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What's your thoughts on asylum seekers?

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Lynds778 · 28/01/2025 09:09

I'm all for offering asylum to those genuinely in need but I've seen a lot of negative media recently around 'fake' asylum seekers; people pretending to be from war-torn countries etc to gain entry to the country. Also videos of men giving advice for future asylum seekers on where to say you're from so that you can get in.

Also seen a lot of uproar from local communities about asylum seekers behaving anti-socially, most recently hanging around outside a primary school in Deanshanger and it's got me worried.
I'm also wondering why the large majority of asylum seekers are men and there are less women and children?

So, what's your opinion?

Also, this isn't a racist post. I would have the exact same concerns if these were white asylum seekers from Germany for example. The worry is the system is being abused by some and that we are a bit too lax when it comes to documentation and monitoring of asylum seekers.

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14058597/Fake-asylum-seekers-conning-way-Britain-telling-Home-Office-war-torn-Eritrea-bragging-thousands-followers-TikTok.html

www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-14185169/amp/Four-asylum-seekers-costing-taxpayer-estimated-160-000-year-living-575-000-luxury-home-accused-faking-Afghan-nationalities-UK.html

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tonyhawks23 · 28/01/2025 11:23

Meecrowahvey · 28/01/2025 11:22

What does this have to do with asylum seekers?

yes really not understanding this? vapings asylum seekers faults? cant see an issue with nail bars? your going to have to explain.

apologies quoting PP really...

Meecrowahvey · 28/01/2025 11:22

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What does this have to do with asylum seekers?

tonyhawks23 · 28/01/2025 11:20

Hoppinggreen · 28/01/2025 11:17

I agree, it would be great if I could pick and choose which tax to pay and only pay for things I agree with and/or use personally

So what we do instead, to make it less chaos, is vote in a government with an idea of what they plan to spend on what. Its democracy.

rewilded · 28/01/2025 11:20

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Tryingtoberreasonable · 28/01/2025 11:19

Also there is actually a programme on this week where people from the UK go to said countries and experience what is actually going on. I have no idea whether this will be bias but I thought it would be an interesting watch. Will be on channel 4 (I am not mega knowledgeable on the political bias of different TV channels so apologies if this is something that could potentially be swayed)

www.radiotimes.com/tv/documentaries/go-back-came-from-date-newsupdate/

Personally I am all for people seeking asylum, I genuinely do not think mothers and families would themselves and their children onto boats/lorries with no food or essentials and face possible fatality… just to take advantage of benefits elsewhere. You do it because you feel there is no other way.

Unfortunately there will be people that do understand the system and do try to take advantage of this however it is for the UK government and teams that deal with this to try and identify this. Similarly there are UK citizens that also take advantage of the system just because they can and they get away with it.

unlimiteddilutingjuice · 28/01/2025 11:19
  1. disabled children already in the country should be afforded a school place
  2. people already in the country waiting for their disability claim shouldn’t be waiting ages and be denied when it is over turned by tribunal in the end
  3. people already in the country who have been on waiting lists for housing should get affordable council housing
  4. People already in the country should have access to the amenities and be able to get regular GP appointments and healthcare
  5. People already in the country should get to live in safe places without antisocial behaviour, with enough money to live on that’s not just existing
I could go on

Completely agree.

Jellycatspyjamas · 28/01/2025 11:19

@Lovelybitofsquirrel3 still not in the millions - where are you getting your figures from?

OneAmberFinch · 28/01/2025 11:18

Lovelybitofsquirrel3 · 28/01/2025 11:12

I’ve realised I’ve gotten confused between immigration and asylum seekers.

A lot of people do, don't worry about it. I think a lot of people's concern about asylum seeking is actually a more general concern that our overall immigration system is consuming more resources and contributing to more cultural decline (e.g. loss of high trust society) than advertised.

Hoppinggreen · 28/01/2025 11:17

tonyhawks23 · 28/01/2025 11:16

I mean that ones obvious! if we have a voluntary tax for that why not one for not paying for NHS if we use private healthcare; one for not paying for state schools if we dont have kids/go private, one for making sure we dont pay for healthcare smokers, dangerous sports, car drivers, one for not subsidising the dairy industry if we are vegan, one for not paying for war if we are pacifist etc etc. We are a society. We help us all.

I agree, it would be great if I could pick and choose which tax to pay and only pay for things I agree with and/or use personally

tonyhawks23 · 28/01/2025 11:16

Julen7 · 28/01/2025 11:13

This. Come on all you asylum seeking defenders, how about it?

I mean that ones obvious! if we have a voluntary tax for that why not one for not paying for NHS if we use private healthcare; one for not paying for state schools if we dont have kids/go private, one for making sure we dont pay for healthcare smokers, dangerous sports, car drivers, one for not subsidising the dairy industry if we are vegan, one for not paying for war if we are pacifist etc etc. We are a society. We help us all.

