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DH constantly making lewd graphic comments

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CucumberSandcastle · 03/02/2025 14:47

All the bloody time! If we are chatting about something ordinary or I ask him about what he wants to do tomorrow etc he will make an extremely lewd comment about what he wants to do to me - like I cannot wait to plough your you know what or lewd comments about sexualised stuff he wants to do to me etc. Not even remotely related to anything we are talking about- basically says the most shocking/highly graphic things he can think of with a guffaw. He has a habit for saying outlandish stuff so often that coming from anyone else would be highly shocking but as he says it all the time it’s become normal if that makes sense?

Its a huge bloody turn off 👎

He says in while laughing in an almost playful way but it’s constant!

(TMI I know but he says oh I just want to destroy your an$! or I want to plough your sloppy m!nge 🤮) It’s gross I know. I try to ignore him or just say WTF to him.

He’s a “zany” off the wall type of character and his weirdness initially attracted me to him but this is just too much.

He was close to being diagnosed with bipolar disorder (he didn’t attend his follow ups) and I’ve heard about hyper sexuality and it being one of the symptoms?

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Shoxfordian · 03/02/2025 14:51

Has it got worse since you married him?

FabFeb01 · 03/02/2025 14:51

I could not be with someone like that. Even after saying it just once.

chelseahealyslips · 03/02/2025 14:50

No, its not normal. I'd have to tell him how fucking immature and disgusting he sounds. And that you're sick of his demeaning and embarrassing comments that aren't remotely funny.

poemsandwine · 03/02/2025 14:50

I'm sorry, that would make me lose every bit of attraction. I wouldn't even want to look at him.