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To think this increase in cost is going to break me?

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Yummmyy · 01/02/2025 18:42

I earn a decent salary. Whenever I go to Tesco for a basic food shop, sone items are going up literally 50p plus within a matter of two weeks. Orange juice was 2.20 for Tesco’s basic, the most expensive 4.30!!

Yes I know orange juice isn’t an essential but when you’re well above minimum wage and have to cut something like that out of your food shop it does make you question what’s the point… anyone else relate to this? I just don’t know where it’s going to end

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Butterfly292828 · 02/02/2025 23:01

I don’t find Lidl any cheaper to be honest- maybe their own stuff but branded stuff cheaper elsewhere

suki1964 · 02/02/2025 22:57

MidnightMeltdown · 02/02/2025 15:29

I use Olive oil for everything. Not because of the taste, but because we were always taught that it's healthier than other oils. I've never bought any other type of oil so I don't know how they would affect the taste of food.

if its for health benefits then switch to cold pressed rape seed - around ~£3 a bottle and has twice the health benefits

Tunaandbobby · 02/02/2025 22:43

Truth25 · 01/02/2025 19:07

I'm originally not from here and one of the things I will always disagree on is the price of food. It's really dirt cheap and people must not have travelled or just lived only in this country to not know what expensive food is. Ironically a lot of fruit and veg is imported from my home country and dirt cheap if you had to buy it there!
Oh and there's things like yellow stickers, offers on everything going and so MANY different grocery stores not to mention farmers markets all over the place.

I've literally just said to dh the other day that I have done a full week food shop from M&S and it was around 60 and we cook Almost everything from scratch for a family of 4. I appreciate what you are saying op, as that's how you feel.
To me food is one of the cheapest things about this country.

i would love to know how you feed a family of 4 from M&S for £60. Please tell me what you bought so that I can make these meals for my family. Is this just evening meals or does this include breakfast and lunches?

thecherryfox · 02/02/2025 22:31

Poppyseeds79 · 01/02/2025 18:52

It's madness! Once I've paid my rent, council tax, standard bills, travel costs, and utilities. I literally have around the amount I would have if I received UC. I work full time, and my commute is fairly long.

You genuinely end up thinking what is the point 🤔

Everyone finds a reason to benefit bash. You all have the option to work extra hours if you need the extra cash - I’m disabled and can’t work and struggling to get by. It’s a flat rate all year long, when I have additional costs I cannot work additional hours to pay for those additional costs. That’s the difference.

oldmoaner · 02/02/2025 22:27

I'm a pensioner and after the heating/cost of living has been stopped (don't claim any benefits just state pension) no free TV licence for over 75s, it's the price of gas, electric and water that's making people struggle more so than food price increases. Everything has gone up but you can find cheaper shops for most food or buy shops own brands. No chance of that with gas, electric, water, car tax, rent etc.

Jenkibubble · 02/02/2025 22:23

Miley1967 · 02/02/2025 19:32

Do you mean you get no housing help because you have no rent or mortgage ? because if you have rent to pay you should be getting a rent element on UC?

I have a mortgage . IF I rented I don’t know what , if any help I would get !

PoppysMammy · 02/02/2025 21:55

Poppyseeds79 · 01/02/2025 19:12

If they're on UC they won't be paying rent (they'll receive HB) and council tax. I'm not bashing it at all. My point was that working full time isn't creating much of financial gap between working and not. Which wasn't previously as obviously the case.

Not correct unfortunately. They get assistance towards rent, not all of it. I know what you mean though, it can feel like working (and its associated costs) is pointless. But being on UC adds another layer of stress.

ultimately costs have shot up significantly. It’s a matter of doing what you can to mitigate the impact - downgrade brands you buy. Get bigger quantities as they work out cheaper per kilo/litre. Home cook. Lower your thermostat. Compare utility costs etc etc. life does improve with time. I’ve struggled many times, single parent of 3 with 2 jobs. I should write a book on economising!

JudgeJ · 02/02/2025 21:17

thenightsky · 01/02/2025 22:35

Yes, why is that? A sack of tatties back in my childhood 70s would last the winter when my mum bought them. No hope these days.

Warmer houses? My mother used to always be asking us to get her a sack of spuds and she kept them in a dark pantry on a cool stone floor. As there's just me I buy a 2.5kg bag and keep them in the fridge, they seem to last forever, though I have read where potatoes should not be in the fridge.

strawberrybubblegum · 02/02/2025 21:09

laraitopbanana · 02/02/2025 20:42

Oh yeah in terms of money…nothing will be inherited.