Julen7 · 28/01/2025 11:13

Lasttraintolondon · 28/01/2025 10:56

I think I feel sorry for them.

I also think I pay tons in tax and all the public services are falling apart, the country is getting in more debt, and we shouldn't take any more in.

Anyone who wants to pay for them should have a voluntary opt-in higher tax rate. It's all very easy when you're spending other people's money.

This. Come on all you asylum seeking defenders, how about it?

Lovelybitofsquirrel3 · 28/01/2025 11:12

PandoraSox · 28/01/2025 10:59

Oh. I see. I think "millions" of refugees "arriving regularly" is exaggerating it just a tiny bit.

"Between 2004 and 2020, there were between 22,000 and 46,000 people claiming asylum in the UK each year. However, since the second half of 2021, there has been a noticeable increase, reaching a peak of almost 103,000 in the year ending March 2023"

www.gov.uk/government/statistics/immigration-system-statistics-year-ending-september-2024/how-many-people-claim-asylum-in-the-uk

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I’ve realised I’ve gotten confused between immigration and asylum seekers.

PoisedRedPombear · 28/01/2025 11:11

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tonyhawks23 · 28/01/2025 11:10

Lovelybitofsquirrel3 · 28/01/2025 11:06

  1. disabled children already in the country should be afforded a school place
  2. people already in the country waiting for their disability claim shouldn’t be waiting ages and be denied when it is over turned by tribunal in the end
  3. people already in the country who have been on waiting lists for housing should get affordable council housing
  4. People already in the country should have access to the amenities and be able to get regular GP appointments and healthcare
  5. People already in the country should get to live in safe places without antisocial behaviour, with enough money to live on that’s not just existing
I could go on

So, could we do it all if we taxed the rich. Reminding you of the cookies here.

tonyhawks23 · 28/01/2025 11:09

TY78910 · 28/01/2025 11:08

There is a new (I think channel 4) programme coming soon that takes the "get these asylum seekers out" people and takes them to some of the countries to see how it is and what they are fleeing from. Very interested to watch that.

oh that does sound good.

TY78910 · 28/01/2025 11:08

There is a new (I think channel 4) programme coming soon that takes the "get these asylum seekers out" people and takes them to some of the countries to see how it is and what they are fleeing from. Very interested to watch that.

Lovelybitofsquirrel3 · 28/01/2025 11:06

unlimiteddilutingjuice · 28/01/2025 10:58

I think, in general, immigration is inevitable because of modern transport.
Any and all immigration restrictions are a desperate rear guard action against that.

We have an obligation under international law to take in refugees and because of that we have to have an asylum system to work out which ones are genuine.
The asylum system as a whole is much harsher than most people realise.

But, if immigration by other means is restricted then people will use the processes open to them. And yes, that includes people who are economic migrants rather than refugees (although the distinction is blurrier than you might think).

In my opinion there's a few things that can be done better:

  1. Much faster initial decisions on asylum claims (don't leave people hanging around in limbo for ever)
  2. Asylum seekers should be housed in ordinary council housing. Not prison ships, not old office blocks, not shitty private accommodation outsourced to some facilities management company. Large groups of socially excluded young men hanging about in one place is not great- as PP have pointed out.
  3. Asylum seekers should be housed in areas with enough housing and services for them. Dispersal to Glasgow actually worked really well when 50% of its housing stock was social housing. Then became more of a problem when the largest housing association started demolishing its stock. Now there are predictable tensions over resources.
  4. Point 3 depends on improving housing and public services across the board. For native population and newcomers. That needs to happen anyway; immigration or not.
  5. Put some effort into facilitating integration. People integrate better when they have enough money, something productive to do and when they live among the native population, not in ghettos. And on top of that, specific services like ESOL.
  6. Have a think about things which are likely to cause tensions and plan not to do them. I know of a tower block where all the tenants were decanted (whether that's what they wanted or not), told that the block would be demolished. Later on the block was refitted and let out as asylum seeker accommodation. It was done thoughtlessly to deal with an intimidate crisis. But what does that look like to the people who were moved out?! If you were trying to create racial tensions on purpose you couldn't have done better.
  7. More effort and resources into people smuggling gangs. Noone should be drowning to death in the English channel.
  1. disabled children already in the country should be afforded a school place
  2. people already in the country waiting for their disability claim shouldn’t be waiting ages and be denied when it is over turned by tribunal in the end
  3. people already in the country who have been on waiting lists for housing should get affordable council housing
  4. People already in the country should have access to the amenities and be able to get regular GP appointments and healthcare
  5. People already in the country should get to live in safe places without antisocial behaviour, with enough money to live on that’s not just existing
I could go on
Alondra · 28/01/2025 11:05

Few of us understand why so many people fly their war torn countries. It's not simply having a better standard of living for their children, it's genuine fear for their lives.

