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To report NSPCC child line?

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familyportrait · 30/01/2025 18:11

Every Thursday after I take DD to her swimming lesson, and after her lesson I take her to WHSmiths for a magazine as a treat then walk home. Every single week I am HOUNDED by the NSPCC to set up a direct debit.
Now I am not charity shy and I donate to certain causes each month but I don't expect to be hounded. Today (6th week in a row) they cornered me and actually stood in front of the shop door making it hard to leave. They practically cornered me and my pre school aged child. I said to them that I do not want to commit to setting up a direct debit. They then probed and said 'why?' I said because it's not something I'm looking for. These two men then said 'well why not, you're helping children!' I said again, I don't want to set up a direct debit. I may think about an online one time donation. But that wasn't enough. He then said 'well you can afford it, you come in here every week and buy your daughter a magazine so you can set up a direct debit!' I then snapped and said 'no, my finances are fucked, I can't afford it, now please get out of my way!' (My finances are not fucked, I was just trying to think of something to get them to piss off!)

He then winced and put his hands up to his ears and said 'don't swear in front of your child.' And tried to guilt trip me! They didn't intimidate me but I can absolutely see how they would an elderly person or a vulnerable person. WIBU to complain about them? They've really annoyed me!

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MaltipooMama · 30/01/2025 18:19

That's utter harassment and they should absolutely be reported. Also I agree with the pp about complaining to WHSmiths as well!

AfricanGreen · 30/01/2025 18:17

Total harrassment

rubyslippers · 30/01/2025 18:17

Absolutely report to fundraising regulator and NSPCC
they are likely not to be directly employed by the charity but through canvassing companies
they are probably paid on commission - hence their pushiness
their behaviour is absolutely out of order and the company need fo be held to account for their poor training and recruitment

Katemax82 · 30/01/2025 18:17

Absolutely report them! That's revolting behaviour and they're lucky you haven't screamed at them sooner

Comff · 30/01/2025 18:16

They sound awful!

TimeForTeaAndG · 30/01/2025 18:15

I'd complain to WHSmith as well. They surely have to approve the stall being in their doorway.

Dfg15 · 30/01/2025 18:15

Yes, report them. So sick of these charities trying to intimidate people into giving.

WaneyEdge · 30/01/2025 18:14

I would report. They should take no for an answer. I’d possibly contact the manager of WH Smith too.

familyportrait · 30/01/2025 18:11

Sorry to be clear? The NSPCC has a stall set up in WHSmiths door way.

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