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Another man on TV abusing women

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Pebbles16 · 06/02/2025 18:42

Yes the wretched Italian chef - not giving his name credence. https://www.itv.com/watch/news/the-latest-headlines-multiple-claims-of-inappropriate-behaviour-against-gino-dacampo/5wr9dh3

Hiding in plain sight.

There are others, I switch over on another popular "star" because of what he did to me and others when we were young.

AIBU to find this exhausting

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AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · 07/02/2025 09:47

LBFseBrom · 07/02/2025 09:02

Schofield did nothing wrong for goodness sakes.

This has got to be a wind up!

ChristmasPudd1990 · 07/02/2025 09:35

LBFseBrom · 07/02/2025 09:02

Schofield did nothing wrong for goodness sakes.

Wow...just wow....🤢🤢🤢

SpidersAreShitheads · 07/02/2025 09:06

LBFseBrom · 07/02/2025 09:02

Schofield did nothing wrong for goodness sakes.

Lots of people would consider grooming an underage child very wrong indeed, same for abusing a position of power to act in a predatory way towards the aforementioned groomed child.

Brave of you to declare publicly that you see nothing wrong with either…

LBFseBrom · 07/02/2025 09:02

LizzieSiddal · 07/02/2025 07:43

100%. And who was the producer of Celebrity Juice? Can’t remember his name but it was Holly Willoughby’s husband. So he encouraged the behaviour of the likes of Gino towards his own wife. 🤢
HW is a very powerful woman in ITV, yet she carried on working with this creep on This Morning. Also worked with the other creep Scofield but she denied knowing anything about that. 🤔

Schofield did nothing wrong for goodness sakes.

EveryKneeShallBow · 07/02/2025 08:54

Gino, Fred and Gordon came to my workplace years ago for the first series of Road Trip. I made sure I wasn’t around, but those that were confirmed I’d made the right decision.

Illjusthavethebreadsticks · 07/02/2025 08:51

@LizzieSiddal yes her husband Dan Baldwin produced it and seemed to have no problem with his wife and other females being subject to lewd comments.

MissTrip82 · 07/02/2025 08:32

User67556 · 06/02/2025 18:55

Eh? Someone did something to you? I don't understand your OP.

You didn’t understand the OP? Really?

I assume English is a second or third language,

TuesdayRubies · 07/02/2025 08:03

This one really doesn't surprise me. Sadly.

LizzieSiddal · 07/02/2025 07:43

Illjusthavethebreadsticks · 07/02/2025 07:38

Fowl Programmes like celebrity juice have encouraged these types and given them a platform. Thank god it's not on tv anymore.

100%. And who was the producer of Celebrity Juice? Can’t remember his name but it was Holly Willoughby’s husband. So he encouraged the behaviour of the likes of Gino towards his own wife. 🤢
HW is a very powerful woman in ITV, yet she carried on working with this creep on This Morning. Also worked with the other creep Scofield but she denied knowing anything about that. 🤔

Illjusthavethebreadsticks · 07/02/2025 07:38

Fowl Programmes like celebrity juice have encouraged these types and given them a platform. Thank god it's not on tv anymore.

MugsyBalonz · 07/02/2025 07:33

MarkingBad · 06/02/2025 23:06

Yes SA from men and women

I've worked in hospitality in my younger days, from around age 15 to 22/23, and can confirm this is true in my experience too. It follows the same MO and power dynamics as male to female abuse and would always be a more senior woman - either by position or age, or both - towards a much young man, often a teenager. Lots of comments of the "oooh, young man!" variety, lecherous remarks about stamina/vigour of youth, having a toyboy, questions about their body, their girlfriend's/relationships, have they ever had an experienced woman, and so on. I have no doubt that there'll have been worse gone on elsewhere but these are the sort of things I witnessed. Basically all of the same pervy shit men direct towards women but all of it still based on power dynamics because abuse is never about sexual attraction, it is always all about power.

Totallybannanas · 07/02/2025 07:07

Totallymessed · 06/02/2025 23:07

I agree, it's the people who employed him I'm angry with. It's always been obvious what kind of man he is.

