Ignoring good design clothing, padding, makeup and photo tricks.
Biology is much kinder to women than men in this kind of cosmetic change.
The total interactions of hormones create the "visual" female and male body.
The form /look follows the function. So 'carrying babies but cant birth' kills off females and being stronger results in more mating oppertunities and makes a better helpmate while raising babies gives compeditive advantage. So 2 general shapes.
Online Human proportions calculator are easy to check to see how functional needs have shape how each sex develop.
Male puberty make very visable changes which are hard hide by changing hormone levels. The body cant remove what was created.
Female (post) puberty changes are also fixed however additional "male" hormone build onto the existing foundation.
So ignoring breast/ genitalis and looking at creating outlines women 'pass' by adding bone and changing muscle/fat ratio but men cant loose bone and muscle loss brings up bone, and fat is not structral.
what's to stop any man from walking into the women's changing room and stating that they are trans men?
That is why women are not used in the debate except to argue that woman As choice removes another woman B's choice and forces B to change beside a man.