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To think this increase in cost is going to break me?

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Yummmyy · 01/02/2025 18:42

I earn a decent salary. Whenever I go to Tesco for a basic food shop, sone items are going up literally 50p plus within a matter of two weeks. Orange juice was 2.20 for Tesco’s basic, the most expensive 4.30!!

Yes I know orange juice isn’t an essential but when you’re well above minimum wage and have to cut something like that out of your food shop it does make you question what’s the point… anyone else relate to this? I just don’t know where it’s going to end

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laraitopbanana · 02/02/2025 19:26

JohnTheRevelator · 02/02/2025 18:30

Tell me about it. I nearly had a fit at the price of Lurpak butter in Iceland a few days ago. £6.75 for 600g! 😱 Christ almighty. I can remember not long ago it was 3 quid.

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Oh gosh! I saw this and was like whhhaaaatttt???

wibblewobblewibblewobbl · 02/02/2025 19:25

Everything costs far too much 😬

laraitopbanana · 02/02/2025 19:24

Maia77 · 02/02/2025 19:18

Let's hope they realise soon something has to be done, otherwise things will get even worse than they are now.

It is only my bet but they won’t do something really…
baby boomers will, you know, not be around in 30years so that will be a lot of houses free, rent will go down except in nice « location, location, location » area.
with AI, not sure what the job market will look like but defo another shift and ladder for wealth has opened.

But yeah. That is a few gen stuck in the middle. It always has been the case though…

SomethingFun · 02/02/2025 19:20

I shop at Waitrose and m and s but when I pop into Lidl/ Aldi/ Tesco/ Morrisons/ Asda I don’t find them especially any cheaper for the kind of things I buy.

How sad that people are suggesting giving up a grind of black pepper is a reasonable thing for working people to be doing in one of the wealthiest corners of the globe. I despise the race to the bottom mentality we seem to have in this country at the moment, I don’t want people to be making do the best they can with lentils and veg off cuts and sitting in the dark with 5 jumpers on when there are billionaires and companies that still aren’t paying their taxes.

Maia77 · 02/02/2025 19:18

laraitopbanana · 02/02/2025 18:21

And there will probably never a gov that doesn’t encourage growing wealth inequality either… they just market it differently 🤷🏼‍♀️

Let's hope they realise soon something has to be done, otherwise things will get even worse than they are now.

Clavinova · 02/02/2025 19:09

Lancrelady80
NHS says average nursing wage is between £33 and £35k

NHS England need to update that webpage - the starting salary for a qualified Band 5 nurse is stated as £27,055 (2022?) - it's £29,969 now so the average wage will be more.

JohnTheRevelator · 02/02/2025 18:30

Tell me about it. I nearly had a fit at the price of Lurpak butter in Iceland a few days ago. £6.75 for 600g! 😱 Christ almighty. I can remember not long ago it was 3 quid.

Deeperthantheocean · 02/02/2025 18:29

It's ridiculous how much prices have gone up for everything everywhere and continue to do so. Even the cheaper shops aren't cheap anymore.

As far as I'm aware they're still making huge profits so there isn't a need to do this, like oil companies. It's because they can. I know people who work for manufacturers and the mark up from buy to sell costs are huge.

catlover123456789 · 02/02/2025 18:27

It's the cost of everything. My cat was a bit under the weather and the consultation plus antibiotics was over £100. It's exhausting.

laraitopbanana · 02/02/2025 18:21

Maia77 · 02/02/2025 16:14

It will get worse under any government that doesn't deal with growing wealth inequality.

And there will probably never a gov that doesn’t encourage growing wealth inequality either… they just market it differently 🤷🏼‍♀️

laraitopbanana · 02/02/2025 18:19

Yummmyy · 01/02/2025 18:42

I earn a decent salary. Whenever I go to Tesco for a basic food shop, sone items are going up literally 50p plus within a matter of two weeks. Orange juice was 2.20 for Tesco’s basic, the most expensive 4.30!!

Yes I know orange juice isn’t an essential but when you’re well above minimum wage and have to cut something like that out of your food shop it does make you question what’s the point… anyone else relate to this? I just don’t know where it’s going to end

Hi op,

Can you look into club card? Tesco does charge horrendously if no club card up to 1 pound for no reason I can think of.
Also all the points get turned into money so save it for the end of the month?

