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Soophia · 01/02/2025 15:11

Hi everyone, im new here but I was always reading nice topics that you guys share
Im here asking for advice. I just finished my education degree and took a year break to think about my next step I work in school as a HLTA and was considering PGCE until I met my friend who dropped out because of the stress. Also working with teachers I see how much stress they are under with workload and learning walks and working through theor weekends and holidays. I don't wana be working during weekends and holidays as i have a family to look after I want to be able to switch off while im at home and not have my mind with work all the time. Even as a HLTA I have to plan and deliver lessons and have SLT observations I have 6 classes that I teach each class need differentiation which takes lots of time and usually the PPA time is never enough. There is a government scheme to study social work I will be paid while learning and maybe join egency for flexibility.
What ur thoughts guys carry on and study PGCE or SW pls give ur opinions

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Soophia · 02/02/2025 02:33

PuttingOnMyPositivePants · 01/02/2025 23:05

I'm a social worker (children's) and the pressure is immense. I can't switch off. I have also been a teacher and whilst that is also a highly difficult job (core subject in secondary) it was nowhere near the level or responsibility and pressure that frontline social work is. I do, however, love working with my children and young people, but have many a sleepless night worrying about them. Just my experience!

Thank u darlings for taking the time to give ur opinion. Im very happy with ppl's comments and ive started to think clearly about what would be more suitable dor me and my family

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Soophia · 02/02/2025 02:30

Hibernatingtilspring · 01/02/2025 22:53

Children's social work always affects evenings; 4pm-5pm is our busiest time of day because one of the most important parts of the job is visiting children, who need to be seen at home and therefore most visits are after school. That means even if you aren't dealing with a crisis, you are usually finishing a bit late and at a different location to your office, which impacts the evenings - it may be a long visit and the other side of town to where you live. You may need to see a child who isn't home until after 6, if they're in wrap around care or their parent works office hours.
It's very common for SWs in children's to work in the evenings and sometimes weekends to complete reports. And if there's a safeguarding emergency, you're working until whatever time that is dealt with - it's not all the time, but there are days that you're out with someone until 9pm, 10pm. The latest I ever finished was 2am, after waiting for a child to be seen at hospital, and I regularly pulled all nighters when working in a team where I had to write a lot of court statements.

It can be a very rewarding and interesting job, but it is not a 9-5 role and likely never will be, because it's never funded/prioritised as it should be. And if you try and 'work to rule' you either risk your registration (eg if something bad happens and you hadn't written up your notes) or you let children down by not sorting out the things they need, so in reality you always work a bit over even when trying not to.

Agency workers in my experience work very long hours, because they are recruited by the authorities that are struggling the most, so they often take jobs knowing they'll be doing 50+ hours (bear in mind they can't charge that, only for the 37 usually) and then take a few weeks break in between contracts. You need to have a few years experience before you can do agency work and it is very very tough.

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Thank you for the detailed comment, Im sure now that I won't consider SW as a career. I will definitely look for other options 😊

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Soophia · 02/02/2025 02:19

Fountofwisdom · 01/02/2025 20:01

Your writing isn’t very literate tbh; your punctuation and grammar aren’t great. I presume English isn’t your first language but If you do a PGCE, you must prove competency in English and Maths, amongst many other standards. And in both teaching and SW, you need a high level of literacy.

Yeah i get what u mean but when im on social media i don't really bother about punctuation, grammar etc its not an essay i just type quickly to get my point across

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Jellycatspyjamas · 01/02/2025 23:05

I have no idea what social worker job involves that's why im asking here and the idea of agency was my friend`s who said u can join agencies rather than working permanently it would be more flexible.

If you have no idea what a job in social work involves, why on earth do you think it would be a good move for you. People really need to go into social work with their eyes wide open. It’s a great job for the right person but it’s definitely not 9-5, or a job you leave at the office door in the evening.

PuttingOnMyPositivePants · 01/02/2025 23:05

I'm a social worker (children's) and the pressure is immense. I can't switch off. I have also been a teacher and whilst that is also a highly difficult job (core subject in secondary) it was nowhere near the level or responsibility and pressure that frontline social work is. I do, however, love working with my children and young people, but have many a sleepless night worrying about them. Just my experience!

