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What's your thoughts on asylum seekers?

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Lynds778 · 28/01/2025 09:09

I'm all for offering asylum to those genuinely in need but I've seen a lot of negative media recently around 'fake' asylum seekers; people pretending to be from war-torn countries etc to gain entry to the country. Also videos of men giving advice for future asylum seekers on where to say you're from so that you can get in.

Also seen a lot of uproar from local communities about asylum seekers behaving anti-socially, most recently hanging around outside a primary school in Deanshanger and it's got me worried.
I'm also wondering why the large majority of asylum seekers are men and there are less women and children?

So, what's your opinion?

Also, this isn't a racist post. I would have the exact same concerns if these were white asylum seekers from Germany for example. The worry is the system is being abused by some and that we are a bit too lax when it comes to documentation and monitoring of asylum seekers.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14058597/Fake-asylum-seekers-conning-way-Britain-telling-Home-Office-war-torn-Eritrea-bragging-thousands-followers-TikTok.html

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14185169/amp/Four-asylum-seekers-costing-taxpayer-estimated-160-000-year-living-575-000-luxury-home-accused-faking-Afghan-nationalities-UK.html

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Veronay · 29/01/2025 16:42

Digdongdoo · 29/01/2025 14:45

If by "better" you mean - took anything of any value, dismantled any existing power and leadership structures, then fucked off and left a few nice buildings and roads behind. Then sure. "Better".

Some roads and other basics like medicine, hygiene, laws yeah...

Veronay · 29/01/2025 16:37

mollyfolk · 29/01/2025 16:09

@Dontletthebedbugsbite2

I can well imagine being put out if I'm working, contributing to the system and then a family arrives and is given a full health check & a nice home.

This does not happen. Accommodation given to asylum seekers in temporary in nature, often a room in a hotel or some other communal type situation.

They are not getting houses or homes. They have no security of tenure and can and are moved around with little notice.

Do you think they are forever in temporary accommodation years after moving here? The main reason house prices and rent are overinflated is because our population is increasing at an unnatural rate due to uncontrolled immigration. Being in a hotel or something similar is the initial accommodation before they are allocated housing.

Daisychainsforme · 29/01/2025 16:34

Digdongdoo · 29/01/2025 16:27

You're being a bit ridiculous. We don't need to have invented it, to have, in some cases, caused it.

a) I don't agree and b) I really don't get your point.

It was said, quite clearly, that one of the the legacies of colonisation was Civil War.

It would be nice if the poster that said that could give some examples of this, as I was as a loss to find any.

Digdongdoo · 29/01/2025 16:27

Daisychainsforme · 29/01/2025 16:10

@User32459 I was talking about the effects of colonisation and you seem to be trying to be clever.

No, I'm engaging the discussion you started.

So I repeat - "Civil War - I am curious to know who were the 'Colonisers' during the English Civil War, the American Civil War, the Finnish Civil War, Russian Civil War, Greek Civil war etc etc ?"

You're being a bit ridiculous. We don't need to have invented it, to have, in some cases, caused it.

Feelslikewinter · 29/01/2025 16:15

username299 · 29/01/2025 15:44

I'm not sure what point you're trying to make. The British colonised a lot of the globe and were very cruel. To suggest that colonisation only brought good things when for many it had devastating consequences, is plain ignorance.

Why you're wittering on about two sexes is anyone's guess.

loads of posters are dog whistling trans stuff into any old argument these days - I think they genuinely believe that people will see it and think, ‘ah! This poster is anti-trans so they must also be sensible and right about any other topic they discuss’.

I mean, I guess it worked for some of the more abhorrent politicians, so might work here?

Daisychainsforme · 29/01/2025 16:13

@User32459 "Now you're saying that every single conflict in history must be the result of colonisation..."

Where did I say that?🤔

Daisychainsforme · 29/01/2025 16:10

@User32459 I was talking about the effects of colonisation and you seem to be trying to be clever.

No, I'm engaging the discussion you started.

So I repeat - "Civil War - I am curious to know who were the 'Colonisers' during the English Civil War, the American Civil War, the Finnish Civil War, Russian Civil War, Greek Civil war etc etc ?"

mollyfolk · 29/01/2025 16:09

@Dontletthebedbugsbite2

I can well imagine being put out if I'm working, contributing to the system and then a family arrives and is given a full health check & a nice home.

This does not happen. Accommodation given to asylum seekers in temporary in nature, often a room in a hotel or some other communal type situation.

They are not getting houses or homes. They have no security of tenure and can and are moved around with little notice.

OneAmberFinch · 29/01/2025 16:09

username299 · 29/01/2025 15:44

I'm not sure what point you're trying to make. The British colonised a lot of the globe and were very cruel. To suggest that colonisation only brought good things when for many it had devastating consequences, is plain ignorance.

Why you're wittering on about two sexes is anyone's guess.

The counterfactual is "what if the British hadn't set foot in that country" and in very many places, the answer isn't "everyone was living in the garden of Eden and everything was wonderful".

