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QuestionableMouse · 02/02/2025 13:51

My mam is in the hospital because of a couple of things. She was taken in by ambulance yesterday. She's well enough to be ringing with a list of stuff she wants.

My dad has been told he's no longer allowed to drive because of seizures.

My sister has refused to help today because she has "stuff to do in the house" and her ex is dropping the kids back off this evening. There was plenty of time to do what needed to be done.

I have a migraine (and they'd been so bad I had a MRI a couple of weeks ago) but they're all expecting me to do everything. My dad hadn't packed a single thing for mam. I've just had to pack everything. The hospital is a good 20min drive away and to be honest I just feel like crying.

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rainythursdayontheavenue · 02/02/2025 13:53

Message your Dad that you're too poorly yourself and he'll need to get a taxi home or the bus. Or ring your sister. Don't give in. They're dumping it on you because they know they can. Then put your phone on silent or turn it off.

Hope you feel better soon.