FunnysInLaJardin · 01/02/2025 22:56

both jobs sound rewarding, neither are, so I would say none of the above.

This is from a person who considered social work as a career and who has a husband who taught, before he burned out

Hibernatingtilspring · 01/02/2025 22:53

Children's social work always affects evenings; 4pm-5pm is our busiest time of day because one of the most important parts of the job is visiting children, who need to be seen at home and therefore most visits are after school. That means even if you aren't dealing with a crisis, you are usually finishing a bit late and at a different location to your office, which impacts the evenings - it may be a long visit and the other side of town to where you live. You may need to see a child who isn't home until after 6, if they're in wrap around care or their parent works office hours.
It's very common for SWs in children's to work in the evenings and sometimes weekends to complete reports. And if there's a safeguarding emergency, you're working until whatever time that is dealt with - it's not all the time, but there are days that you're out with someone until 9pm, 10pm. The latest I ever finished was 2am, after waiting for a child to be seen at hospital, and I regularly pulled all nighters when working in a team where I had to write a lot of court statements.

It can be a very rewarding and interesting job, but it is not a 9-5 role and likely never will be, because it's never funded/prioritised as it should be. And if you try and 'work to rule' you either risk your registration (eg if something bad happens and you hadn't written up your notes) or you let children down by not sorting out the things they need, so in reality you always work a bit over even when trying not to.

Agency workers in my experience work very long hours, because they are recruited by the authorities that are struggling the most, so they often take jobs knowing they'll be doing 50+ hours (bear in mind they can't charge that, only for the 37 usually) and then take a few weeks break in between contracts. You need to have a few years experience before you can do agency work and it is very very tough.

NiftyBiscuit · 01/02/2025 21:47

I don't know much about SW, but more about teaching. If you want to be a teacher, please prioritise improving your SPAG.

Titasaducksarse · 01/02/2025 21:26

Soophia · 01/02/2025 17:36

Thanks I appreciate ur comment. If u don't mind what is ur current job?

I work for a Local Authority as a social work assistant but I'm in a specialist team so do my own stuff not working under social workers per se. You'll see similar advertised where you are. Might be a way to dip your toe. The L A I work for do offer social work degree too.

Superhansrantowindsor · 01/02/2025 21:20

I’m not a social worker but I’m fairly certain they can’t switch off when home. They must see things that break their heart and stay with them.

ThesebeautifulthingsthatIvegot · 01/02/2025 21:17

Greywarden · 01/02/2025 17:09

Do they? Where does your info come from on this? From my own experience a newly qualified SW might get paid similarly to a teacher at the top of the main pay scale for teachers / bottom of the upper pay scale. It was possible to progress to a similar salary to the top of the teaching upper pay scale, or to a similar salary to school HoD / HoY, but only by going into management. Pretty comparable really. Hard to earn much more than 40k in either without a lot of experience and and / or additional management responsibility.

Edit: I've been out of teaching for a while and just checked out the current pay scales. Ignore what I said above - teachers have opportunities to earn a lot more without needing to go into management.

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It's definitely still true that it's rare for teachers to earn more than 40k without going into management. Very few schools have posts paid on lead teacher payscale, TLRs are hard to come by and the majority of teaching posts are advertised as Main Pay Scale only. Removal of pay portability has been a significant change and means looking at pay ranges is fairly irrelevant to most teachers.

Anyway, back to the OP. I think people have covered a lot about both roles. I would ask if the unhappiness about doing extra work is because of how low your pay is and not feeling like you're valued. It may be that you might more inclined to take work home when you are paid more. It does sound like you already have a significant teaching responsibility and have a good idea of what the role is like. You know it will involve taking work home (more than you do already). You know it will be long hours. But if you think all of that it going to be worth it, then go for it.

safetyfreak · 01/02/2025 20:49

I am a social worker, and I wish I trained in a different profession.

We are paid shocking for the responsibility and what we are expected to do.

Gymrabbit · 01/02/2025 20:44

Agree with some posters above.

