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PC taking role too far

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TheMumEdit · 27/01/2025 12:52

I’m new to school life but accept most have parent councils. They do a great job. I’m surprised however how much they seem to control. Regular emails come from
them via the school office which I don’t think is appropriate. It’s a constant money grab. It’s of course voluntary but worded to make you feel terrible if you don’t contribute.

Today we got an email telling us of the acceptable use policy for their WA group - I’m astonished they took the time to even think this was necessary. Two pages of rules . The wa group runs well with a few little disagreements but nothing out of the usual. We’ve now been told that questions should only be answered by PC members and no general chat. Completely ignoring the fact that in the last week alone two of the PC gave wrong info!!! But under these rules we’ve to let it be!!

Are all PC’s this rigid ? I feel they suck the fun right out of what was a good idea. The chat is not formally ran by the school so no idea why the school agreed to send the message with the rules.

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TheMumEdit · 27/01/2025 18:49

APurpleSquirrel · 27/01/2025 18:47

Is the Parent Council equivalent to a PTA?

Yes. It’s the same thing but just parents so no teachers

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TheMumEdit · 27/01/2025 18:49

”they” are parents. Who come and go as their children leave the school. The last elected have done an amazing job but sadly this lot are controlling to the point what was a lovely group has been overshadowed

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APurpleSquirrel · 27/01/2025 18:47

Is the Parent Council equivalent to a PTA?

OneDenimRobin · 27/01/2025 18:45

It’s their WA group. You can always set up a casual one if you want a general chat.

TheMumEdit · 27/01/2025 18:41

Extract:

Relevant and Concise Messaging

  • Keep messages relevant to the group's purpose. Unrelated topics or personal conversations should be taken to private messages.
  • Limit the use of "latent texts," such as single-word responses (e.g., "OK,"
  • "Thanks"), emojis, or short acknowledgments that do not contribute to the conversation. These messages can clutter the chat and make it harder for members to follow important updates.
  • If you want to acknowledge a message, consider using the "like" or "react" feature instead of sending a new message.
  1. Announcements and Notifications
  • When sharing important information or announcements, please ensure that the details are clear and concise.
  • Avoid repeating information unless necessary. This helps to keep the chat organized and prevents information overload.
  1. Timing of Messages
  • Be mindful of the time when sending messages. Unless it is urgent, please avoid sending messages late at night or early in the morning.
  • Consider the impact of notifications on other members, especially during weekends and holidays.
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TheMumEdit · 27/01/2025 18:32

It’s only parent on the chat. Primary in the UK so age 4-11 roughly

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CatsWhiskerz · 27/01/2025 17:37

Also is PC just parents?
I'd be inclined to tell them to do one and remove all these overly controlling twatty parents involved in the parents WhatsApp

CatsWhiskerz · 27/01/2025 17:31

They want to control you using WhatsApp?

aprayeratatime · 27/01/2025 17:01

Praise the Lord we are home ed now and all these losers are behind my ass

Love51 · 27/01/2025 16:56

What fresh hell is this?
What country are you in? What phase of education?

They were not ignoring the response to wrong information. They were responding to it! Badly.

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