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Aibu to kick off?

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MrsMummy00 · 27/01/2025 21:03

So this is going to sound a bit wierd. I’ve been with hubby 12 years. He’s got history of talking to women etc. we’re trying to get past it. So nothing has happened recently as far as im aware. Lately though, he’s been with this boy at work he’s quite a bit younger than him, he’s single and is on the look out for a girl. There both on TikTok, as am I and I was scrolling through lives and his mate was on live and my husband was in the chat and this mate saw I joined and said ‘oh is this your wife joined’ and my husband said yes and then this mate said oh you better be good then. I left as I was sorting the kids out but my minds racing, I’ve asked him and he’s basically said it’s just boy banter. Do you think he’s being truthful or do you think he’s up to something?

to be fair I signed in on my daughters profile and u went on it there, and I could see just general chit chat about work and stuff so I know nothing got said then but I’m thinking has he spoke to girls before on there with him is that why he’s saying it?

Aibu to kick off or take it just as banter?

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CrestWhite · 27/01/2025 21:06

It does sound like your overthinking it, but his past will do that.

greengreyblue · 27/01/2025 21:05

How old is your DH? Sounds very immature. Why is he chatting to a young boy at work when he’s at home with you ? And the history of ‘ talking to women’ means what? Chatting them up?

Snowmanscarf · 27/01/2025 21:05

I think that’s just banter, and just something people say.