Fair to discuss specific policies of British colonial administration in specific places and time periods (it varied quite a bit!) with respect to the prevailing conditions when the British arrived but this broad-brush "colonialism is the root of all evil" argument is tedious.

Daisychainsforme · 29/01/2025 16:06

@username299 The Brits didn't pay reparations to the victims though, just the owners.

They set the slaves free, and started a movement in the western world that other countries followed. Do you not agree with that?

ArtTheClown · 29/01/2025 16:05

I guess that means it's ok. The Brits didn't pay reparations to the victims though, just the owners.

Yes, it was the bank bailout of its day in that regard.

Daisychainsforme · 29/01/2025 16:03

MummytoE · 29/01/2025 15:25

More tongue in cheek I assume?? If not I suggest YOU do some proper research about British rule in India.

So are you saying that the British should not have banned Sati and infanticide?

I gather you aren't a supporter of women's rights then?

username299 · 29/01/2025 16:03

ArtTheClown · 29/01/2025 16:02

I was talking about the effects of colonisation and you seem to be trying to be clever. For example, you're saying that slavery existed before the British Empire as though that somehow negates it. Two things can exist at the same time 1. Slavery existed before the British Empire 2. Slavery was industrialised during the British Empire.

Slavery was also ended by Britain. Took the UK till I think 2014 to pay off that particular bill.

I guess that means it's ok. The Brits didn't pay reparations to the victims though, just the owners.

Dontletthebedbugsbite2 · 29/01/2025 16:02

It's a really tough topic I think. As a decent person I would say we should welcome asylum seekers & help them feel safe in our country. I think the issues stem from the amount it costs us, as a country & the decline in the general standard of living in the UK. If everyone is already struggling & fighting over resources I.e. social housing, NHS appointments then it can be easy to point fingers at people arriving & being given access to these things. This is a problem caused by the government & not by the individuals arriving. Certainly in my area social housing wait lists are decades long & I can well imagine being put out if I'm working, contributing to the system and then a family arrives and is given a full health check & a nice home. On the flip side, if I had to flee to safety with my children I would move heaven & earth to do so. I would like for people arriving to be integrated into society better, to be provided with jobs/training & not to be put with other people newly arrived & left to thier own devices all day- preventing them from mixing outwith their own groups.

ArtTheClown · 29/01/2025 16:02

I was talking about the effects of colonisation and you seem to be trying to be clever. For example, you're saying that slavery existed before the British Empire as though that somehow negates it. Two things can exist at the same time 1. Slavery existed before the British Empire 2. Slavery was industrialised during the British Empire.

Slavery was also ended by Britain. Took the UK till I think 2014 to pay off that particular bill.

username299 · 29/01/2025 16:00

Daisychainsforme · 29/01/2025 15:50

These events were not necessarily the result of colonisation.

Slavery ; The oldest known slave society was the Mesopotamian and Sumerian civilisations located in the Iran/Iraq region between 6000-2000BCE. Can you say who the 'colonisers' were?

Ethnic Cleansing - Although scholars do not agree on which events constitute ethnic cleansing.The term was first used to describe Albanian Nationalist treatment of the Kosovan Serbs in the 1980's.

Genocide was a term first used to describe the Holocaust 1941-45 which was not a result of 'colonisation'. Neither was the Rwandan Genocide1994, the Armenian Genocide 1915-16, The Cambodian Genocide 1975-1979, or the Guatomalian Genocide 1978-1983.

Mass murder and torture- see above ^

Civil War - I am curious to know who were the 'Colonisers' during the English Civil War, the American Civil War, the Finnish Civil War, Russian Civil War, Greek Civil war etc etc ?

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I was talking about the effects of colonisation and you seem to be trying to be clever. For example, you're saying that slavery existed before the British Empire as though that somehow negates it. Two things can exist at the same time 1. Slavery existed before the British Empire 2. Slavery was industrialised during the British Empire.

Scholars have a very clear understanding of what ethnic cleansing is and it's defined under international law. International law is a modern invention but that doesn't negate the fact that ethnic cleansing took place before the law

Genocide existed before the Holocaust, there wasn't an international law defining it until afterwards. That doesn't mean it didn't exist. If you don't think the Rwandan genocide wasn't caused by colonisation, I don't know what to tell you. Ignorance is bliss I guess.

Now you're saying that every single conflict in history must be the result of colonisation...

ArtTheClown · 29/01/2025 15:59

Slavery, ethnic cleansing, genocide, mass murder, torture and civil war are the legacy of colonisation.

This really isn't true, you know. It will remain untrue no matter how many people confidently assert it on tiktok.

There's a reason we no longer share Earth with Neanderthal humans, for instance. Yes, many humans have some residual DNA, so there was some inbreeding, but mostly we wiped them out.

Slaves built the pyramids.

Plenty of evidence of torture as an instrument of social control that pre-dates colonialism, or has nothing to do with it, eg the Spanish Inquisition, and it was standard in England at the time as well.