But there will be for the first time more places to rent than people needing a place as there were less birth than the baby-boomers. Not in the very nice areas but the rest…yeah.

They have that in Japan. You can find houses stupid cheap because there is just not enough people to rent.

Net migration into Japan in 2023 was 64 thousand into a population of 124.5 million. Their population is shrinking.

UK net migration in 2023 was 900 thousand into a population of 68 million. Our population is increasing quickly.

There won't be spare houses to bring rents down any time soon. Quite the opposite.

auderesperare · 02/02/2025 21:04

I completely get the point you are making and I do sympathise OP. I do think the supermarkets have the ability to manipulate this and are not working in the interests of consumers.
But for years we’ve been told we have become hooked on cheap and often unhealthy food. Our obesity levels are rising and our farmers are not receiving a decent income, it’s bad for the planet, we generate too much food waste, we need to tax sugary food etc etc. Most of the electorate appeared to have some sympathy with these views but the inevitable outcome of increased taxation and increased cost of air miles was always going to be higher food prices.
This, coupled with higher commodity costs and energy costs (partly due to the green agenda and partly due to the war) is now playing out in the prices we pay at the till.
Policy has consequences. It will be interesting to see how the mass uptake of weight loss drugs impacts our relationship with food as a nation and whether that will play into the offering in supermarkets. Supermarkets in France, Italy and Spain, where obesity rates are lower than the UK, do not offer the huge choice of processed foods and snacks that our supermarkets do.
I’m sure we will see a whole industry develop around nutrition post-WLI. I know this is of no help in terms of the cost of orange juice etc. but the politics of food is changing and we will see much more of this.

JournalistEmily · 02/02/2025 21:03

Everything feels so hard at the mo OP. Me and DH in well paid jobs. After mortgage, bills and nursery fees we can barely afford a holiday. People will say ‘oh that’s a luxury’ but it makes you feel whats the f-ing point doesn’t it. Things have changed so much in such a short space of time. Fifteen years ago I earnt £30k, bought my own flat for £165k with a £10k deposit and lived like a queen. It’s all bizarre

NattyTurtle59 · 02/02/2025 20:57

Honestly, reading some of the food prices on here, you in the UK have no idea how cheap a lot of the food you buy is compared to other parts of the world.

Ctu24agent · 02/02/2025 20:57

Poppyseeds79 · 01/02/2025 19:12

If they're on UC they won't be paying rent (they'll receive HB) and council tax. I'm not bashing it at all. My point was that working full time isn't creating much of financial gap between working and not. Which wasn't previously as obviously the case.

Not remotely true. If you were ~stupid~ enough to get a mortgage instead of renting, and then have a catastrophic event occur leaving you only with access to benefits.. you get ZERO help with paying your mortgage. Only renting has help from UC.

Disturbia81 · 02/02/2025 20:52

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Maia77 · 02/02/2025 20:52

laraitopbanana · 02/02/2025 20:42

Oh yeah in terms of money…nothing will be inherited.

But there will be for the first time more places to rent than people needing a place as there were less birth than the baby-boomers. Not in the very nice areas but the rest…yeah.

They have that in Japan. You can find houses stupid cheap because there is just not enough people to rent.

Mind you there are high levels of immigration so I'm not sure much will change in terms of housing shortage.

NattyTurtle59 · 02/02/2025 20:51

torreli · 02/02/2025 14:43

Line dried clothes smell and feel disgusting though

Where I live the majority of people line dry their clothes, all year round - better weather than the UK.

Line dried clothes do not "smell and feel disgusting", what an absolutely ridiculous comment. However, if you would rather pay to use a drier then carry on, but don't moan about costs.

J3001 · 02/02/2025 20:43

Treesinthewind · 01/02/2025 19:14

I'm on UC and I still pay rent and council tax. The housing element of UC doesn't cover all of my rent.

Same im on uc cannot remember last time i done a big shop or went to the shops for that matter my dad gets me basics when i need them , when rent , gas and elec and ct is took out i have very little left for food

laraitopbanana · 02/02/2025 20:42

Maia77 · 02/02/2025 20:12

But then you have equity release and costs of residential care, so there won't be a lot of houses left behind.

Oh yeah in terms of money…nothing will be inherited.

But there will be for the first time more places to rent than people needing a place as there were less birth than the baby-boomers. Not in the very nice areas but the rest…yeah.

They have that in Japan. You can find houses stupid cheap because there is just not enough people to rent.

