My hub and I are both autistic so I get that communication is difficult, but I swear he treats me like a servant. I’ve asked him so many times to stop nagging me to do house work but he never changes. He says he’s helping me. I hate him so much sometimes. We’ve been together 14 years and married 10. I feel so worthless. I’m always told I’m being unreasonable or don’t understand when I finally snap with annoyance. Right now he’s playing Xbox with his friend (which he does every day) while I’m cooking, doing the laundry, cleaning up after the pets and you know being a mum. Am I ungrateful? Unreasonable? I just can’t believe this is my life and my relationship.