Is he entitled to be pissed off with me

This behaviour is sickening and not the way that someone behaves when they love and care for you.

out of interest, before you met him, did you imagine you’d end up in a long term relationship with someone who texts you whinging that you didn’t give them oral sex because you felt unwell? Did you imagine this prince among men would fuck off to work in the car without any consideration for how you might get your work / get the kids to school? (It’s not clear from your OP if you’re a teacher or you have kids in school)

seriously? What the fuck are you doing?

I read it to my DH as well, neither of us could believe it.
It must be one of the most abusive things I’ve read on MN.
Everytime OP has had sex with her husband out of fear he will punish her the next day if she says no is rape in my mind.

BJ is the least of your problems OP.

I just read this thread to my DH..

His reply. Fuckinghell. What a shit life the OP must have. She needs to divorce that cunt.

I agree

Also have you had the reason for dizziness checked?

If the car is his then let him fuck off and have a wank in it because your body is yours and certainly not for him. What a twat!

He said WHAT?! That misogynistic attitude went out in the 1960s. No woman owes any man sex. You married a sexist dick. I'd be telling him that if he ever wants to see you naked again he better check the piggish attitude at the door.

He is vile. Reading this thread has turned my stomach. Please take action.

He’s being a twat and a bully. In his mind your punishment for not giving him oral is having no car. What exactly is this waste of skin bringing to the relationship because I imagine it’s nothing but misery and unpleasantness when you don’t do what he wants and the bare minimum with the kids.

This. Is. Abuse.

He’s coercive. This is a form of coercive control. You REALLY need to leave him.

Also he’s lying about it being uncomfortable for a man not to get ‘release’. It isn’t. And if it was, he wouldn’t need you to provide that release. He could go to the bathroom and masturbate.

If you are only having sex with him because you are scared he’ll be cruel/unkind to you if don’t, or because he tells you that you have to do it because he pays for things, he is raping you. He’s coercing you into sex. Please wake up. Contact Women’s Aid or something and get some advice.

Patting himself on the back for not raping you. The bar is on the floor. Please leave him.

You won't be leaving him for sulking, you'll be leaving him for being sexually abusive.

He does get a bit moody when I say no 😥😡 Just no Op. You're not a household appliance with a vagina attachment.

Tonight op, do YOU want sex? As in, if it was entirely your choice tonight whether you had sex would you choose that, or not?
Here's the thing. It IS entirely your choice.
Saying no is allowed. You don't even need to be dizzy.

If you're thinking that there's no way you could say no again tonight, then you surely must realise that you are in an abusive relationship?

Does he give you oral?? I haven't rtft but my first thought (well 2nd, after thinking he's a jerk) was does he make sure you're sexually satisfied?

I'm going to guess not because he sounds very selfish.

Vile sex pest. You deserve so much better than this OP.

"He wants some kind of sex every day" and your username is tired mum of 3 so I know, whether you admit it or not, you absolutely do not want to have sex with him or give him a blow job every fucking day. You're doing it to keep him happy and stop him being moody/sulking.

Forget the bloody car. You are being abused.

Sometimes I genuinely struggle to understand the absolute gremlins some of you are married to and the shit you put up with.

How many threads per week are about men feeling like they have the God given right to demand sex or sexual acts from their partners!? It’s very worrying.

Edited just to add, it doesn’t matter if you feel on top of the world! If you say no it’s a no and he doesn’t get to go in a huff over it. I noticed in all of your posts you’re focused on how you felt dizzy to justify saying no.

He doesn't love you OP. You deserve a man who treasures and values you for you, not just as a mouth and a vagina he can stick his dick in.

I said I was upset he wanted a blow job when I felt so ill and he wasn't happy with me, saying it's not as if he forced me, and he said it's uncomfortable for a man if they can't get any release. He said that's the end of it he doesn't want to discuss it.

Amazing for such a massive wanker he seems to not understand what a wank would do...

This is abusive. Op, please realise this isn't normal. He's forcing you to engage in sexual activity against your will.

You are not his personal sex toy. Don't have ever have sex that you don't want. If his balls hurt he can have a five knuckle shuffle

So he thinks you're making a fuss because he didn't force you? Forcing you is sexual assault, if he really thinks not forcing you makes him a decent man then there's no hope for this marriage Op. I know MN leaps to leaving the bastard some times but this is not one of them.He thinks because he works everything is his, well you're married, a decent divorce lawyer would get you half of the house and quite possibly the car as well.
You don't work because your DC is disabled, if he can't see that he needs a swift wake up call

Ugh, I don't know how you can stay with such a low life.