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AnotherDayAnotherIdea · 06/02/2025 11:28

I have used airbnb quite a bit in the past, and once went into a property (in london) that was so bad that I had to call airbnb. They issued an immediate refund and helped me find an alternative.

I have also stayed in hotels plenty of times, often via booking.com. And if I had a problem, it was sorted out directly by the hotel.

But now booking.com are offering airbnb style properties owned by individuals.

We booked one about a week ago, and were sent the address and details of a key box promptly.

However once inside, it was clear that the cleaner hadn't been. A simple oversight. The bed hadn't been changed, the kitchenette and shower were dirty, and the towels very dirty indeed. It was 7pm, and we briefly considered just making do, but the towels were covered in something ... marital, so we decided we didn't want to have our children (or us!) stay there.

This is where it all started to unravel, because despite appealing to the owner directly, who promised she had approved a refund, and contacting booking.com, and PayPal, we are still in dispute over this. Booking.com is saying they can do nothing because the owner is unreachable. How is that my problem though?! She says she has approved the request. PayPal has not responded at all.

Basically, if you want an airbnb appartment, use airbnb. Your money is not protected in case of dispute if you book via booking.com.

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GoodQueenWenceslaus · 04/12/2025 00:37

I wish I'd seen this thread before booking a short break next weekend through Booking.com. When I went to double check the details I couldn't find a confirmation email from them, though I could see that the payment had gone through on the day I booked. The website offers to re-send the confirmation email, so I tried that but nothing appeared. I then phoned their laughably misnamed Customer Service line - what a waste of time. The person I spoke to kept saying that the booking hadn't gone through despite the fact that they had my money and had provided written a booking index no. through Paypal; then he kept saying the money would be refunded to me because the booking hadn't gone through. When I asked him why, if that was the case, it hadn't been refunded already, he just repeated that I would get the payment within two weeks. Despite the fact that I'm a registered customer, it seemed to be completely out of their power to feed my details into their computer to find out what an earth had happened.

Fortunately I should be able to get my money back via the credit card company, but obviously if I hadn't called today to double check we would have ended up being turned away from the hotel, no doubt having to spend a fortune to find somewhere else at short notice.

Lesson learned, no more booking through Booking.com.

Theyreeatingthedogs · 16/09/2025 21:38

We were scammed via Booking.vom. They blamed the hotel. We know it wasn't the hotel. We eventually got a refund from Booking.com. It wasn't easy getting the money out of them. They are a Dutch company and you do not have the same legal protection when using them that you would have with a UK business.

NewspaperTaxis · 16/09/2025 20:17

You tell me, I had no idea what they were going on about either. But I had a clearer insight after reading the other reviews - it seems if a room is double booked, they have to find a reason to kick the other person out, not having another hotel to send them on to.

We can go on about this all day. My point was about Booking.com, whom my sister had booked through.

  1. It seems they don't vet the hotels they put on their site, or hold them to account in any way.
  2. It appears they delete bad reviews of the hotels.
  3. Hotels get an inflated rating because of this.
  4. They have a bad reputation with some hotels, who complain about delayed payments from Booking.com, so you are not their favoured guest, as can also happen with voucher type deals and so on.
  5. You may not get a refund from them if it all goes pear-shaped.
  6. If you're invited to get the refund on your credit card, that means the hotel will have your credit card details and can withdraw money from it unless you put a block on it immediately after the refund, and you'll have to keep the block there until you get a new card - hardly ideal!
Greggsit · 16/09/2025 19:56

Still have no idea what you are on about. You checked into a hotel and went into your room. But somebody from the hotel went into your bedroom, told you that they had CCTV, implied your sister was a prostitute and threw you onto the street? Because they had double booked the room? That doesn't make any sense. Why let you into the room in the first place? Why tell you they were illegally recording you?