It isn’t so much about cutting but juggling.

Still not nice but that will get you out of rough patches.

Good luck op 🌺

Snakebite61 · 02/02/2025 18:17

Yummmyy · 01/02/2025 18:42

I earn a decent salary. Whenever I go to Tesco for a basic food shop, sone items are going up literally 50p plus within a matter of two weeks. Orange juice was 2.20 for Tesco’s basic, the most expensive 4.30!!

Yes I know orange juice isn’t an essential but when you’re well above minimum wage and have to cut something like that out of your food shop it does make you question what’s the point… anyone else relate to this? I just don’t know where it’s going to end

It's amazing how bad the situation has got but it seems people are only bothered about immigration. We've just had the worst, most corrupt government ever. Labour are just pandering to the right wing in the country but those idiots hate them anyway.
If reform get in there will be no NHS, welfare state etc. We are turning into the horror show that is the USA.

Treesinthewind · 02/02/2025 17:45

@sometimesmovingforwards Ok, I'll just erase my disabilities and my son's should I? And go back in time to stop his dad dying? What the hell kind of choice do I have about careers?

Treesinthewind · 02/02/2025 17:40

@sometimesmovingforwards 'Who the hell looks at a job spec with ‘huge’ levels of responsibility coupled with poor pay and thinks “ooh yes, that’s a bit of me that is, exactly what I’m looking for! Where do I sign please?”
Nurses, carers, teachers, anyone working in youth or community work?
Or people who have previously been in high powered jobs, but need to find something part-time/local due to caring responsibilities? And then find out it still has a lot of responsibility but is paid appallingly?

Maia77 · 02/02/2025 16:14

Boomer55 · 02/02/2025 15:18

I don’t own my own house, am a pensioner, pay my full rent, and everything else. I don’t get any extra benefit handouts. 🤷‍♀️. We are all struggling nowadays, and it’ll get worse, sadly, and unexpectedly, under this government. 😡

It will get worse under any government that doesn't deal with growing wealth inequality.

AlertCat · 02/02/2025 15:43

@Skethylita that’s fair comment. On my own my grocery bill would be tiny in comparison! I’m just saying that I do do a lot of what you suggest as ways to bring costs down, as much as possible within the confines of my work and the requirements of the household, and so once the spend comes down to a certain point it’s very difficult to get it lower. It’s not simply a question of people not trying.

(I agree with you about line-dried washing. But at this time of year it needs airing indoors to get it bone-dry. However the pp who said it makes washing smell bad has a very unusual point of view- unless they didn’t get it bone dry, it smelled damp, and they blamed that on line-drying.)

NormaleKartoffeln · 02/02/2025 15:42

latetothefisting · 02/02/2025 14:51

???
no they don't, they smell lovely and fresh
unless you live next to a sewage works or something

If you live rurally they often smell of slurry in spring/summer and stinky coal fires/log burners in winter.

lizzyBennet08 · 02/02/2025 15:33

My grocery shop in Aldi each week is about €240 here in ireland . Family of 5 including 3 very hungry teens. 2 years ago it was about €180.

I still think food is relatively cheap though ie you can get a chicken for €3.99. To take a chic , raise it , feed it grain and process it and package it. I just think how can anyone in the chain make money at that.
I work in the industry and the coca crop has really failed this great. Chocolate is going to go up about 20% this spring ( not thr worst thing in the world I suppose)

MidnightMeltdown · 02/02/2025 15:29

AQuickDeathInTexas · 02/02/2025 15:01

I've noticed olive oil mentioned quite a lot on these threads, how much do people use? A small bottle lasts us absolutely ages because we only use it in something like a salad dressing where you actually notice the taste.

It used to be something they sold in small bottles in the chemist, not for cooking with.

I can also remember when orange juice was something you had for a starter, not an everyday drink, it was quite a treat!

I use Olive oil for everything. Not because of the taste, but because we were always taught that it's healthier than other oils. I've never bought any other type of oil so I don't know how they would affect the taste of food.

buffyfaithspikeangel · 02/02/2025 15:28

Skethylita · 02/02/2025 12:57

Speaking of living a bit more like the older generation. It's a beautiful day outside. Around 5-7 degrees C, sunny, light breeze where I am. I went for a walk to the shop earlier (£15 for a week's worth of meals, none of which were in the savers or reduced section) and my path takes me past a number of back gardens I can look into. Only one, apart from my own, had some washing out - an elderly lady in her late 70s. I can guarantee some tumble driers were going while my second load of washing today was drying on the line. Meanwhile, people are talking about the cost of energy.

