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Another stabbing at a school?

272 replies

PassingStranger · 03/02/2025 17:00

Fgs......
When will someone get a grip on all this?
How much more can people take.

People will be to scared to send their children to school?
Teachers will leave, then there might not be any school anyway!!!

What are they arguing about at school anyway
Is this gang related or a disagreement?
A girl has also been found guilty today of stabbing a teacher last year too.😫

OP posts:
Turbottimes · 03/02/2025 22:24

izimbra · 03/02/2025 22:16

@Turbottimes
"What about the other kids? What about them? Don’t you give a flying fuck about their safety??? Their lives??? It’s all what’s best for the bully. Try thinking about the victim for once."

Why the aggression towards me?

We're talking about preventing serious youth crime.

Exclusions increase criminality.

I really don’t care whatsoever about the bullies lives. I would happily pay my taxes to keep these people in prison for live if they cannot be rehabilitated. If you harm others you have no place in society.

dewfirst · 03/02/2025 22:24

Hallamlass · 03/02/2025 20:59

There's nothing like that available. It costs the school a huge amount for any off site provision.

And there’s your answer -
Caring enough to ensure everyone is safe is deemed to cost too much !
So we close down parenting classes, decimate child services , outsource care homes , close referral units , reduce cahms etc etc etc
Too sad

Kibble29 · 03/02/2025 22:21

So kids take knives to school and people expect the parents of their potential victims to care about inclusion and preventing the knife-carrier from a criminal future?

Laughable.

izimbra · 03/02/2025 22:16

@Turbottimes
"What about the other kids? What about them? Don’t you give a flying fuck about their safety??? Their lives??? It’s all what’s best for the bully. Try thinking about the victim for once."

Why the aggression towards me?

We're talking about preventing serious youth crime.

Exclusions increase criminality.

izimbra · 03/02/2025 22:13

"Everyone is always shitting all over the US with their school and guns problems, but we have a very terrible and real problem also: knives."

Our murder rate in the UK is 1/5th that of the USA.

LastTrainsEast · 03/02/2025 22:10

The government is doing its best. They already have plans to file down the points of all knives and ban Amazon from selling cutlery.

izimbra · 03/02/2025 22:06

@Raindropskeepfallinonmyhead

Why do you think that nobody is doing anything about knife crime?

There are a tonne of initiatives and education programmes.

You're assuming there's a clear effective strategy that would massively reduce or stop it, but for some reason no government wants to action it.

The reality is that it's very, very hard to address knife crime when there are lethal knives in literally every household in the country, carrying a knife has become normalised in some groups, and harsh sentences for carrying or using knives seem to have zero impact on knife crime.

And I'm saying this as someone whose children have been affected by knife crime. My son lost a 15 year old friend who was murdered; my daughter had a friend (a girl) who is serving a life sentence for the murder of another teen.

I don't know what the answer is, and we've all got to stop talking as though there's an obvious strategy which would work which everyone is ignoring.

Turbottimes · 03/02/2025 21:42

Hallamlass · 03/02/2025 20:59

There's nothing like that available. It costs the school a huge amount for any off site provision.

That’s what council education budgets are for. Currently we have ASD children in specialist schools and a number of them would cope very well with mainstream schooling if there was a calm, safe environment there. I can see savings that can be made to pay for PRUs by getting mainstream schools back under control of the adults.

Raindropskeepfallinonmyhead · 03/02/2025 21:21

Whotenanny · 03/02/2025 21:01

Everyone is always shitting all over the US with their school and guns problems, but we have a very terrible and real problem also: knives.

How many more children are going to die before action is taken? This has been going on for years and years.

Whwn l pointed this out on a previous thread about a stabbing, l got absolutely slated but l couldn't agree more

Whotenanny · 03/02/2025 21:01

Everyone is always shitting all over the US with their school and guns problems, but we have a very terrible and real problem also: knives.

How many more children are going to die before action is taken? This has been going on for years and years.

Hallamlass · 03/02/2025 21:00

Turbottimes · 03/02/2025 20:48

What about the other kids? What about them? Don’t you give a flying fuck about their safety??? Their lives??? It’s all what’s best for the bully. Try thinking about the victim for once.

That's the way it's gone.

Hallamlass · 03/02/2025 20:59

Turbottimes · 03/02/2025 20:51

It’s ‘trying hard to be inclusive’ that’s the issue though! If they want to be included they need to behave. If not, pupil referral unit.

There's nothing like that available. It costs the school a huge amount for any off site provision.

harijes · 03/02/2025 20:58

@Turbottimes just crazy.

