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Carpenter..is this normal?!

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Kmward36 · 03/02/2025 09:38

We’ve had a carpenter in to panel our hallway, stairs and landing. We’ve had him work for us plenty of times before and he’s quirky but work is good so no problems.

hes driving me a bit mad this time but I am 38 weeks pregnant and unsure if I’m being ridiculous?!

  1. said the job would take 2 days, we’re currently on day 6.
  2. he spent the first ‘day’ drawing the plans on the wall and then went to MOT his car at 11am and did not return that day.
  3. he arrives at 10am because the school traffic around him is awful. He lives 1/2 from us. He has an hour and a half lunch break and finishes at 4. I don’t really feel like that’s a full days work..
  4. He keeps sending us back to the shop for supplies. As in we went to screwfix Saturday morning and when we arrived home (it is sadly 40mins away) he asked us to go back. None of his day is taken up picking up supplies as we do that.
  5. he was meant to turn up on Friday but couldn’t as he forgot he needed to file his tax returns. He told us at 10am.
  6. he was 3 hours late on Saturday as he didn’t realise it was the first of the month and needed to tax his car. Couldn’t find slip/log book etc 🤦🏻‍♀️
  7. we feel we can’t really leave him to it as he has so many coffees a day (8 on Saturday) and rings constantly asking questions.

am I being hormonal?! My husband says I am but it’s not helping as I’m keep to get things in order for the baby (3rd baby) and it’s just a bit chaotic with the mess and 2 other children. Or is this ok and I’m being annoying??

OP posts:
Octavia64 · 03/02/2025 09:46

Yeah he's not good.

Are you paying him by the day or for the job?

DearOwl · 03/02/2025 09:45

'Can you give me an exact time and date that you'll be done please? I'm not able to go out to collect supplies for you anymore due to <insert pregnancy related work type excuse > and I'll be in xyz room doing some admin work so can't be disturbed'

Don't use this annoying twat again

Member984815 · 03/02/2025 09:41

That sounds so frustrating