Children are being massacred by bombs, lack of hospital care and malnutrition all over the world. Our countries need to make a difference between people wanting a better financial life without their lives being at risk, and the hundred of thousands fleeing for their lives. Not easy.

But not being easy doesn't mean we've lost understanding the awful situation of refugees. As long as wars keep happening, as long as wars keep targeting civilian populations for political gains, as long as innocent people and their children are at risk of being exterminated, our countries need to accept refugees.

Feelslikewinter · 28/01/2025 11:05

Lovelybitofsquirrel3 · 28/01/2025 10:50

Are you joking? There are entire towns of refugees being housed in the UK

Where? Which entire towns are made up of refugees?

Or do you mean that there are the equivalent of entire towns of refugees?

Refugees make up approximately 0.6% of the uk population.

That isn’t very much at all.

If you really mean migrants, then they make up an average of 16% of the population, with higher numbers in London - about 40-45% of people there are not born in the UK.

Most migrants aren’t allowed to access public funds and have to, for example, pay a fee to use the NHS.

Asylum seekers can’t work until they have been processed, so get housed and an allowance of just over £5 per day.

Fordian · 28/01/2025 11:05

Treatwell · 28/01/2025 09:26

The UK has created a lot of these asylum seekers by meddling in other countries.

The west has often been clear of these counties for many many decades. The regimes that filled the power and economic vacuums have been almost universally malign and corrupt.

I'm not feeling any white guilt, but you do you.

tonyhawks23 · 28/01/2025 11:04

Fordian · 28/01/2025 11:03

I was all 'kum-bah-yah' about asylum seekers until the council housed a bunch in my local town. Suddenly, street corners were filled with groups of African and Middle Eastern men in their early 20s in hoodies hissing under their breath as they leered at 12 year old school girls in uniform as they had to step into the road to get past these groups.

Nope.

yes you dont sound very kum bah yah at all.

HeronWing · 28/01/2025 11:03

dottiehens · 28/01/2025 11:00

People should recognised by now the standard answers of the people invested in protecting and defending the indefensible.
I personally have seen and heard enough and lived through the changes for worse and reasons in this country. I really do not need a bunch of agenda pushers to tell me what is really happening.

Do tell, @dottiehens — why is anyone on here invested in ‘defending and protecting’ the right of people to seek asylum?

Fordian · 28/01/2025 11:03

I was all 'kum-bah-yah' about asylum seekers until the council housed a bunch in my local town. Suddenly, street corners were filled with groups of African and Middle Eastern men in their early 20s in hoodies hissing under their breath as they leered at 12 year old school girls in uniform as they had to step into the road to get past these groups.

Nope.

OneAmberFinch · 28/01/2025 11:02

Bagpussnotbothered · 28/01/2025 10:34

The problem in this country is that 'refugees' are conflated with 'illegal migrants.' When the Daily Mail rants on about people taking advantage of us, they rarely mention Indian nationals, for example (our biggest legal migrant group for work and study, according to ONS).

The UK is one of the few countries in Europe not to use ID cards, and this makes it easier for the black economy to flourish, which is where a lot of people go. If we are serious about cracking down on illegal migration and people trafficking, we need to:
a) Set up a processing centre at Calais. Stop the sea deaths
b) Give border control more resources. It's not fair to ask people to put their life on hold for years while their claim is processed
c) Introduce ID cards.

This all takes money and time, which is why it gets ignored.

Most refugees stay local, which makes sense as the language and climate will be similar, it's safer, and there is less travelling involved. If England were torn apart in a civil war, I would more likely flee to Wales or Ireland than to Eastern Europe. Turkey and Iran host massive amounts of refugees from Syria and Afghanistan for that reason.

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This is true. There are potentially three different groups who tend to attract negative attention:

  • Asylum seekers/refugees
  • Illegal migrants, usually in the UK after overstaying a legitimate visa and disappearing into the irregular economy
  • Legal migrants who didn't pass a very high bar to enter (e.g. visa mill university students, low wage care workers on sponsored work visas)

(I also see a fourth category - my own - highly skilled legal migrants who take very high-paying jobs in tech, finance etc from locals. But that's a different conversation)

PandoraSox · 28/01/2025 11:02

dottiehens · 28/01/2025 11:00

People should recognised by now the standard answers of the people invested in protecting and defending the indefensible.
I personally have seen and heard enough and lived through the changes for worse and reasons in this country. I really do not need a bunch of agenda pushers to tell me what is really happening.

I really do not need a bunch of agenda pushers to tell me what is really happening

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