Your literacy is poor, you are ignorant about safeguarding roles and you seem to want to do as little as possible.

Please go into a career where people’s lives and futures are not in your hands.

Fastingandhungry · 01/02/2025 20:41

You’ve completed an education degree and work in a school and don’t know what a social worker is?

CaptainMyCaptain · 01/02/2025 20:37

RitaTheBeater · 01/02/2025 16:55

What do you mean that you finished an education degree and now you are thinking about doing a PGCE? What is an education degree if it's not for teaching?

You can do a degree in Education without Qualified Teacher Status. If you want to teach you need a PGCE as well. In the early 80s I did a 4 year BEd which combined both things but I don't think you can do that any more.

FluffyDiplodocus · 01/02/2025 20:35

Maybe do teacher training and then do a cover teacher role? If you’ve got a teaching qualification and a pulse you’ll find work to be honest! I’m not sure either teaching or social work would be a good fit with the work-life balance you’re aspiring to (which incidentally there is nothing wrong with!). Teaching part time is another option, I do this for the work life balance but do still work Sunday afternoons and occasionally evenings. The holidays with my kids and two days off per week are worth it for me at the moment. But I’m 16 years or so in at this point, so my planning time is far less than it used to be!

converseandjeans · 01/02/2025 20:30

@Madamfrog

Your manner of writing would indicate that perhaps teaching might not be the best fit for you

You're being really mean!

@Soophia

Maybe you could earn as much teaching say 0.6 as HLTA role full time. So although those 3 days would be more full on you could have more time to plan & maybe do some on one of your days at home & leave the weekends free for yourself/family?

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 01/02/2025 20:04

I'm a social worker and lots of my friends are teachers. Both jobs are very stressful.

Social work is more flexible - in my LA most social workers work a 9 day fortnight, you can wfh sometimes. I'm no longer Frontline as I've moved into strategy/management and wfh almost exclusively. I can easily switch my start/finish times around, for example I've got a GP appointment on Monday morning so will start at 10 and work through til 6.30.

Teachers work phenomenally long hours in term time and have very little flexibility. But they don't have to make decisions which impact on people's lives or that, if wrong, might place a child or adult at risk of harm/death. So the stress is different.

Fountofwisdom · 01/02/2025 20:01

Soophia · 01/02/2025 18:49

Why?

Your writing isn’t very literate tbh; your punctuation and grammar aren’t great. I presume English isn’t your first language but If you do a PGCE, you must prove competency in English and Maths, amongst many other standards. And in both teaching and SW, you need a high level of literacy.

Fountofwisdom · 01/02/2025 19:55

I was a secondary school teacher on and off for 20 years, with a 7 year break in the middle to work in children’s services for a local authority, where I worked closely with lots of SWs. Both teaching and SW are god-awful jobs, with huge workloads, being abused by students/clients/parents, being constantly scrutinised and appraised, and continually vilified by the press and public.

If you are concerned about the impact on your family life, I can assure you that neither career is compatible. Both very stressful and requiring lots of additional work out of hours. I would advise you to totally re-think your options.

Cattreesea · 01/02/2025 19:48

Neither...

As long as social care and state schools are not properly funded and people's behaviour in society continue to worsen, being a social worker or a teacher is not going to be a good option.

You would be working in stressful, short-staffed environment for a pay that is not great.

So unless you have a real passion for these type of roles, I would keep looking for other options.

snowflakelake · 01/02/2025 19:38

I don't think either social work or teaching are good professions for getting regular hours and leaving work at home.
Children's SW is extremely stressful ( I have been a SW) but watching family members work as teachers they have long hours and have to be quite flexible.
Most of my friends have much lower stress jobs than either of these ones.

VickyEadieofThigh · 01/02/2025 18:52

Soophia · 01/02/2025 18:50

What do u need to be able to teach in prison?

A teaching qualification and experience in secondary education or FE. And nerves of steel.

Soophia · 01/02/2025 18:50

What do u need to be able to teach in prison?

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Soophia · 01/02/2025 18:49

Madamfrog · 01/02/2025 18:11

Your manner of writing would indicate that perhaps teaching might not be the best fit for you.

Why?

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