NewspaperTaxis · 16/09/2025 19:51

Greggsit · 16/09/2025 15:56

It might help your case above if you explained why you were thrown out of your hotel within a minute of arrival?

I think I have explained the most likely reason - they'd double booked the room.

Not that they said that. The hosts went on about how they had CCTV cameras there, as it to imply we were crooks. Now, I'll out myself as a bloke - my sister booked and paid for the room as it was short notice and she was on the website. She booked a hotel elsewhere... when I dropped my stuff off there and sat with her in the room briefly, the hostess ushered my sister out, saying 'No monkey business!' and seemed to insinuate she was a prostitute or something.

This was after two minutes there so the offer to refund us and boot us out seemed less of a threat than an opportunity to be seized.

But it was evening and I couldn't find another hotel to stay at, so had to sleep on the floor of my sister's hotel room. Not what either she or I had in mind, still it was just one night.

Other Tripadivsor reviews - which we hadn't read unfortunately - talked of the same experience - being rudely shown the door.

Anyway, this was via Booking.com You don't get the impression that Booking.com are all over this but in fairness do the police do anything these days either?

Parky04 · 16/09/2025 16:05

I always use them for hotels and taxis to and from the airport. I've never had a problem.

twilightermummy · 16/09/2025 16:03

Just a word of warning, don't book flights through them. If a problem arises or you need to make changes they cannot provide a resolution at all.
Twice they've been unable to add a passenger for me and the final time (aka the final straw) came when they took the money for a flight and then told me they couldn't fulfil it and I'd have to wait for a refund. I needed the flight the next day so it put me in a difficult financial position having to pay out twice before the refund.

Greggsit · 16/09/2025 15:56

It might help your case above if you explained why you were thrown out of your hotel within a minute of arrival?

NewspaperTaxis · 16/09/2025 15:02

@Viking11 started at thread on Booking.com but this has more posts and is relevant to what I want to say, so I'll post it here.

Some argue that Booking.com deletes bad reviews - this does seem to be the case.

My sister booked a room through the site at this hotel, East Walls in Chichester. The experience was awful - though it didn't last long!

East Walls Hotel, Chichester (updated prices 2025)

Now, East Walls hotel has positive reviews across the board at first sight - you have to make the effort to investigate the bad reviews only to get a different impression. Now, I was going to use this to highlight how many recent reviews are negative but hidden, but now I post this I see that there is just one bad review in last month, while the next bad review is a long time ago - and I don't recall that being the case when I checked it out a fortnight ago; so some negative reviews do seem to get deleted.

Indeed, even when you look up the same residence on TripAdvisor, again, it still seems like a safe bet - you have to specifically check out the bad reviews to get a fairer impression, and these are drowned out by 'good' reviews, even if the bad ones don't get deleted.

We hardly got over the threshold before we were booted out - we were subjected to a tirade of admonishment in the first minute, it seemed quite extraordinary, our hostess saying angrily and somewhat hysterically 'If you find you don't like it, just say so, you can leave, I have no problem!' Eh?

Now, some hotels do overbook in the same way airlines do, but many have links to other hotels which can step in should there be no 'no-shows' that night. I suspect what happened here was they had overbooked, had no hotel to take the overspill not being a chain, so the best way forward was to find a pretext to turn away the unsuspecting customer. Other reviewers on Tripadvisor experienced a similar turn of events, one advising not to book via booking.com because the hotel resented them for delayed payments, and they took it out on the customer.

It is easier to find the bad reviews on Tripadvisor but again, the hotel still has a high rating across the board.
EAST WALLS HOTEL - Updated 2025 Prices & Specialty Hotel Reviews (Chichester, England)

The question then is, do you get a refund via booking.com because a good many have found they don't get their money back. You might then instead choose to get your refund on your credit card instead? Problem is, the hotel then has your credit card details and can simply withdraw the same amount from your card the following day without your permission. I'm not saying this is what happened, here, suffice to say the matter is with First Direct's fraud department.

