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GlitterDoughnut · 31/01/2025 20:45

Hi OP! We've been in a similar situation recently - please please check your PET insurance (not travel)! We're with Pet Plan for our pup and it covers holiday cancellation if your pet falls seriously ill in the 14 days before travel! Best of luck for the dog's operation <3

oakleaffy · 31/01/2025 20:44

Hell no. My dog like yours means more than any holiday..I'd not go.

Sincerely hope your lovely dog pulls through the Op. 🙏 safely.

DragonFly98 · 31/01/2025 20:44

Nina1013 · 31/01/2025 20:33

I’m assuming you don’t have dogs.

I can assure you, they are very aware of who is looking after them, and when their owners are not there.

It doesn’t mean it’s necessarily wrong for OP to go, but it’s just not true to say it doesn’t matter to them - it does. One of mine paces and pines if my husband is away overnight, they all know when someone is away who ‘shouldn’t’ be, ie if my daughter is staying out. One knows when it’s ’work time’ for me as she waits outside my office for us to go in.

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Regardless the personification of animals is getting out of hand. I love dogs but they are not people or children and shouldn’t be treated as such.
I am sure the dog would prefer its owner to be there but she has expensive plans on the other side of the world.

m00rfarm · 31/01/2025 20:44

What reasons would allow you to claim on the insurance?

MissUltraViolet · 31/01/2025 20:44

I was gonna say don't go....until you said the 'relative' looking after her is her other owner - your partner!!

I feel like that possibly changes things.

FoxtonFoxton · 31/01/2025 20:43

77788r · 31/01/2025 20:41

It's this Sunday. The relative who would be looking after her is also her owner as well (my partner). I have no idea how you sell a holiday at this short notice but I'll have a look online

I feel so angry. I have lost so much lately - having this trip to look forward to and my dog are the only things keeping me going

Oh so her other owner is home with her? That makes a big difference. You are not leaving her with a stranger, it's your partner. I assume you have full trust in their ability to look after the dog in recovery?

musicalfrog · 31/01/2025 20:43

Your partner presumably could look after dog as well as you. And you'd feel reassured by this?

If so, that puts a different spin on it really.

bugalugs45 · 31/01/2025 20:43

TheBoysAndTheBallet · 31/01/2025 20:15

I'd still go. It's a pet not a person. As long as someone is looking after it, it doesn't really make any difference whether you're there or not.

You know that pets , dogs especially bond to their families don't you ? They see you as their pack , and would literally kill for you if necessary ,
Do yourself a favour and don't ever get one if that's really how you feel .

loonyloo · 31/01/2025 20:41

77788r · 31/01/2025 20:07

My dog has become seriously ill in just a few days, she's having an operation on Wednesday next week and we've been told there's a 75% chance of success of her surviving the operation. If she doesn't have the operation she would likely have less than a month to live.

I am due to fly to Australia on Sunday for 2 weeks. The holiday cost me thousands. The travel insurance won't cover a cancellation or change in dates for a pet, and the pet insurance will cover £1000 which is better than nothing.

I feel devastated. It is a huge sum of money, I've saved up and done so much planning and preparation and I feel sick at the thought of it just going to waste. It was for a big birthday. The operation is also thousands of pounds, so this whole situation is costing nearly 6 months of salary for me. I also feel sick at leaving my dog, not knowing what the outcome of the surgery is gonna be or knowing if it's the last time I'll see her. I've spoken to family and friends who think I should go, aside from the family member who would be looking after her while I was away - they said it would be wrong for me to go and they would never consider going themselves.

I don't think I'll go but it hurts so much, I'm so upset at the timing of it all

I have dogs and I don't think I would go. I also have an expensive holiday coming up and genuinely am trying to put myself in your shoes in terms of whether I would cancel it or not if one of them became seriously ill to the point of needing surgery with a 25% chance of failure.

Obviously I can't be 100% certain of how I'd react in that situation, but I think I would cancel.

willowbrookmanor · 31/01/2025 20:41

How much would it cost to change the dates?

Although you’ve said the insurance won’t cover it, the cost of changing the dates might be cheaper than cancelling altogether.

Are you going on holiday alone?

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77788r · 31/01/2025 20:41

It's this Sunday. The relative who would be looking after her is also her owner as well (my partner). I have no idea how you sell a holiday at this short notice but I'll have a look online

I feel so angry. I have lost so much lately - having this trip to look forward to and my dog are the only things keeping me going

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Feelingathomenow · 31/01/2025 20:41

TheBoysAndTheBallet · 31/01/2025 20:15

I'd still go. It's a pet not a person. As long as someone is looking after it, it doesn't really make any difference whether you're there or not.

Jesus! A dog is part of the family!

poemsandwine · 31/01/2025 20:38

Crushgrape · 31/01/2025 20:17

I’m not a dog owner but this comment made me sad.

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Same. Of course OP wants to be there. Shit timing, OP. So sorry.

