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To think it’s really annoying when ppl make unannounced visits

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empee47 · 26/01/2025 14:35

Particularly on a Sunday afternoon? Husband out, finally got both kids round table to do homework, nipped to loo, relatives came in and sat down and are wanting entertained. I’ve had to drop everything. Oh we won’t stop long - they’ve been here for an hour already 🙈

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thepariscrimefiles · 26/01/2025 14:41

Did they just let themselves in while you were in the toilet? If so, that's really rude.

CatsForGovernment · 26/01/2025 14:39

I don't allow unannounced visitors. I've told everyone I know that I need advance notice.

My in-laws were a bit perplexed as they all have an open door policy, but I was firm and they were fine about it (apart from some slightly passive aggressive joking).

I understand some people don't mind, but I do. And it's an okay boundary to have.

user1471526265 · 26/01/2025 14:39

YANBU. I hate it too. It's usually my parents. They don't seem to grasp that I may be at home but I work from home. Other family members do it a bit too, but with 10 or 15 minutes notice in a "oh we'll be passing you soon, so we'll stop by. Won't stay long". 2 hours later.......

Redcandlescandal · 26/01/2025 14:39

How did this happen? Do they have a key? Take it back!! Then you just don’t answer the door if it’s inconvenient.

VotingForYourself · 26/01/2025 14:36

Most people hate this so when it happens I always assume they really need to see me for something reason. Perhaps lonely. Perhaps bad news they want to share.

shellyleppard · 26/01/2025 14:36

I'd be saying thanks for stopping by but we have plans...... really annoying though

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