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To think UK jobs are on the whole badly paid and IDK how a lot of people are managing

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AnonymousBleep · 27/01/2025 11:31

I know there are some industries/roles where the money is good, ie tech and finance, but roles in the civil service, public sector, marketing and creative industries are absolutely woeful. I was thinking about moving (as haven't had a payrise in three years) but there are hardly any jobs in my sector worth applying for, and I can see from Linkedin that they've all had hundreds of applicants anyway. The average salary is abour £30K but that'll be bumped up by including London salaries - which actually don't go far as London is insanely expensive. £30K (roughly £2K a month after tax) doesn't go far at all either in the rest of the South East - especially as the cost of living is still continuing to soar. Everything is expensive - went into Superdrug yesterday to get some toiletries for my teens and was shocked at how expensive cleansers etc are now (just as a random example), and food seems to go up every week. How are people managing?

Am I wrong? Maybe Mumsnet has given me a weird lens on this as there seem to be a lot of very well paid people on here!

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AnonymousBleep · 27/01/2025 11:39

I am OK on my salary plus child support but it doesn't leave any money for extras like holidays - I freelance to pay for those. I have that option in my industry but tbh it means I'm doing a full-time job and a half. It does seem a bit mad that you can be a highly qualified professional (I have a Masters) and still need to do two jobs to provide a fairly basic standard of living for your kids.

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Miq · 27/01/2025 11:39

I'm looking at emigrating. I can't believe it's come to this - I love my home. But there's just no opportunity here. There's no tech jobs in the UK either any more so sorry to take that dream away. We are all leaving because of it. Many people in my network are going to the US and Singapore.

shockeditellyou · 27/01/2025 11:37

Because food is dirt cheap here compared to the EU, education and healthcare are free, and in work benefits are quite generous.

Also - there are a significant number of people who are in social housing, own their own home outright, or have been in the house long enough that the mortgage is manageable.

LeafofLorien · 27/01/2025 11:35

I think a lot of people aren't managing (see cost of living crisis). I work in healthcare (NHS) so not great pay but I've got up to a relatively high banding so I'm comfortable. My trick was to move to North West where housing is much cheaper but my salary is the same to make it go a bit further. I've also decided not to have kids because me and partner can't afford for 1 of us to not work to provide childcare and couldn't see a feasible way to make it work.