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moise · 28/01/2025 17:20

Getting ready to send in my flexible working request but keep stalling as I cannot decide whether I compress some hours or not.

I have seen a video saying that compressing hours is the ‘hack’ to having a day or two off yet not doing the same work for less money.
The thought of working more hours in less days sounds practical, but is this not really the most stressful thing ever in practice? I imagine a workday factoring in commute times, nursery drop offs and pick ups, potentially broken sleep etc to be hard enough as it is without adding on hours to be worked. Surely there is also extra pressure as if you need to take time out your day for whatever reason, there is less opportunity then to put the time back in ?!

Am I missing something? I don’t want to work more than 3 days ideally so my options are just do 3 days, or 3.5/4 in 3 to boost earnings.

Does anyone have experience of trying to compress working hours with a young family and is it/was it ok for you, or something you would avoid?

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Bearbookagainandagain · 28/01/2025 17:42

I do 90% over 4 days which works out ok in theory as I can start at 8 am most days. It does mean I have little capacity to take on extra work if things are busy though. But i don't think I actually do my hours in reality.

Some people at work do 100% over 4 days and it's very stressful. They have to log on after the kids bedtime and on weekends, which works for some but others told me they found it exhausting. I know I couldn't, I'm too tired for that!

moise · 28/01/2025 17:41

SnailAndAWhale · 28/01/2025 17:38

I used to do 5 days in 4 (4 days of 08:00-18:00). After my second mat leave, I dropped to 3 days of the same hours which was .75FTE.

I’ve just requested to drop to 9-5 (the ‘regular’ hours in my job) and take the pay cut, because 8-6 is driving me mad. Now I have 2 school runs to factor in, plus evening meal sorting for the kids, it’s too much. 9-5 gives me that little bit more wiggle room and less stress. For me, it’s worth the slight financial loss as I feel like this past couple years has been exhausting on the working days!

Thank you, that makes sense! I hope that works better for you and that your new hours feel more manageable

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moise · 28/01/2025 17:40

Createausername1970 · 28/01/2025 17:38

Totally random to the question you are asking, but check you can go back to normal if it doesn't work out.

My DH was considering compressed hours, then discovered that in his work place (local authority) he couldn't revert if it didn't work out

I guess that if you made a fuss you probably could in the end, but it he decided not to because of that

Ooh thank you I am also LA so will look into it. So difficult to know, when I’ve no experience of working anything other than full time

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SnailAndAWhale · 28/01/2025 17:38

I used to do 5 days in 4 (4 days of 08:00-18:00). After my second mat leave, I dropped to 3 days of the same hours which was .75FTE.

I’ve just requested to drop to 9-5 (the ‘regular’ hours in my job) and take the pay cut, because 8-6 is driving me mad. Now I have 2 school runs to factor in, plus evening meal sorting for the kids, it’s too much. 9-5 gives me that little bit more wiggle room and less stress. For me, it’s worth the slight financial loss as I feel like this past couple years has been exhausting on the working days!

Createausername1970 · 28/01/2025 17:38

Totally random to the question you are asking, but check you can go back to normal if it doesn't work out.

My DH was considering compressed hours, then discovered that in his work place (local authority) he couldn't revert if it didn't work out

I guess that if you made a fuss you probably could in the end, but it he decided not to because of that

moise · 28/01/2025 17:33

throwawayforthispost · 28/01/2025 17:24

I do 4.5 in 5 which is just about workable (0800-1700 and 0800-1300) but it can be difficult when there's a long commute tacked on. When I was doing it with a 90min commute each way, it really wrecked my health

Was that just driving or including public transport?

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throwawayforthispost · 28/01/2025 17:24

I do 4.5 in 5 which is just about workable (0800-1700 and 0800-1300) but it can be difficult when there's a long commute tacked on. When I was doing it with a 90min commute each way, it really wrecked my health

vodkaredbullgirl · 28/01/2025 17:21

Depends what you do. I work in care and do 12 1/2 hour shifts, 3 days.