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Is he entitled to be pissed off with me

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Tootiredmummyof3 · 29/01/2025 08:25

This morning wake up to a arsy text from DH. Basically pissed off with me because I didn't give him oral laser night. I was feeling really dizzy last night and still don't feel great this morning.
I didn't reply but then text me 3 minutes later saying he'd taken the car to work. He knew it wasn't well last night and he didn't check if I felt up to walking to school or ask me to drop him off at work.
I texted him thanks for taking the car when you know I'm dizzy. No reply because what can he say.
I know I'm not being unreasonable to be annoyed with him but is he also unreasonable to be pissed off with me?

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CharlotteStreetW1 · 29/01/2025 08:29

He's a self-centred arse.

But should you be driving if you're feeling dizzy?

Bruisername · 29/01/2025 08:28

Yes he’s an arsehole so yanbu on that

should you be driving if you feel dizzy though?

edit to add - if you are often unwell he should be helping with the school run

Viviennemary · 29/01/2025 08:28

He sounds vile. How can you tolerate that treatment. Imagine putting that kind of thing in a text. Cringe. Him taking the car is annoying. Can't see why you are with him.

Largestlegocollectionever · 29/01/2025 08:26

No, he’s being a total dick.
He’s punishing you for not giving him oral.
Thats awful!

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