On of my close friends has just gone through a break up, he broke up with her just before Christmas, they still talk and it's all very healthy, no hard feelings etc.
Most of this month she has been fairly quiet, minded her own business, not been very active in the group chat etc. Then at the weekend she went out with some other friends partying until 3am (she's 26 no children fwiw), and has made loads of plans with lots of friends for the next few weeks, plus a ski holiday and weekend away alone.
I see no reason for concern, she dealt with the hard part quietly and now she wants to party and get her life back - seems normal to me.
However lots of our mutual friends are acting like the sudden switch up is concerning and we should take her for lunch and basically host some sort of intervention. She's still going to work and no drug use or anything concerning as far as we know.
AiBU to think this is a crazy overreaction and she's just processing in a healthy normal way.