Don't expect the police to get involved; apparently the matter is a 'dispute' and not a police matter!

Many praise booking.com saying they've never had any problem; one suspects it's a numbers game, as with Ryanair; so if something goes wrong, your're screwed but most customers can say it went well, so there you are.

That was our first and last time of going via booking.com!

AnotherDayAnotherIdea · 08/02/2025 19:25

The reviews were good, it was a nice place, but it hadn't, been cleaned. I thought therefore, as we weren't talking a difference in opinion on quality, justu a simple "the cleaner hasn't been ", that it would be an open and shut thing. Nope.

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MissAmbrosia · 08/02/2025 11:18

What did the reviews say for that place?

anon666 · 08/02/2025 10:12

You're 100% right. I booked a Christmas weekend away with my daughter one December as a treat.

It was a room in a country inn, which looked nice from the photos.

In reality it was a fairly ropey pub, which had a room out the scruffy back yard, accessed via dangerous, slippy stone steps. Once inside, it was a poorly converted annexe, with a tiny narrow corridor leading to about three cramped rooms.

The room was cheaply furnished, with very worrying looking electrics, plus circuit breakers on all the appliances which kept cutting out. There was a tray perched uneasily on a bedside table with a small kettle and sachets of powdered coffee.

It was also freezing as no heating had been on.

Essentially it was minging. I relooked at the listing and realised the photos were very small and a little fuzzy.

Anyway, we arrived late as driving down from London after work so we just settled. Never again.

Doggiedays · 08/02/2025 09:50

housethatbuiltme · 06/02/2025 12:37

We had an issue with airB&B, drove for hours got there and couldn't find it. Couldn't contact anyone, tried for hours, I was heavily pregnant with a toddler and child and then in the evening we got an email from airB&B simply stating your booking has been cancelled, you will be refunded. This was over 5 hours after check in was suppose to be and we had been trying to get in touch.

There was no where else to stay, everything that had spaces left was fancy 5* hotels and which cost 10x times as much (we booked months in advance) so was miles out of our price range. It was far too late to drive home and we needed to be their the next day. Luckily found a travelodge and explained, they took pity on us and managed to get their head office to change the rules and cram us into a small spare room (because travelodge do actually care about people).

AirB&B had ZERO sympathy, just said you got a refund and thats all thats all we are required to do and then deleted our negative review which just stated the facts that it was cancelled 5 hours into the booking, no one was contactable and the address/postcode given was not the property advertised but a random office building. This made us realize its probably happened before, never seen a negative review but thats because AirB&B just delete them.

I agree with your suspicion that Airbnb delete negative reviews - which is why we don’t use them.

Doggiedays · 08/02/2025 09:42

I don’t trust the Airbnb reviews - we have stayed in too many that failed to point out the negatives on a property - the Airbnb reviews model is either flawed or they do t publish the negative reviews. At least on Booking.com you can see the negatives.

Doggiedays · 08/02/2025 09:26

I booked an apartment through Booking.com - when we arrived there were bars on all the windows and no smoke alarm - i immediately refused to stay in the apartment. Made a booking elsewhere. Reported to booking.com after a week I got fed up with the to and fro messaging so I spoke to my Credit card company, requested a refund and got on with my life. I still use booking.com and I always pay by credit card.

Funkyslippers · 08/02/2025 09:20

They've been renting airbnb style accommodation for a good few years. I've booked through them loads of times & always been lucky

Pussycat22 · 08/02/2025 09:20

Namechangehsbdhdhdh · 06/02/2025 11:33

I used to book with them all the time. Have stopped as they heavily used an appalling influencer (pilotmadeleine) who films her young child without consent, denies repression of women in Saudi Arabia to shill tourism content, sells fast fashion, advertised surgery in Turkey, etc, etc. Just yuk and makes you wonder about company responsibility.