I have a private back garden you could have walked past but it's an apartment
Not allowed washing outside
I use an airer or a heated one, no tumble dryer

Boomer55 · 02/02/2025 15:18

Poppyseeds79 · 01/02/2025 18:52

It's madness! Once I've paid my rent, council tax, standard bills, travel costs, and utilities. I literally have around the amount I would have if I received UC. I work full time, and my commute is fairly long.

You genuinely end up thinking what is the point 🤔

I don’t own my own house, am a pensioner, pay my full rent, and everything else. I don’t get any extra benefit handouts. 🤷‍♀️. We are all struggling nowadays, and it’ll get worse, sadly, and unexpectedly, under this government. 😡

Skethylita · 02/02/2025 15:12

@AlertCat You're comparing the cost of running a household for 4 people with the cost of running my household of 1 in the week I haven't got my kids. Of course my shop is not enough to feed more than 1 person, though it's not repetitive other than my soup for lunch, which I'll have 3x in a row for the same type. In a typical week I'll have stews, curries, stir fries, omelettes, egg fried rice, pasta with various sauces, some meat and mash type food, pies, pizzas, burgers - all reasonably easy and cheap, and they can be as healthy and nutritious as you like. Time is not an issue; I leave my food to cook while I do other things; it doesn't need constant supervision. But that's my point, many people on here cite time or money as a reason why eating healthily is not possible on a budget and I'm saying it is with a bit of planning and foresight. My kids don't get the option to be fussy; the rule is to have tried a few mouthfuls of everything and I will always serve things up in different ways until we find one we all like - spinach pizza and spinach-based lasagne are now firm favourites while the initial reaction to spinach from both of them was eww.

@torreli We'll have to agree to disagree here; I love the smell of fresh air, which clings to washing line dried outside, I don't have to iron as a result of line drying and it is better for the fabric integrity overall. Win-win here.

AQuickDeathInTexas · 02/02/2025 15:01

I've noticed olive oil mentioned quite a lot on these threads, how much do people use? A small bottle lasts us absolutely ages because we only use it in something like a salad dressing where you actually notice the taste.

It used to be something they sold in small bottles in the chemist, not for cooking with.

I can also remember when orange juice was something you had for a starter, not an everyday drink, it was quite a treat!

Lancrelady80 · 02/02/2025 15:00

sometimesmovingforwards · 02/02/2025 14:39

Ok… so don’t do it then. Pick a different career more as aligned to your earnings aspirations.

To do something that could change, but choose not to change because it’s difficult, is just playing the victim. None of us born with a stamp dictating what we have to do for a living. Choice and free will is the greatest gift we have in this country ffs! Fine if people don’t want to use it, but don’t also then have a whine and a moan.

Well we'll all be completely screwed if everyone earning those wages did just up and quit. And some wage, even in those ranges, is better than no wage - unless you'd also like to see UC bills increase exponentially?

Also, you might have noticed one or two things in the press about recruitment and retention crises, especially for teachers?

Don't go blaming people who are in work (and I'm not having a go at those who aren't for whatever reason) for the poor wages they are receiving when they say things are tough. A pp said the middle class is being squeezed so much there won't be one left soon, just the in-work poor or worse off, and the rich. It's happening now - yet some people say it's our fault we're struggling? It's not actually that easy to just bugger off into a new career. When I started teaching, the trajectory for pay rises would have put me now at earning around 65k or more. It was a good career with good pay. Chuck in pay freezes and it's nowhere near that. But I can't magically just get a similar waged job without taking time out, retraining etc...which I can't do because pitiful pay means minimal savings to allow that, and mortgages need paying and kids need feeding.

Don't go blaming the people at the bottom of the heap. (And I'm well aware that I am NOT at the bottom. Many more have it much worse.)

latetothefisting · 02/02/2025 14:51

torreli · 02/02/2025 14:43

Line dried clothes smell and feel disgusting though

???
no they don't, they smell lovely and fresh
unless you live next to a sewage works or something