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Down with knickers!

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Houndown · 01/02/2025 13:12

The last time I bought knickers (Primark) after wearing them once before washing them I found after three washes the elastic had become so loose I've had to throw them away (thank god I wear jeans)! I did complain to the shop that they weren't fit for purpose and was told it wasn't their problem because they are not the makers!

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FourChimneys · 03/02/2025 08:33

RosesAndHellebores why would I be joking? I make a lot of my clothes, knickers are really quick and easy. Would you say I was joking if I had posted about making a skirt?

I have never (yet) made a bra though, apart from the bikini I made as a student when I couldn't afford to buy one.

StormingNorman · 02/02/2025 18:44

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 02/02/2025 18:20

Slave produced goods tend to be low quality. It’s a form of rebellion by the slaves. The best option is to buy ethically made goods as they tend to be fit for purpose.

Not everybody has the luxury of choice and people on restrictive budgets shouldn’t be shamed for it.

SugarandSpiceandAllThingsNaice · 02/02/2025 18:20

Slave produced goods tend to be low quality. It’s a form of rebellion by the slaves. The best option is to buy ethically made goods as they tend to be fit for purpose.

Pancakeflipper · 02/02/2025 18:19

Boody knickers for me.

Expensive
But had them years and only had to get rid of 1 pair (4yrs old - elastic went).

Astrak · 02/02/2025 18:17

I'm still wearing my B&M knickers. Had them years. No problems.

LaPalmaLlama · 02/02/2025 18:15

The best pants are Tesco 5 pack of plain black cotton bikinis. Comfortable and go for years and about a tenner a pack. Next also do quite good ones but not quite as robust. I find the key is to avoid trim and lacy bits as they always come loose on cheaper pants.

theduchessofspork · 02/02/2025 18:14

BoobsOnTheMoon · 02/02/2025 18:11

Why did he have to chuck them out? Did they have holes or stains?

I think you can guess that sleeping w a man in schoolboy pants gave the PP the ick

theduchessofspork · 02/02/2025 18:13

Buy better quality knickers, it will be cheaper in the long run and much better for the planet.

Fast fashion/v cheap clothes are bad news all round.

BoobsOnTheMoon · 02/02/2025 18:11

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 02/02/2025 17:10

In the early days of my relationship with DH (32 years ago) he was pegging out some washing and I realised with horror that there was a name label sewn into the back of a pair of briefs. When I asked DH why he said that he'd had them at boarding school where every item of clothing had to be labelled. He was 31 at the time so they were at least 14 years old. I made him chuck them out.

Why did he have to chuck them out? Did they have holes or stains?

Needmorelego · 02/02/2025 17:20

Boomer55 · 02/02/2025 16:57

Buy Primark, you get Primark. 🤷‍♀️. Go to M&S or Next. 👍

I find a lot of M+S clothes shrink when I wash them. At least they used too - I haven't bought any for years due to them always bloody shrinking 😂

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 02/02/2025 17:11

Funderthighs · 02/02/2025 10:31

I buy mine from Sainsbury’s Tu range. They last forever.

I used to really like them but the last ones I bought were awful. The gusset is a lot narrower and the leg hole are huge.

M&S are crap now as well. I used to know they'd fit me but again the gusset is narrow and it's hit and miss whether they fit. I'm trying Stripe and Stare at the moment and so far so good apart from the price!

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 02/02/2025 17:10

In the early days of my relationship with DH (32 years ago) he was pegging out some washing and I realised with horror that there was a name label sewn into the back of a pair of briefs. When I asked DH why he said that he'd had them at boarding school where every item of clothing had to be labelled. He was 31 at the time so they were at least 14 years old. I made him chuck them out.

LlynTegid · 02/02/2025 17:09

I agree that any clothing should last much longer than three washes before being not fit to use. I'd smile if you were able to sue Primark for millions and/or put them out of business, but that could not happen.

Please shop elsewhere, see suggestions others have made.

BigButtons · 02/02/2025 17:06

I have never had a problem with Primark knickers- ever 🤷🏻‍♀️

PickAChew · 02/02/2025 17:03

Bignanna · 01/02/2025 15:24

Knickers from M&S never wear out! I’ve had them for years. However their socks frequently go into holes in the heel area after a short time, but Primarks last longer. I’ve had some clothes from Primark that have lasted for years, eg pyjamas and cardigan. They’re often made of the same fabric, and probably made in the same sweatshop!

I have knickers from M&S that I've had for years but not many that I've only had for a year or so because they're so badly made now that they fall apart. I have to chuck them if the elastic starts to unravel or I end up red and sore. I've started buying my miltipack knickers from John Lewis. A little more expensive but thicker and last longer.

AnnaQuayInTheUk · 02/02/2025 16:59

BuoyOhBuoy · 02/02/2025 16:35

https://british-boxers.com/collections/boxers/products/bbluckydip4

Did you get your spectacles from Primark?

But we aren't talking about men's underwear, we are talking about women's knickers. I buy from British Boxers when the women's knickers are on sale and they are under £30 for 4. I appreciate that is still a lot of money but if they last for ages it is worth it on a "pay per wear" basis.

Boomer55 · 02/02/2025 16:57

Buy Primark, you get Primark. 🤷‍♀️. Go to M&S or Next. 👍

StormingNorman · 02/02/2025 16:55

Good old M&S multipacks. I buy the bikini shape and have not had any problems with quality or narrow gussets. I’ve been buying them for decades and not noticed any change in quality.

AngryLikeHades · 02/02/2025 15:32

Do John Lewis sell own brand knickers?
Unhelpful to many, but I buy their own brand girl's ones for age 16 and the gusset is good and wide.
I'm wondering if they sell ones for adult women that are similar in quality and shape.
They wash quite well.

caringcarer · 02/02/2025 15:26

I like Sainsbury's knickers. Don't lose their shape and have a pretty bit of lace on them.

Megifer · 02/02/2025 15:18

All of my knickers, bras, socks, tights, basic tops/joggers/hoodies and 'loungewear' stuff is from Primark and I've never had a problem with any of it. One of my staple tops (just a plain loose black t shirt type thing) from there that i wear at least twice a week is about 6 years old and still going strong.

Needmorelego · 02/02/2025 15:17

LuluBlakey1 · 02/02/2025 14:23

Primark sell tat that ends up as landfill within months. None of their clothing is environmentally carefully produced.

I have Primark stuff that has lasted for years
(I hate clothes shopping so don't buy very often).

ERthree · 02/02/2025 14:37

BM1989 · 02/02/2025 14:29

Even if you have a budget to live on you should know buying from Primark / Temu / Shein is not economical.

I live on budget and would rather save and pay more for quality on CK when in the sale. They last years

TBF, i have a Primark fleece that is at least 15 years old and their cotton nightwear lasts for years.

UrsulasHerbBag · 02/02/2025 14:35

FourChimneys · 02/02/2025 13:59

Last year I made a couple of pairs out of an old t-shirt. I made them exactly the shape I wanted, bought special lacy elastic and they are going strong.

I plan to make more this year, need to sort through my t-shirts.

My mum is a seamstress and she makes absolutely beautiful underwear. Also using your old T shirts is a great idea, comfy and great way to recycle. I haven’t the skills unfortunately so my old t shirts are used as cleaning cloths.

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