Booking.com used to be great and sort out any disputes easily. Sorry you had that issue. There should still be some protection. Check the terms and conditions very carefully.

That vile advert featuring Paddy McGuiness does not help their cause either . Let mel emphasise that I don't mean Mr McGuiness is vile just the content of the ad.

CuriousQuestioningGal · 08/02/2025 09:14

We booked an apartment in Athens with. Booking.com. Was expensive but liked amazing. Turned up and it didn’t exist. Booking.com were wonderful. Found and booked something else for us nearby and very quickly. Arranged immediate entry. I think they refunded the difference and more as 2 subsequent places we stayed were ‘free’ as we had loads on the wallet.

Mumofthreeteenagers · 07/02/2025 22:59

I have had this problem . Twice. I will not use booking.com now because their standards are appalling. And this is despite good reviews. I want to arrive to a clean, healthy place that excels my expectations. Not one that takes a months wages for something they should be paying me to stay in!

Itsarecipefordisaster · 07/02/2025 22:42

I booked a hotel for the London marathon through booking.com months ahead. About 6 weeks before the marathon they cancelled it saying the hotel no longer had availability. A friend had her hotel in London cancelled the day they travelled down. Cost them a fortune. I also booked a place in London through them which was a bit too good to be true. Had some WhatsApp messages from the owner and something felt off so I cancelled. I just don’t trust booking.com. I’ll happily use their website to see what might be available but book direct now.

Muddlingalongsomehow · 07/02/2025 20:22

Mmm. I tried to make a hotel booking - well, self catering but in a hotel-style arrangement in Devon, just over a year ago. My payment wouldn't go through. So I rang the hotel and told them and they said "don't worry, pay when you get here". It really wasnt busy!

But then about six weeks later, I got a bank alert text. Someone trying to book a hotel in Oxford - was this me? No, it wasn't. And it was a card I rarely use and the only time I'd done so recently was that failed booking (I used another one on arrival). So that's extremely dodgy.

SailorCentral · 07/02/2025 19:33

Many of the ‘managed by a private host’ properties will also be advertised on other platforms, such as airbnb.

Most are genuine holiday lets run by families. Some are dodgy. Always check
recent reviews- as far as I’m aware it isn’t possible to make fake reviews on booking com.

I’d never book any other services on booking though

Crakajak · 07/02/2025 19:04

Marital? 😳

wishfulthinking93 · 07/02/2025 18:35

They are awful with flights too. I’ve been owed £370 from them for a cancelled flight for 11 months and still haven’t got it back

EmmaMaria · 07/02/2025 11:58

SereneCapybara · 06/02/2025 11:35

Whenever I have used Booking.com, you pay on arrival, so if the place is filthy, you would sort that out at the time. But it must be different for Airbnb style rentals. For hotels Booking.com is reliable. Maybe self-catering is better suited to the airbnb set up.

I won't use Booking.com at all after an awful experience with them - and it was hotels. I booked a hotel with them - it was a literal last minute booking due to being stranded at an airport (in the UK) after a flight cancellation, and the holiday company abandoned all thier passengers because they couldn't find available places for them (but that's another story). Anyway, I found a last room available on Booking.com and paid for it via Paypal (thank God). Got to the hotel, and despite having the confirmation evidence and that I had paid, the hotel had no confirmation. Someone else had just arrived with exactly the same problem. Fortunately there was a room - the room Booking.com were advertising existed, but the hotel had no confirmation from them that I had booked it. So I had to pay for the room again.

Whilst I was there both myself and the hotel contacted Booking.com and explained what had happened, but neither of us could get them to agree that they had screwed up and issue me a refund. Long story short, after weeks of conversations back and forward with the hotel totally supporting me, they refused a refund. And I was told that there was not a thing I could do because their company was based in (I think) Belgium and I had no UK consumer rights. At that point PayPal stepped in and refunded me the money - they are big enough to be able to hold Booking.com to account and did so with no qualms.