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Bringing toddler out in the rain

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RainRainRain123 · 28/01/2025 09:36

Just started a new nanny position. Mother of the child (20 months) is quite insistent that he should be brought out twice a day even if its raining. He has rain gear, I do not. Just arrived this morning to be told he loves the library, its only a 30 minute walk each way, it's lashing rain here. I said if it eases of later I will get out with him. Questioned me yesterday if we went to the park. Has sent me numerous groups, all of which are at least 20 minutes walk away, not allowed take him out in the car. Where they live is also quite hilly and buggy isn't the best.

Mam seems to walk everywhere and always has her rain gear on. AIBU to not want to go out twice a day when the weather is bad.

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NikkiAlexander · 28/01/2025 09:41

So if it rained for a week you wouldn't go out? Buy a cagoule and take them out.

TeeBee · 28/01/2025 09:41

All kids should be outdoors, whatever the weather. It's brilliant for everyone's mental health. If you stop doing things in the UK (if that's where you are) just because of the rain, you'd never leave the house. Buy a coat.

Allywill · 28/01/2025 09:40

to be honest it sounds like she has made her expectations clear. if you are not happy to do as she asks then maybe this isn’t the job for you?

WhatTheKey · 28/01/2025 09:40

You need to have the appropriate equipment for your job, and that means a raincoat and rainproof trousers. It's part of your job.

MissEloiseBridgerton · 28/01/2025 09:40

I would suggest you get some rain gear!

Why aren't you allowed to use the car?

User67556 · 28/01/2025 09:40

Does she work at home? Maybe she wants you out the way. How many days do you have the little one? What's wrong with the buggy? Doesn't sound like this position is for you.

moonshinepoursthroughmywindow · 28/01/2025 09:39

I'm with the mother here and I wish there were more people like her. I can't stand staying in all day and will happily go out in the rain to get some fresh air. If you want to continue working for this particular family, I'd get a big waterproof, some cheerful looking wellies and learn to love the rain.

TwentyTwentyFive · 28/01/2025 09:38

I don't see that her expectations are unreasonable. Also surely you weren't expecting to stay indoors with him when it was raining so I don't see why you don't have any appropriate outdoor clothing?

Notgivenuphope · 28/01/2025 09:38

Are you made of sugar? This is the UK in winter - it rains! People can’t just stay in for months on end! Children need fresh air and routine. Get a raincoat or umbrella and crack on.

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