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Firebox64 · 26/01/2025 13:44

I bought a newspaper in my local independent newsagent yesterday morning. Up on the shelf, but not particularly out of eye line was a set of soft porn magazines including one labelled "100s of Teen Girls Naked Just For You." I stood for a long moment, knowing exactly what would happen if I objected, and then I thought, I can't walk past this. I said to the shop keeper that I thought it wasn't very nice to be selling something like that. The response was aggressive and nonsensical of course, and ended with shouted insults that I am a child and need to grow up. (I am 60.) Grow up...like those teens?

All advice is that this material is not illegal. Neither are knives: how's that going?

There is an obvious slobbery implication here about underage sex. Does anyone know if there is any organisation or campaign that is working to ban this kind of sewage?

I have put a post on the community facebook page, I've contacted my very wonderful MP and I've written to the Chamber of Commerce and Trading Standards. I 'phoned 101 for advice and they said contact the publisher - yes, that's really going to work isn't it?

I was privileged to work with brilliant young people for the whole of my career. I cannot bear to see this perverted view of them being sold as legal merchandise. Any (legal!) suggestions about anything else I could do would be so welcome.

AIBU - this is legal and we just have to put up with it?

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TheDandyLion · 26/01/2025 14:04

There has always been porn on the top shelf. At least its not in the park bushes like it was in the 80s and 90s.

AIBot · 26/01/2025 14:00

Yep, consumer boycott. I don’t imagine the shop is profiting very much. Most of this type of material is online for free, or can be bought more easily from various platforms.

Kids coming in shouldn’t see this kind of thing normalised.

Firebox64 · 26/01/2025 14:00

Thank you for supportive and responses and advice: these are also coming through on the community Facebook page. Oh, and the man who can't see what the problem is because sex is legal at 16...

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LittleRedRidingHoody · 26/01/2025 13:56

I don't think you can do anything, except strongly recommend people boycott the newsagents - could you also do something like a local petition so you can show the newsagent owner what's driving the change in trade?

At the end of the day they'll be driven by how much money they're taking, so if there's enough support locally to 'hit them where it hurts' they may stop selling those magazines.

Firebox64 · 26/01/2025 13:55

I 'phoned to get advice about what the best response would be, knowing that this is not a criminal offence.

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Greenbottle123 · 26/01/2025 13:52

Did you phone the police to report the magazine or the aggressive shop keeper?

orangewasp · 26/01/2025 13:49

I've no idea what you can do but it's disgusting and sordid and shouldn't be allowed.

Greenbottle123 · 26/01/2025 13:46

You phoned the police??

Nicknacky · 26/01/2025 13:46

What did you think the police could do?

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