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AIBU to not want to commit to visiting my cousin?

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PralinePraline · 04/02/2025 15:21

My Cousin has just married an Australian man, is expecting her first child and has just moved to Brisbane. She’s asked and keeps asking if I could give her some dates when I can visit but beyond the incredible nature, Australia isn’t a country that appeals to me at all. I have no desire to visit it plus it’s expensive and I’d rather use my annual leave for my own use not to visit a country I don’t care for.

I have a few friends there who would like me to visit too but again it doesn’t appeal the thought of spending so much money and a long flighy(I detest flying).

Perhaps I’ll visit eventually but I have no desire to make plans now.

AIBU to not want to make plans to visit?

OP posts:
PralinePraline · 04/02/2025 16:04

And do you feel
obliged to visit relatives or friends who have moved abroad?

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