Agree it not shocking, people know what he is like and that's why he was booked.

ProfessorLeveretGrey · 07/02/2025 06:50

Thingymajigii · 06/02/2025 23:27

I despise Gino. He is also a convicted burglar, and when Paul Young offered to forgive him for burgling his house if he cooked him a meal, he refused. I mean, what a tosser! and that was before this business. He has never been funny and always been sleazy and inappropriate. I wonder what Gordon, Fred and Gino got up to on those road trips.. hmmm..

Exactly how I feel- and with the fake accent. I could never understand why or how he was on tv.

JohnTheRevelator · 07/02/2025 06:22

Is there no end to it? I can't say I'm completely surprised about this one though. I've always thought there was something a bit 'off' about him.

NautilusLionfish · 07/02/2025 04:32

suki1964 · 06/02/2025 21:51

And you are now no longer 17 and attitudes have changed

Sorry but it was you that bought it to the table

Oh FO. Do you not understand why women and even men don't report abuse? Even as grown ups?
Not sure if you are being deliberately obtuse, your are an apologist for abusers, an abuser yourself or really really that naive. If it's the last, I suggest you educate yourself

NautilusLionfish · 07/02/2025 04:25

weatherissweetenough · 06/02/2025 19:01

Yes, another "beloved" presenter who is yet to be outed. I don't particularly want to be sued.

Don't you only get sued for slander if it's not true?

It's called power.
Do you understand how many women don't report SA because of fear that they are the ones that will be destroyed? And how difficult it can be to prove something like SA and especially historical. Just look at all he powerful women Weinstein abused who didn't come forward for fear of their careers being destroyed and for fear that they couldn't prove it. It's only when a critical mass came forward that he was convicted. Same with Puff Diddy. And many other men including those with z level power

Costacoffeeplease · 07/02/2025 00:44

I hope Gordon and Fred are tainted by their association and acceptance of the twat

Costacoffeeplease · 07/02/2025 00:43

Such a dickhead. I’ve never understood why he was employed on TV and have avoided his appearances.

Why would anyone employ or watch him 🤢

MaryPopcorn · 07/02/2025 00:27

MugsyBalonz · 06/02/2025 18:57

The fact it seems to be endemic in the entertainment industry suggests that these men are abusing positions of power and exploiting the dynamics of being "the star" with all the bargaining power that entails. It also suggests that production companies, bosses, management teams are failing to safeguard other employees, particularly those in more junior positions, and are failing to act on allegations. These cases always follow the same MO of the "star" being untouchable, allegations being ignored or downplayed, and the abuse being an open secret. It needs to change but it seems like none of them possess the will to make it change.

This nails it. ^

Maddy70 · 07/02/2025 00:19

I feel he's made a career out of being a letch. I'm not sure he's pretended to be anything else

Illjusthavethebreadsticks · 06/02/2025 23:47

Another ITV darling who seems to be on everything.

Mother87 · 06/02/2025 23:33

ColinOfficeTrolley · 06/02/2025 18:56

Not surprised in the least. He is a cocky, horrid little turd.

Quite like that simple turn of phraseGrin

Thingymajigii · 06/02/2025 23:27

I despise Gino. He is also a convicted burglar, and when Paul Young offered to forgive him for burgling his house if he cooked him a meal, he refused. I mean, what a tosser! and that was before this business. He has never been funny and always been sleazy and inappropriate. I wonder what Gordon, Fred and Gino got up to on those road trips.. hmmm..

twilightermummy · 06/02/2025 23:27

He wasn't even "hiding in plain sight", he may as well have been waving a banner saying "I'm a misogynistic perv". Not surprising in the slightest. The only surprising thing in all of this is how he ever managed to climb to the top of the greasy pole in the first place.

StrikeAlways · 06/02/2025 23:26

Trumptonagain · 06/02/2025 20:09

Why would you he sued if you have 100% proof?

Women often don’t have 100% proof though do they. Even if there are whitenesses, there are also often NDAs

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