Turbottimes · 03/02/2025 20:51

Hallamlass · 03/02/2025 19:21

I teach in another Sheffield school. We're all shocked. I know the Headteacher, Sean Pender. He's a decent man, and he and his team work so hard to be inclusive and supportive. This escalated from online threats, according to reports.
Imagine a boy stabbed to death at school. Just devastating for everyone.

It’s ‘trying hard to be inclusive’ that’s the issue though! If they want to be included they need to behave. If not, pupil referral unit.

coxesorangepippin · 03/02/2025 20:50

Awful

Glad we live abroad

Turbottimes · 03/02/2025 20:49

harijes · 03/02/2025 20:42

@blackbird77 I agree entirely.

I have name changed as we had the unfortunate experience of a child being threatened in our school last week across the throat with a knife.

The child remains in class. Scotland. No exclusion.

Exclusion is banned in Scotland, which is insane. If I was the victims parents I’d be suing the Scottish government.

Turbottimes · 03/02/2025 20:48

izimbra · 03/02/2025 18:28

How?

What does 'cracking down' look like?

@OonaStubbs

The thing that's most likely to drive a kid towards a life of crime and violence is school exclusion. Which is why schools try not to exclude children.

What about the other kids? What about them? Don’t you give a flying fuck about their safety??? Their lives??? It’s all what’s best for the bully. Try thinking about the victim for once.

harijes · 03/02/2025 20:45

@Porcuporpoise remove them immediately from the parents for a start. In the case I have mentioned I'm talking early primary. That comes from home. Be it games or whatever.

harijes · 03/02/2025 20:42

@blackbird77 I agree entirely.

I have name changed as we had the unfortunate experience of a child being threatened in our school last week across the throat with a knife.

The child remains in class. Scotland. No exclusion.

ElsaLion · 03/02/2025 19:24

It was an awful snd tragic event, on the same day another 14 year old was found guilty of attempted murder by stabbing two people (including a teacher) at another school. Meanwhile we have a lying propaganda-driven government trying to convince everyone that home educated are not safe at home, and wound be safer in school. You honestly couldn't make it up

Hallamlass · 03/02/2025 19:21

I teach in another Sheffield school. We're all shocked. I know the Headteacher, Sean Pender. He's a decent man, and he and his team work so hard to be inclusive and supportive. This escalated from online threats, according to reports.
Imagine a boy stabbed to death at school. Just devastating for everyone.

Jowak1 · 03/02/2025 19:21

We definitely need to toughen up in this country. There is no way schools should be charged for excluding kids this just means the real bad ones aren't properly dealt with and tragedies like this one today occur as they are allowed back in with a slap on the wrist. Zero tolerance is needed to make schools safer. First hint of knife crime/ fighting with knives etc and your out!

NeverDropYourMooncup · 03/02/2025 19:13

heroinechic · 03/02/2025 18:42

AFAIK headteachers can permanently expel in response to a serious breach. Yes it can later be overturned by governors or appealed to a panel, but IMO being found in possession of a knife is a serious breach and grounds for immediate permanent expulsion.

I appreciate the impact of exclusion on children and their later lives. I accept that a number of these children will be "looked after" children or have a whole load of trauma themselves, but the fact remains that schools have a duty of care towards the welfare of our children and if another child is found with a knife they should be removed from that school and referred to the police.

Nah. They try to, but chances are it'll be overturned at IRP (appointed by the local authority).

Porcuporpoise · 03/02/2025 19:05

@blackbird77 no not the literal act of exclusion but quite possibly the vacuum that comes afterwards. Exclusion makes the school a safer place but not the wider world - and plenty of children get stabbed out in that.

blackbird77 · 03/02/2025 19:02

PassingStranger · 03/02/2025 18:48

Yes agree, why so weak.
A girl stabbed 2 teachers last April.
Shed already been excluded for having a knife at school. She was let back into school though.

On the morning, the girl was carving into the floor with a knife and telling another pupil she was going to stab someone.
What a shitshow of mistakes.
Those who make decisions are not strong enough, and are letting everyone down.
Name and shame those who said she could come back into school.

What were they thinking.?😡
Poor teachers.

100% OP. It’s a disgrace. The safety of children and teachers sacrificed daily to the altar of this inclusiveness/trauma-based/restorative ideology rot that’s made things worse for everyone. I have friends who are teachers who are afraid to step out of their classrooms at break time due to the violence and intimidation and abuse they face when they step into the corridors. I really wish someone in government would come down on this with an iron fist.