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Is this amount of alcohol ok?

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twinklet4 · 31/01/2025 08:52

I know alcohol is a fairy contentious subject on MN. Some people don't touch it at all and that's fine, but I have always enjoyed a drink. Sometimes too much.

Last year my drinking crept up a lot and around Christmas I really overdid it. I made a very half arsed attempt at dry January but decided it was pointless if I was just going to count down the days to until I could go back to my previous drinking habits. Instead I've tried to make sustainable changes.

Last year I was drinking probably 5-6 nights a week and it was mostly gin and tonic or wine. The issue being that I'd pour my own measures and they were huge! I think I averaged around 30 units per week which is double the recommended amount. I never really felt hungover but I knew it wasn't doing me any favours health wise.

Now I've started buying the 4 pack pre made cans of gin and tonic which are only 5% and 1 unit each. I may also have a bottle of wine over the course of the weekend. So all in all this is 13 units and under the recommended 14. I appreciate to some people this will still sound a lot but to me it's a big reduction and I've also resolved to drink no more than 3-4 nights of the week.

I suppose what I'm asking is that is this an acceptable amount? Do people drink more or less? I am making improvements from what I was drinking but I also wonder if I need to do more.

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Didimum · 31/01/2025 08:56

I think it’s fine. But if you have an issue with overdoing it and it creeping up, then being on the cusp of the recommendation is likely only going to go up in reality.

I drink less, 1-2 glasses of wine a week, but that’s because alcohol really affects my weight. Otherwise I’d drink more!

Viviennemary · 31/01/2025 08:56

That doesn't sound too bad at all. But you could try and have a week totally free of alcohol every so often if you are still worried about the effects of drinking on your health. I only drink occasionally.