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To think neighbour should shift tree asap?

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Moveyourbloodytree · 26/01/2025 23:02

Enormous conifer tree of neighbours came down in the storm on Friday. It didn't look unstable or unhealthy to be fair.

It was planted very close to the boundary between our gardens and it has fallen straight across our garden horizontally. Luckily not much damage caused apart from an old piece of play equipment that’s no longer used. It is however completely blocking access to half of our garden and our shed.

Neighbour was out at the time so popped a polite note through the door with our numbers so they could arrange access and whatnot. We’re on polite terms with them but don’t see much of them really.

Transpires his grand plan to get this 40+ foot tree out of our garden is for him and DH to chainsaw it themselves and use our green bin and his to remove it. Pointed out that we couldn’t even get to our shed to access our chainsaw and even if we could there’s not a cats chance in hell the blade would go through the trunk. He just shrugged nonchalantly and said it would get sorted.

AIBU to be annoyed that his tree falling in our garden somehow means we’ve got to pitch in sorting it and if I’m NBU how do I politely tell him he’s crackers if he thinks there’s any solution bar him putting his hand in his pocket and paying for a company to come deal with it?

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PizzaPunk · 26/01/2025 23:06

It's doubtful he'll get anyone to sort it this early on after the storm, as they're all busy and charging extortionate money.

But yes, he does need to sort it without your husband's help.

BarbaraHoward · 26/01/2025 23:04

YANBU but tbh I'd let him try and he'll learn! It'll be hard to get anyone yet anyway so no point rushing him just yet. We lost a couple of roof tiles and everyone is very much in demand as you'd expect!

AmandaHoldensLips · 26/01/2025 23:03

They should claim on their house insurance to get it removed.