Civil war, I mean there have been plenty of civil wars in England alone that pre-date colonialism.

There's a current trend of thinking white Western cultures are the root of all evil but it's nonsense. It's actually a deeply racist way of thinking, assuming that non-Western cultures are childlike beings with no agency of their own.

Daisychainsforme · 29/01/2025 15:50

username299 · 29/01/2025 15:09

Slavery, ethnic cleansing, genocide, mass murder, torture and civil war are the legacy of colonisation.

These events were not necessarily the result of colonisation.

Slavery ; The oldest known slave society was the Mesopotamian and Sumerian civilisations located in the Iran/Iraq region between 6000-2000BCE. Can you say who the 'colonisers' were?

Ethnic Cleansing - Although scholars do not agree on which events constitute ethnic cleansing.The term was first used to describe Albanian Nationalist treatment of the Kosovan Serbs in the 1980's.

Genocide was a term first used to describe the Holocaust 1941-45 which was not a result of 'colonisation'. Neither was the Rwandan Genocide1994, the Armenian Genocide 1915-16, The Cambodian Genocide 1975-1979, or the Guatomalian Genocide 1978-1983.

Mass murder and torture- see above ^

Civil War - I am curious to know who were the 'Colonisers' during the English Civil War, the American Civil War, the Finnish Civil War, Russian Civil War, Greek Civil war etc etc ?

username299 · 29/01/2025 15:44

OneAmberFinch · 29/01/2025 15:31

Oh yup, those things famously never happened until the British invented them.

Is this like how the British also invented the concept of having two sexes?

I'm not sure what point you're trying to make. The British colonised a lot of the globe and were very cruel. To suggest that colonisation only brought good things when for many it had devastating consequences, is plain ignorance.

Why you're wittering on about two sexes is anyone's guess.

ladymactíre · 29/01/2025 15:41

username299 · 29/01/2025 15:09

Slavery, ethnic cleansing, genocide, mass murder, torture and civil war are the legacy of colonisation.

Not at all. It happened before and after, all over the world

OneAmberFinch · 29/01/2025 15:31

username299 · 29/01/2025 15:09

Slavery, ethnic cleansing, genocide, mass murder, torture and civil war are the legacy of colonisation.

Oh yup, those things famously never happened until the British invented them.

Is this like how the British also invented the concept of having two sexes?

MummytoE · 29/01/2025 15:25

Daisychainsforme · 29/01/2025 14:50

My post was rather toungue-in-cheek.

The British left many of their colonies in a better state than when they arrived.

In India, for example, in December 1829, Lord William Bentinck, the first governor general of British-ruled India, banned sati, the ancient Hindu practice of a widow being required to throw herself on her husband's funeral pyre to burn to death.

The British also banned the sacrifice of new-born babies to the goddess Kali.

In addition they built schools, roads, railways and introduced law & order and medicine.

In the 6 months to June of last year Vietamese made up the largest % of small boat arrivals to UK. Vietnam is not and never has been a British Colony. It became a French colony in 1858.
So go figure that one out.

You should do your some research before you post such uninformed material.

More tongue in cheek I assume?? If not I suggest YOU do some proper research about British rule in India.

username299 · 29/01/2025 15:09

ladymactíre · 29/01/2025 14:36

I think all colonial powers left the colonies in better state. Better infrastructure, literacy, economy, trade, technology. I'm not British, nor from another "colonial" country :), but I don't understand this auto-flagellation. History is made of bad and good, and everybody had their share of both.

Slavery, ethnic cleansing, genocide, mass murder, torture and civil war are the legacy of colonisation.

Daisychainsforme · 29/01/2025 14:50

MummytoE · 29/01/2025 12:34

Was meant to quote a pp who had said British people should go to Italy lol

My post was rather toungue-in-cheek.

The British left many of their colonies in a better state than when they arrived.

In India, for example, in December 1829, Lord William Bentinck, the first governor general of British-ruled India, banned sati, the ancient Hindu practice of a widow being required to throw herself on her husband's funeral pyre to burn to death.

The British also banned the sacrifice of new-born babies to the goddess Kali.

In addition they built schools, roads, railways and introduced law & order and medicine.

In the 6 months to June of last year Vietamese made up the largest % of small boat arrivals to UK. Vietnam is not and never has been a British Colony. It became a French colony in 1858.
So go figure that one out.

You should do your some research before you post such uninformed material.

Digdongdoo · 29/01/2025 14:45

ladymactíre · 29/01/2025 14:36

I think all colonial powers left the colonies in better state. Better infrastructure, literacy, economy, trade, technology. I'm not British, nor from another "colonial" country :), but I don't understand this auto-flagellation. History is made of bad and good, and everybody had their share of both.

If by "better" you mean - took anything of any value, dismantled any existing power and leadership structures, then fucked off and left a few nice buildings and roads behind. Then sure. "Better".

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