Lollipop81 · 02/02/2025 20:33

Totally feel you. My mortgage is going up by £200 a month next month and I honestly do not know how I am going to manage (one parent household) already at breaking point. I can’t work more hours as I wouldn’t be any better off due to breakfast club and after school club fees. It’s absolute madness. There’s lots of thing I just don’t buy now, like strawberries, £2.50 for a punnet. Erm no thanks we can do without them. My car insurance is up next month too so that’s another price hike, not to mention council tax going up in April. Seems impossible.

Ryeman · 02/02/2025 20:32

babasaclover · 01/02/2025 20:27

@cherish123 rapeseed oil makes the best and crispest roast potatoes.

Hot 2 litre bottle in Costco for £6 last week was well chuffed

In Tesco it’s £5.10 for 3 litres. It’s called vegetable oil on the bottle, but if you look at the ingredients it’s rapeseed oil.

AlertCat · 02/02/2025 20:14

Poppyseeds79 · 01/02/2025 19:12

If they're on UC they won't be paying rent (they'll receive HB) and council tax. I'm not bashing it at all. My point was that working full time isn't creating much of financial gap between working and not. Which wasn't previously as obviously the case.

This isn’t right. Each area has a value for HB which they’ll pay- in my area when I claimed (my claim ended in 2022), HB for a 2-bed was around £600. Unfortunately, private rents in this area were approximately double that- even the grottiest places were well over £900. So HB doesn’t cover most people’s whole rent.

Also council tax discount (apart from the single occupant discount) is not given to everyone. I never qualified for it.

Lastly, you have to work or seek work on UC, unless you have a baby in arms. And they make you find and do work, never mind fitting around childcare, or they stop your money as a sanction. With a primary aged child you are supposed to work 25 hours a week.

Lots of rumours abound about the easy life on benefit, but for the vast majority it’s a complete myth. It’s in many ways easier not to claim, because claiming is so onerous and getting it even a little bit wrong is so damaging that it’s actually very stressful.

Maia77 · 02/02/2025 20:12

laraitopbanana · 02/02/2025 19:24

It is only my bet but they won’t do something really…
baby boomers will, you know, not be around in 30years so that will be a lot of houses free, rent will go down except in nice « location, location, location » area.
with AI, not sure what the job market will look like but defo another shift and ladder for wealth has opened.

But yeah. That is a few gen stuck in the middle. It always has been the case though…

But then you have equity release and costs of residential care, so there won't be a lot of houses left behind.

Clavinova · 02/02/2025 20:06

BoredZelda · 02/02/2025 14:51

It's the same all over Europe. France, Germany, Ireland... are all in shit street too!

This is just not true. Yes there have been some economic issues in other European countries, but they are not experiencing the same level of economic problems as the U.K.

Jan 2025 Germany: Europe's largest economy is facing a third consecutive year of recession

German companies in the Fortune 500, including big names such as Siemens, Bosch, Thyssenkrupp and Deutsche Bahn, are reckoned to have laid off more than 60,000 staff during the first 10 months of 2024. Bosch, one of the country's most admired manufacturing companies, announced in November alone plans to let go of some 7,000 workers.

More of the same is expected in 2025.

news.sky.com/story/germany-europes-largest-economy-is-facing-a-third-consecutive-year-of-recession-13289549

Miley1967 · 02/02/2025 19:32

Jenkibubble · 02/02/2025 19:28

That’s not accurate - I get a small amount of UC as I work full time and have a 17 year old . I get NO housing help and the only council tax help I get is a 25% sole adult discount !
IF I was in need of housing cost support , I could get a loan to cover only the interest for a limited amount of time ! This isn’t a gripe !
But , UC claimants bath hugely !!!!!!!!

Do you mean you get no housing help because you have no rent or mortgage ? because if you have rent to pay you should be getting a rent element on UC?

Jenkibubble · 02/02/2025 19:28

Poppyseeds79 · 01/02/2025 19:12

If they're on UC they won't be paying rent (they'll receive HB) and council tax. I'm not bashing it at all. My point was that working full time isn't creating much of financial gap between working and not. Which wasn't previously as obviously the case.

That’s not accurate - I get a small amount of UC as I work full time and have a 17 year old . I get NO housing help and the only council tax help I get is a 25% sole adult discount !
IF I was in need of housing cost support , I could get a loan to cover only the interest for a limited amount of time ! This isn’t a gripe !
But , UC claimants bath hugely !!!!!!!!