FoxtonFoxton · 31/01/2025 20:38

XxSideshowAuntSallyx · 31/01/2025 20:33

I wouldn't want to look after someone else's pet who has just had major surgery and I wouldn't expect someone else to look after mine.

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I looked after someone's seriously ill horse once (unexpected illness while they were away not caused by me!) and it was absolutely horrendous. I didn't sleep, hardly ate -the stress was awful. The responsibility of looking after someone's beloved pet is bad enough, let alone when they are very sick.

SpringfieldPet · 31/01/2025 20:37

So sorry to hear this OP 😔. Hope doggo isn't in too much discomfort.

You say travel insurance doesn't cover a change in dates, but if a date change only cost say a couple of hundred, I'd be tempted to pay out for that and postpone it till next year.

Hope it all works out for you.

soupyspoon · 31/01/2025 20:35

77788r · 31/01/2025 20:07

My dog has become seriously ill in just a few days, she's having an operation on Wednesday next week and we've been told there's a 75% chance of success of her surviving the operation. If she doesn't have the operation she would likely have less than a month to live.

I am due to fly to Australia on Sunday for 2 weeks. The holiday cost me thousands. The travel insurance won't cover a cancellation or change in dates for a pet, and the pet insurance will cover £1000 which is better than nothing.

I feel devastated. It is a huge sum of money, I've saved up and done so much planning and preparation and I feel sick at the thought of it just going to waste. It was for a big birthday. The operation is also thousands of pounds, so this whole situation is costing nearly 6 months of salary for me. I also feel sick at leaving my dog, not knowing what the outcome of the surgery is gonna be or knowing if it's the last time I'll see her. I've spoken to family and friends who think I should go, aside from the family member who would be looking after her while I was away - they said it would be wrong for me to go and they would never consider going themselves.

I don't think I'll go but it hurts so much, I'm so upset at the timing of it all

Theres no answer to this one, you know you cant go and its awful but it would be awful if you went

Hope it all turns out ok

Bollihobs · 31/01/2025 20:34

Can you reschedule the holiday? Rebook the flights for a later date and shift your accommodation bookings? It will cost you some money but not as much as cancelling it all. And then you'll be on an even keel and able to properly enjoy the trip when it comes.

XxSideshowAuntSallyx · 31/01/2025 20:33

TheBoysAndTheBallet · 31/01/2025 20:15

I'd still go. It's a pet not a person. As long as someone is looking after it, it doesn't really make any difference whether you're there or not.

I wouldn't want to look after someone else's pet who has just had major surgery and I wouldn't expect someone else to look after mine.

Nina1013 · 31/01/2025 20:33

TheBoysAndTheBallet · 31/01/2025 20:15

I'd still go. It's a pet not a person. As long as someone is looking after it, it doesn't really make any difference whether you're there or not.

I’m assuming you don’t have dogs.

I can assure you, they are very aware of who is looking after them, and when their owners are not there.

It doesn’t mean it’s necessarily wrong for OP to go, but it’s just not true to say it doesn’t matter to them - it does. One of mine paces and pines if my husband is away overnight, they all know when someone is away who ‘shouldn’t’ be, ie if my daughter is staying out. One knows when it’s ’work time’ for me as she waits outside my office for us to go in.

Runningoutofthyme · 31/01/2025 20:33

Tough one Op

i wouldn’t be able to leave my ddog in this scenario.

money is relative but to me, my pets are priceless

Surprised your insurance is only paying out £1 k. That’s doesn’t sound right unless that’s all your insured for vets fees which would be very low Edited as I misread the £1k as vets fees not as payment towards holiday

lola006 · 31/01/2025 20:32

Oh OP, how awful. My dog was poorly before Christmas going into kennels for a [human] trip to Aus but her issues weren’t major and the kennel took amazing care of her. I truly don’t know what I would do in your place so I just want to be a voice saying there is no wrong choice.

Some will say it’s just a dog and you should go, others will say stay. Go with your gut.

Redcandlescandal · 31/01/2025 20:32

I’m so sorry OP. I hope DDog makes a full recovery.

I couldn’t go. There would be no point as I would just be sick with worry the whole time and feeling guilty.

Honeyroar · 31/01/2025 20:32

TheBoysAndTheBallet · 31/01/2025 20:15

I'd still go. It's a pet not a person. As long as someone is looking after it, it doesn't really make any difference whether you're there or not.

How funny - posts from people like this remind me why dogs are so much nicer than people sometimes!

OP is there any way of altering your ticket? Who are you flying with?

Autumnnow · 31/01/2025 20:32

TheBoysAndTheBallet · 31/01/2025 20:15

I'd still go. It's a pet not a person. As long as someone is looking after it, it doesn't really make any difference whether you're there or not.

What an utter pile of crap.

Newuser75 · 31/01/2025 20:31

Also have you explained the situation to the vets? Is there a reason the surgery needs to wait until Sunday? Could it be done tomorrow so that you know the outcome before you go?

Even if you need to contact a different vets for this to be done.

I'd explore all options before cancelling a holiday such as this.