site. I’m mid 30’s, but I’m not on Facebook. But looked out of curiosity. So no. I had no idea what a wolf fleece was. No idea that it was legal to post photos of lone women and children and upload and mock. One woman was walking in a shopping centre and grown men were commenting she looks like she’s on the hunt for cake, wtf?

When I was younger. Never did I think I’d be someone wearing a tent. But yes, I wear socks over leggings. Hoka trainers as I’m bouncing around Sainsbury’s. And I’m so comfy and warm. I don’t give a shit. Just taken mine to Scotland and everyone was complaining how cold they were…didn’t feel a drop of it! Heaven.

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