hi, please no nasty comments
i was with a man for 6 months and things were good but then small cracks began to show. The past few weeks he was very snappy, rude and cold. Very distant and not interested in sex anymore. I put it down to him having a breakdown as he was dealing with depression, very bad debt and the chance of losing his home. He got his mum to bail him out and apparently she’s paying it off for him as he has no job now. Anyways he was being cold and callous so I wonder now if he had someone else even though we were happy and he never had women on his phone or spoke to them. It came to a head when he shouted at me and left me in a dark road at night with dodgy people around. I went home and told him it was unacceptable what he did I was very angry. He tried to twist things and say he didn’t do it. Anyways I dumped him, he didn’t accept it at first but then he texted and said it was over and for my stuff to be gone. A family member collected my stuff. He blocked me on everything but left my number unblocked as it rang through. He put up a post last night saying how he was alone and a monster and now everyone thinks I’m the bad guy. I know he’s probably not coming back but I’m so so hurt how he was the loving man I knew then in the past weeks he’s been cold and uninterested then blew up at me, how can you switch so quick? I guess I just really need some support/advice. :(